Hello, a 25-year-old woman, four months pregnant, wrote to you. I will tell you my story and ask for advice, I am already at the limit of my strength. I have been in a relationship for 7 years with a 27-year-old man. Our love was like in the movies, where we supposedly meet our soulmate. We grew up together and went through all sorts of difficulties, we never fought for the two of us. We broke up twice, but our love was strong, or so I thought.
Last year we decided it was time for more serious action, we lived together and decided to have a baby (we lived with theirs for a year, we separated and when we got together I only went to visit them). So we decided to separate, they have a second apartment, a small studio, quite enough for an initial home, while we get on our feet. We had to do it, and the furniture would be from my mother, so she would help us. I got pregnant in early December 2019, but I found out on January 10, 2020.
It was real happiness for me, I guess for him, there is no greater joy than children. We told my mother and father (I suddenly lost my father last year). At home, when they found out that there would be a baby, they were in euphoria, for the first time in a year they had a ray of light ... After we said home, we went up to my friend and there we announced a baby, exactly 2 minutes his mother was happy and his father was blown away and didn't even greet us, only his sister was happy from the bottom of her heart. After those two minutes, his mother stood in front of me and asked me: "And why will you move out, do you know how expensive everything is, you will make repairs for me, strollers and baskets for the baby, milk - stay here with us until the baby grows up and then do whatever you want.
And he said many more things, at one point I stopped listening. And just to clarify that I work, my friend too, we get good salaries. He doesn't stop walking to them, my friend goes to the villages, there they work constantly, they commit every free second of it is busy, here go do it, for me, of course, there is no time and no ... After his mother said why would you move out the next day I came down to us and no more I went there ... My mother talked to his father on the phone, I didn't know she would call him, she said let's help the children, to tighten the apartment, the baby is waiting, they are sitting apart ...
And since then my man hasn't called me anymore, I tried, I called, I wrote, we met and he had a terrible attitude and attitude to me, attuned, he says you are guilty, you do not come to us, your mother wanted to help you, but you did not understand. This was our last conversation. Nor do we care how we are with the baby, who takes us for a consultation, nothing. He totally ignored me and wrote me off and I feel terrible.
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