Hi, I feel dumb and decided to share here. I work abroad on a farm. I'm 21 years old. There are a lot of young people here and an acquaintance from the farm had a birthday and invited me. I wasn't prepared at all and I didn't bring her a present at the time with the idea of going to town the next day to get her something. But I didn't tell her I would give it to her later, I just went and congratulated her without a gift. I sat next to her, in the beginning I had a very good time, we talked to her, we went out together for a while. In the middle of the evening, several of her friends, her relatives, made a joke and gave her 4 cherries and said that she had no money for anything else. Then they gave her a perfume of 200 pounds, I don't know if that was the reason, that I went without a gift, but then she started to behave very cool, she stands next to me and doesn't talk to me, gets up to dance, doesn't reflect me, nor cheers, nor to anything. I just felt very dumb, I felt bad all the time. Why then did she invite me, if she will behave like that. I don't find it normal, and far from polite. I left at 00:00, but I'm sorry, I had to get home earlier. Has anything like this happened to you and do you think that I take things very inwardly and too personally. I try not to think so, I tell myself I will not take it personally, but I admit that I am disappointed. Finally, as I was leaving, I informed her, hugged her and she told me that she was glad I had left, and I replied that I was too. But I was not left with good feelings at all .. Has anything like this happened to you and do you think that I take things very inwardly and too personally. I try not to think so, I tell myself I will not take it personally, but I admit that I am disappointed. Finally, as I was leaving, I informed her, hugged her and she told me that she was glad I had left, and I replied that I was too. But I was not left with good feelings at all .. Has anything like this happened to you and do you think that I take things very inwardly and too personally. I try not to think so, I tell myself I will not take it personally, but I admit that I am disappointed. Finally, as I was leaving, I informed her, hugged her and she told me that she was glad I had left, and I replied that I was too. But I was not left with good feelings at all ..