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If It's Your First Time With A Man?!?

By phil1999_german October 28, 2020 33 answers Last updated October 28, 2020

Before you ask - no, I'm not gay, I don't consider myself a bi. I have a friend who is bisexual and he suggested to me if I wanted to go backwards. However, there is one problem - we are already 18, but I am still a virgin. I like girls, but they don't seem to like me. They only accept me as a friend, and I have a hell of a lot of sex. I know that in BG many heterosexual men have done it with gays or bisexuals and still like women. Would I be wrong to accept my friend's offer The problem is that I don't know if it wouldn't hurt to be a straight man who had sex with a man for the first time. Do you think there are such men? Please, if there are hetero men here who are having a man for the first time, but they are not gay and they like women to advise me!

Answers 33

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terapixel answered · October 28, 2020

   Dude, how are you going to pick him up with a man if you're straight ...

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cacausitruk answered · October 28, 2020

   I think it's stupid to use a man as an inflatable doll - to satisfy the urge. Better a poor horse than no horse at all.

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calipinay7 answered · October 28, 2020

   The decision is yours, if you want to do it, no one will judge you

4
nailstorming answered · October 28, 2020

   If you like it and want to do it with hairy bullshit, then you are gay.

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veryhornybiguy answered · October 28, 2020

   You will not become gay. And I did it with a man for the first time. There is no difference between the buttocks of men and women. After all, then you will do it with the ass of the woman next to you. Fuck him but use a condom and let him do an enema.

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cherryxbombx answered · October 28, 2020

   A man who has sex with another man is not straight, my boy. If I come across a man and find out that he has been with another man before, I will go crazy. But there are no men left, the majority are plucked, gelled fashionistas, with many sexual experiences on the other side.

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iwantcock_2020 answered · October 28, 2020

   I think you're just too disappointed with women.

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sebastiankurz.at answered · October 28, 2020

   Do not do it! then you will regret it

9
mg_italy91 answered · October 28, 2020

   Everything is strictly individual, dude. A matter of psyche.

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ona28myszkaa answered · October 28, 2020

   I don't know what to say ... if you have so much sex, go to a prostitute. What are you going to do with a man ... !!!

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tommywolf90 answered · October 28, 2020

   Abe, don't let this friend of yours splash on someone and you can blow up the whole city! Aren't you?

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farat_sweet answered · October 28, 2020

   My advice is not to do it with a man! If I understood correctly, you are heterosexual, I don't see what you have to consider at all ?! There will come a time when you will catch a girlfriend ... calm down! Do not do it! Everyone says that the first time is always remembered .. I can not express an objective opinion here, because I myself am a virgin, but .. You would hardly be pleased to know that your first time was with a man. :) But anyway, it's your decision =))

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xrozelle answered · October 28, 2020

   I don't think so! You will take to turn the thread ..

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satoshiori727 answered · October 28, 2020

   Do what you do and don't think about people's opinions or whether it's normal. You are a young man - live your life and don't complain about nonsense

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lohanthony answered · October 29, 2020

   Brother and I am like you, if I were you I would have fun

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severrocker answered · October 29, 2020

   Are you crazy person ???? Yes it will definitely be very nasty. Get find some cool prostitute better and do it with her the first time. Greetings. M34

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bouncy30 answered · October 29, 2020

   Consult psychiatry, not us;)

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ZeldaLee answered · October 29, 2020

   I'm not a straight man, but I'm a straight woman and my first time was with a man. : D Seriously, I think you will make a big mistake. There is no point in this thing if you do not think you are gay or would, you do not like men, you can only damage your sex life, get a false idea about sex. You may like it to some extent, because physically the sexual act may, even most likely, be pleasant, but it will lack the attraction to the partner, the passion, the thrill ... After a while I even suspect that this can become a complex and when you have a girlfriend you wonder what she would think if she knew ... I don't think she does, you better even go to a prostitute, if you have a lot of sex, at least you will be more attracted than a man .. .

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astra answered · October 29, 2020

   Number 7, what was the disappointment of 18-year-old women? That he hadn't seen a woman yet.

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annemariev answered · October 29, 2020

   Author: I decided not to do it, but to masturbate together.

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YessyAss answered · October 30, 2020

   Author: I decided not to do it, but to masturbate together. It just means you didn't want to do it because of instinct, but simply because you wanted to do it with a man. It seems so to me. It is subconscious. At the moment you are eating yourself in some things.

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trannywithboy answered · October 30, 2020

   21 - over 70% of hetero men have shone with friends. This is normal and not gay at all. It is normal for a person to experiment.

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KatieKade answered · October 31, 2020

   And no, you won't find men who have had sex with a man here, because then they just won't be men ...

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elsiedreamer answered · October 31, 2020

   Author, a heterosexual man would never think of doing it with a man, let alone being with a man for the first time. I think you're homo - I'm not insulting you, there's nothing wrong with that - if you want to, do it, but admit to yourself what (or more precisely who) you really like - men / women. It seems to be the first :) next

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cocoapuff answered · October 31, 2020

   I think you're just showing interest and curiosity. Most people are bi-sexual by nature anyway. But they just don't acknowledge it ... in most cases to themselves. If you want, try it. But I don't know if your first contact should be with a man. Today checks ... tomorrow you will put it to him, it is clear. If you are so tanned you will still find one. It is not aimed so high. Or you can go to a prostitute ..

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avengedb answered · October 31, 2020

   22 Pfu, disgusting. In my opinion, even if you are right - these men are unfit for further use by women :) / aren't there such sacred words as intimacy for you? to be intimate with someone means to make love, to shine;) it's like ... /

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vice answered · October 31, 2020

   30 - many women also mess with girlfriends in the holes, and they are straight!

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RosseMillerr answered · October 31, 2020

   But when you claim these things (30 and 22), how do you know them? On what data do you base these statements? Haven't you heard? On real statistics, the source of which you can cite? What are these fantasies.

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banan01 answered · November 01, 2020

   Dude I'm looking here and most of the comments aren't worth it. Only a few are pretty decent. You have sex and whores are made inaccessible and your friend offered it to you. You've thought about it, which means you're a liberated man, not a horse with caps. You're afraid you don't like it and you want to be with a man every time, I guess, you're afraid because it's the first time, etc. Physically, there is not much difference between a man's and a woman's ass, yet this is a fucking hole. Someone had said that you can't become a man, that if you become a man, then you are gay, but a ball. The important thing is to make sure the guy is discreet and yet gay relationships are quite short-lived and non-committal. And the fact that you fucked a hole does not make you gay, but in the worst case bisex for which there are twice as many holes to fuck.

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nonstopsex69 answered · November 01, 2020

   Those who spit on gays the most want to try, but they are furry. I worked at a stadium in Sofia and what I looked at there, what kind of orgies did the so-called footballers make poor fantasy, and they are supposedly 100% straight.

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love_pinay4u answered · November 01, 2020

   In the 1980s, after my sophomore year at university, I was on a brigade for the summer in Komi. We were 150 boys from Bulgaria. I worked with a colleague from the countryside for six weeks. One head taller than me, blond, thin. We became friends. He was married with one child. One Friday we drank and I don't remember how I ended up in the bathroom together. The tub was kidney-shaped for two. I will omit the details. I will say that it blows me while I imagined that this is what my boyfriend does. It happened once again in a cabin of a public sauna. Then he wanted 69. I refused him, but in position 69 I held his cock in my hand. He was just fucking her. In fact, I looked respectfully at this cock, not only longer than mine, but he had reported to the world - he had made a child. Then in Moscow we were 3 days in a hotel room. The first day it blows, all the time it begs me to fuck it. I massaged his PS muscle. The second day he cried and even offered me money. I did it on the third day, again under the influence of alcohol and with the fantasy of putting it in a woman's ass. The only nasty thing was that he kissed me on the mouth when he turned to face me. His whistles can't be compared to those made by women. No one brought me to orgasm with just a blowjob.

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elsie answered · November 01, 2020

   I am passive, I sleep with men and from my point of view it is normal to reach passive men, most only want one blowjob, I know many such married, unmarried, women do not let them or in this case do not tie them! And they end up with prostitutes or passive boys if they are not given money or opportunities!

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realdavidbenoit answered · November 01, 2020

   Dude, I'm straight but I did it with a man, so 3 years ago an old acquaintance of mine wanted us to have sex or go to the front or back, I decided to go to the back, and we masturbated on camera, he's gay and I I'm not - After a while this man gave himself the number and now I keep it, There are people who have done it with men but still like women. See if you happen to be Bisexual. I am currently 26 years old if it matters and I live alone.