Hello! I'm a boy of 16, I've been dating a girl for 5 months and it's time for sex. Everything was fine, I was inspired, I wanted it. We were inside, we started kissing, slowly undressing and just at that moment I got hot. She asked me if there was anything, I told her everything was correct and I tried to continue. I couldn't open the condom and she did it for me. When it came time to enter it, I began to think all sorts of nonsense. I remembered Mitko the beam, which did not hit the hole during the set. I completely forgot about the girl I like so much and who turns me on. I wondered if I could "fall" right at that moment and surprise ... nodded. And so my set ended with an apology and no penetration. Now I'm ashamed to even look at her.
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It will seem strangely certain that a woman is answering you, but since no one has commented, I will reassure you. Why exactly are you ashamed? Not performing at the first time is not a pain to die. You are neither the first nor the last with such a "problem". If your girl is decent and respects you, she will not make such a big impression on her, she will not make fun of you, for example, and she will get into your situation. It is normal for emotions, excitement and anxiety not to happen the first time as we imagined. In time you will become more self-confident, you will understand what excites you and what excites you ... it just takes time, patience and practice. At your next sex, tell her that this time you will try to be in shape, do not think about how you can fall but give yourself completely to your girl. Caress her, kiss her on the body, chest, belly, look at her expression as you give her pleasure - it will surely excite you. Another question is how long you will last in it. There, even if it's 2 minutes, don't get burned. My friend who is 28, for example, lasts between 5 and 7 minutes when he is in me. I don't mind that, although he's disappointed in himself. I can do it well with my fingers;) So love yourself and don't worry about trifles, all with your time. Success! F, 26 all with time. Success! F, 26 all with time. Success! F, 26
Unpleasant situation but a lot of men are like that. Calm down because this is normal and you will only get even hotter. Talk to her and do it again. Secure a longer love game, predispose it, talk to each other. Try beer or chocolate. You are about to become a man, it is not possible from the first time. Good luck.
Dude, I'm 24 and I've slept with 5 women. This has happened to me with 3 of them. My first time was on the third night. Don't worry, it's normal. I advise you to wait 4-5 days before the next attempt and not masturbate at all. Guarantee that when the time comes there will be no problem. Talk to the girl separately. She will understand you. Use a condom, because when you penetrate you will be so aroused that you are done with the 3rd push. And this is normal, and there is seminal fluid that you can't control. I wish you luck. I'm sure you will succeed. I tell you from personal experience.
И аз се изложих. Виждам се с една кака, голяма мадама. От няколко месеца е врънкам за анален, но тя не иска. Когато успях да я убедя, познайте, от свръх очакваме свърших за три минути. И реагира както очаквах "какво? Само това ли беше!? ". Ядоса се, е си е правила клизма, а е нямало секс. Каза, че ще изчака да го вдигна пак. И там бха едни мъки, не става по команда. Няколко пъти го вдигах и като го вкарвах ми спадаше. На края тя си тръгна ядосана. Две седмицине искаше да ме вижда. м26
To the author And tell you not to stress - there will be no result. You just have to try again. Don't think things like "If I fall" or "If it doesn't happen". Just relax and enjoy the girl. Show her that you like her, caress her and kiss her more, more tenderly. Play with her clit and fingers, she can't help but like it - just don't be rude. Ask her if she likes it or if the other is good. She will guide you, and it will give you some confidence. Things will happen imperceptibly. Use a condom, because you will certainly run out very quickly. And don't let that bother you ... You can always finish differently. And the last thing, if you think it will help to drink 50 grams of whiskey / vodka / brandy before. To bounce and relax a bit. Good luck and brag.