I am a 35-year-old man with a completely normal sexual orientation - I am not the opposite in the least. I have been married for years and have children. I have no interest in disguising myself in clothes of the opposite sex or experiencing myself as such. As a student, I still loved watching women's legs in women's tights or long women's socks - as a woman I met, unconsciously the first thing I looked at was her legs. For some time I started wearing shoes and wearing women's tights - usually very thin and transparent with shine. I started shaving my legs for that reason. I find the feeling extremely pleasant - the way the legs slide into each other or under the pants. Also, the feeling is quite sexually charged (needless to say, I get a strong erection). I also like how my legs look - smooth, even in color and shine. I wear tights at home and under my pants when I go out - I go to work or on errands. Sometimes I even sleep in tights. My wife found it strange at first but got used to it and paid almost no attention. She says she fully understood me and once she gives me pleasure there is no problem with that. The problem is that summer is coming and I can't always wear long pants in the heat all the time. In the summer I'm used to wearing shorts when I go out (and I'm not at work), and I don't want to limit my desire to wear tights - I'm used to it. I want to ask you if it would be very strange if I went out of town like this - with shorts, nice women's tights and sneakers. I usually wear very thin ones with a beige color (rarely darker brown, gray or black) which are barely noticeable from a dozen steps, but if they have lycra they stand out because of the shine I'm sure people will notice it at some point. My wife is of the opinion that I should abstain because it will be difficult for me to explain why I do it if someone asks me and they will quickly decide that I am either nerdy or gay What do you think - will it be too shocking for others? (otherwise I know that the neighbors will be the first to gossip)
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Well, to be honest, it's not quite normal for you to like smoothies and legs in tights, and even with lycra. Sounds good, exciting, great, but ... when it comes to female legs, not male ones. Naturally, if they see acquaintances or neighbors, there will be a lot of laughter and gossip. The only thing is to bring them home. And why are you going to put them on - they are boiling. I am a woman and if it gets warm I wear or socks with a wide elastic band on the thighs or I walk barefoot.
it's shocking to me that you're wondering if the others will be shocked :) it's like walking around with a drum and shouting "I'm whistling" with my whole throat, that's how you sound to me. wear them as soon as you are attracted, I do not understand where this unnecessary ostentation comes from.
It's funny to me, I guess the others will make fun of you too - shorts and nice pantyhose under it? !? !?
G30: The topic is published for the second time with the same wording and text. Why?
Look, dude, I'm the same, I wear them regularly and I don't care outdoors, though. My friend even finds it cool. Fortunately, I don't live in Gd. If that calms down, lately many companies that produce models specially cut for men have come forward. Many men enjoy wearing them, but in Bulgaria they do not dare to admit it. They have no problem with this here and accept it as normal. Like you, I fight when I put on tights and my boyfriend takes it away. I also wear long socks sometimes. If women can wear pants and Cubans because they are emancipated, why not wear whatever I like. Once upon a time, the traffic jams in Bulgaria smiled and rolled their eyes when they saw a man with an earring, but now women wear ties and it's OK. Don't care what this or that person says. I most often wear body color, gray or black with a day of 10 -20 and at least 15% lycra.
I go with my wife's thongs. I like lingerie. It is very light, soft, not felt. I fought with the boxers. I once joked about them. My wife told me that they went to me a lot, and I liked it for 5-6 years. I don't care what people say if they find out. I'm sick and I'm doing it. But of course I don't flaunt it.
To the Author and to number 5 - but do you seriously find this normal, masculine? Up to 5 - tell me, in which country is this normal? I do not consider myself a traffic jam, I have traveled all continents, but such a thing, except in Thailand, will probably not be considered reasonable behavior elsewhere. Everyone has the right to dress and behave as they see fit, but this is not to have a "take-give with limited fossils with an IQ of 20" but some perverted form of fetish. I might also like to wear a corset and a bra, and won't that seem strange to you? - especially the smart guy from post 5 who obviously in Bulgaria can not succeed because of his high IQ.
and I have to start wearing, I like it and I'm a 17 year old boy: D
I asked myself a few questions while reading your topic. Why do you need to "walk" on sexual habits around the clock? Is it possible that you want to be aroused all day? Don't you have another job and you are constantly thinking about sexy legs, to be in pantyhose all day? Why can women wear 90% of men's clothing without anyone discussing them and men can't wear women's? In principle, there is nothing wrong with wearing them if you like them, but married women are right, you should refrain, because it will be difficult for you to explain why you do it. And most will not believe you and understand.
I laughed a lot when I read your post, so I guess people on the street will see you laughing all day. It's not as funny as someone deliberately dressing for a joke, and when someone seriously thinks it's normal, it's really awfully funny. I can only imagine the shiny tights with lycra and sneakers! Even if a woman puts it on, she will laugh again, let alone a man. Dressing up a man in a ballet dress and carrying beer and having fun is not a joke, it's not so funny, but when someone does it seriously, it's super funny.
From the Author: Thank you very much for the answers. To # 1 - when it comes to smooth and sexy legs and I am of the same opinion about women. In this case, I was talking about my legs and that's exactly what I meant - I look at them like MINE and I like how they look in women's tights (and the feeling). It's like when you put on a garment and you just like and feel comfortable in it - you look at it through your eyes and not necessarily through the eyes of a certain gender. When choosing jeans, I try to make them fit me well and feel comfortable - I do not choose ones that will be tight in my crotch and stretched at the back because women would like it. The same goes for the reason I wear tights. Regarding the "steaming" there are summer luxury models, very light and fine, with a very small day (they are really expensive) which do NOT brew at all - on the contrary. It's easy for women with silk bags and thongs - try to wear normal, cotton men's briefs or even boxers once on a hot summer day and your "steaming" standard will totally change. I sometimes wear long socks with silicone straps, but they are not the most comfortable outside the bedroom. My wife, on the other hand, prefers them and wears them regularly. To # 2 - this is not a deliberate "show". It just so happens that in the summer season, if I want to feel more comfortable because of the nature of the tights, it becomes obvious. I try to gather opinion because I want to fight for myself about the influence of public opinion. When I run a few kilometers at the end of the week and wear shorts, I go out of town in more deserted places precisely because of possible public opinion. I don't want my neighbors to determine my wardrobe and dictate what and how to wear - it seems absurd to limit myself because of strangers how to feel. About # 5 - and I've heard that in the "west" they don't pay attention and accept it as completely normal - and Westerners are brought up to respect personal space and hardly point and stare like us at the sight of something that seems "unconventional" ". I also saw a Delphi Forums forum, with 14,000 members - all men who find tights something normal and pleasant to wear as part of clothing. They exchange advice and information. I have seen on the Internet these models optimized for the "male parts" you are talking about - Activskin / Comfilon and various others, but reading some comments, hardly anyone will start importing them to Bulgaria. At first I envy that you should not be embarrassed by various stares and wonder what they think. to 12 - by saying "fetish" I was trying to explain the basis of this attraction. Daily wear is not an expression of a constant sexual outburst (at least not for me) - it's just a combination of fabric, appearance and feeling that I find particularly pleasant and not the fact that it's women's clothing - reading is just like other men with such a tendency . I don't know what example to give. As for what someone said if I find it "masculine" - at one time men in the Middle Ages, and nobles in particular, wore tights (it is true that they were thick but did not have nylon fibers) to outline the shape of their legs and muscles and then unclear how, they became "women's" clothing. And I've asked myself this question - I've seen girls wear a Fedora hat that is absolutely men's or men's cowboy boots and others find it super normal. Thanks for the feedback - I guess I just have to get used to not paying attention to staring, tossing or laughing coming from ill-mannered kids and driving as I like. My wife seems to be slowly agreeing with me on this, and that's the most important thing
And I like to wear women's tights, but only in winter and because they protect well from the cold. But even in the summer, it doesn't look normal to me anywhere in the world.
I have been wearing women's tights for more than 20 years, but only in cold weather under my pants at the beginning I was quite worried about the reactions of the sellers when I bought such items - several pairs per season but I did not feel any of them laughing and looking at it. as something abnormal I have a girlfriend who accepts this as something natural and sometimes we go to the tights store together I wear thick 40-120 days beige or gray last year I was on a preventive examination the doctor smiled slightly as I undressed but said nothing I still would not dare to go out on the street in shorts with tights and in the heat I would not do it for anything in the world
Not recommended to show up, because most people are interested in how wrong the others are and how normal they are. One thing I know from personal experience. For almost 30 years, I wore secret lingerie and did not assume that I could be bisexual because I only had sex with women. Now I no longer admit that I am gay because I am married, I live with a woman, but when I dress in lingerie I want to have something in my anus. I had, and several times something alive. I don't want to scare you, but most crossdressers I know have gone the same way. Sooner or later you will want to feel like a woman not only in front of the mirror, but also in bed.
Which doesn't automatically mean you're the other way around. Reverse means only attraction to the same sex. Nothing more. And a small addition - the slings were invented a long time ago, around 3500 BC, if I'm not mistaken, and were worn only and exclusively by men. That is, it was and is a man's garment. Now that women wear it, are they the other way around? Dumb, isn't it? Why, then, should I be reversed for wearing a garment that was originally male? The same goes for tights. Not to mention that garters were also invented for men and were worn and used first by them. The same goes for high-heeled shoes - they were worn only by noble men so that they could get on their horses more easily. And the knee-length skirt? Men's clothing - reference - Greeks, Romans. Does anyone find it strange that the last Conan has a gender? We don't, because it is in sync with the time for which the film was made. And what? Now that women wear tights, high heels and knee-length skirts, are they the other way around? And why should clothing be related to any sexual orientation at all? Then 99% of women are the opposite, his mother is old ...
Safe from mistakes where they want to convince themselves that they are not! For the couch of a psychoanalyst, my man, this is the truth, otherwise you can write on the forums as much as you want and explain that everything is fine. And at № 5 who told him that every different thing is and I don't know normally ...
Why "wrong"? Given that most typical women's clothing at the time was originally masculine at the time, do you wonder who is normal and who is not? Are women crazy that they took absolutely everything from our wardrobe? Here is a topic for reflection: http: // www. hera. bg / s. php? n = 185
And I sometimes wear women's thongs and tights for a change, and because my wife asked me to do it once. Kubrat
Until №21. It is true that the pantyhose was once a man's garment, but there is a difference in its conquest by women. They do it for practical reasons, not for sexual reasons. I'm telling you like a man wearing lingerie. This is how I dress because it turns me on, imagining I'm a woman. I don't want to scare the beginning crossdressers and transvestites that sooner or later they will open up in the back, but for me this thing has developed. I still think I'm straight, but I'm no longer satisfied with dressing, and sometimes I come in contact with men in female roles. I will emphasize that on the street I turn to women, live with a woman and have sex with women, but when I am dressed as a woman I need a penis. I even have a female name that emphasizes my aspirations (Anallenka)
What's wrong with anal sex? That doesn't make you the other way around. Is a woman having anal sex the opposite? At least there our physiology is absolutely the same and I see no reason for some to have sex there and others not. It is absolutely the same.
Number 22, since when do you make such elementary mistakes? When you sign like that, at least write correctly. Magicians
Just wondering what creatures are writing here? !! 24 What do you think - is there a difference between a woman who has anal sex with a man and a man who has sex with a man? Or in the case of the author from comment 23, can we accept it, because when he is in lingerie he feels like a woman and in this sense everything is at a time when he intends to put it in his back? Eli
22, you look ridiculous with this "skull", at least if he had copied it from the title of the story ... I, if nothing else, at least write correctly. Kubrat
Ellie, you can have anal sex without the other way around. Today I was doing, for example, with my girlfriend - me to her, she to me and what? Am I the other way around? I have never touched a man, I will not do it - I am growing up.
Many candid conversations have taken shape here. I like women's clothes and especially dresses. I like to dress in such and it excites me. However, I very rarely wear dresses (once, twice a year) because I do not have my own, and my access to such clothes is limited. I live alone and quite often I want to buy at least one dress, made of such a material that keeps cool, but at the same time this thought seems absurd. Currently, I often watch videos on the Internet of men wearing dresses and so to some extent I satisfy my desire to wear them on my part. What I wrote is pretty crazy, but who's a little crazy nowadays.
Ahahaha, sorry, author, I'm having fun. And how we went from women's tights to anal sex ... That's why I love this site, people start from || and reach | |. Who as you like, so to be worn. We must be liberal. --- Jesse ---
No, it's not crazy at all. Women can wear absolutely anything and therefore do not have such aspirations. We are severely discriminated against in this regard and I do not see anything abnormal in me wanting to wear a dress, just as a woman wants to wear pants or thongs - two absolutely men's clothes. But they are not considered abnormal, are they? Read the article I gave above and you will understand a lot :)
Until 31. № Well, I also started with tights and panties and got to anal sex. I don't know if the psychologists are right when they say that you can't be gay, and I'm not sure if I'm like that, but everything develops with me. I don't part with lingerie at all anymore. I've been wearing sanitary napkins for a long time, and sometimes I even have a tampon. And when I get home, I immediately dress from head to toe as a woman, including a wig and manicures. Men do not attract me and I can not imagine that I can live with a man, but in my head are constantly hanging real penises. I think I will deviate from the topic by saying that I had a dozen in my anus, but really their owner never attracted me, it is enough that they were intelligent and clean.
As I mentioned above, anal sex and sexual orientation have nothing in common. Does being nice to be scratched on your ear make you gay? And is a woman who has anal sex gay? I have an ass, and a woman has an ass. So she can use it for fun, and I can't? Nice to meet you. I do it too, but I hate men, so ...
33. to 34 I didn't know if you were doing it with a vibrator or a live penis. I do it with both, so I don't want to say if I feel gay or not. Look, when I get dressed, I really want to be a woman, and I feel like one.
I've never really tried it because men disgust me. Look, my wife and I are pretending to be darmadan. She buys me clothes, tights, skirts, shoes, I like her that way and there is absolutely no problem with that. On the contrary :)
I think it's much more unpleasant to pretend to be something you're not and to fiercely defend a lost thesis than to simply admit that you're gay.
What does clothing have to do with sexual orientation, 38? Did you even read a little above what we wrote? Calling a woman gay just because she wears high heels? No, right? And that was a male attribute. The thongs too. Are women wearing thongs gay? Hey, you don't have those heads on your shoulders for anything, except to repeat something you heard from somewhere. No thought ...
39 - as I said - you are defending a LOST thesis, a woman to wear women's clothes is ok, there is no way she is gay, you give very stupid examples, honestly, just to justify yourself! It was 3,000 years ago and other things were normal, not anymore, so don't tell me how it was before. But no - as I said - excuses will be found a lot to save the obvious truth ... Point!
Number 40, I lived in Scotland some time ago. Do you want to go there and tell a man of gender that he's a pedal? Just to warn you that the dentist's bill will be high, because the beasts beat very badly, if you hurt them with honor. Dot, he calls his ass with ass: D. Grandpa Torbalan
However, the fact is that these clothes are MEN'S and are invented as such, are you chatting? And you don't seem to know very much what "gay" means, do you? Gay means LIKING men and nothing more. There are no clothes, there is nothing, only one thing. But someone got varnished, so he's gay - complete nonsense. Gay means liking individuals of the same sex - no more, no less. And one more thing - women have taken 100% of men's wardrobe without being gay, and when we want to get our men's clothes back, we are gay, right? Pretty stupid logic;)
To the questioner: That it will be strange, it will be strange, because it just does not occur often, but in any case you should not worry about who knows what bad comments and / or ridicule. To encourage you, I will tell you that I have been practicing this dress code for more than a year, if I may say so, and I would not say that I have observed who knows what reactions in the audience. Rather, if your male legs are nice, then you should rather expect approval from the female part, similar to the approval of the male part at the sight of beautiful female legs in quality tights, because in this way the legs are simply emphasized and regardless of whether they are male and female, every good thing is good and it has nothing to do with homosexuality ... Try it and you will see that you will feel freer and more confident, with increased self-confidence from the fact that you have overcome one of your fears.
Oh, it's good that you support each other so that there is someone who perceives this behavior as "normal" (regarding comment 44): /
It's perfectly normal. Could you explain why it's not normal?
46 - by the logic of the author, if something was normal 3000 years ago, then it is still valid! Bullshit! And since 3,000 years ago, thongs and tights were invented for men, is it normal to wear them? Well, HERE'S WHAT: 1) a lot of things were still normal 3000 years ago, but now they are IMAGINARY; 2) there is a difference between thick wool tights for the winter, which some men wear UNDER TROUSERS, and WOMEN'S shiny tights, which can even be seen in the middle of summer! Because the author gave an example of women's wardrobe and are women gay when they wear men's clothes? There are some standards of behavior and unfortunately for you a man in a dress is perceived as naughtier than a woman in a jacket, for example. And lastly: since pants are part of men's clothing, Would the author and his supporters consider it normal to DRESS WITH WOMEN'S TROUSERS just because it is trousers, if it is pink with shiny sequins on it (but still trousers, right)? Well, is it normal? However, I want a reasoned answer!
No, don't explain again why women can wear everything and men can't;) What is the force that decides these things. And not 3000 years ago, high-heeled shoes, flowers, lace and ruffles were here, soon - there is no 16-17 century. So then they weren't the other way around, and now they're the other way around, right? And what should be associated with sexual orientation at all, it is not clear to me ... It has been proven, there is a study that over 96% of people with such tendencies are completely normal sexual orientation. Otherwise, the definition of "normal" and "abnormal", especially in clothing, is a rather broad and frivolous concept and is a matter of prejudice, habits and a drop of reason in the head.
WOMEN'S Tights are designed to be worn by women, the opposite is not normal. As always, you dodge and you couldn't answer my question meaningfully. BUT bring what you want, people, they will laugh at you and your children, and let you not care! Come on, hello, in comment 47 I have argued quite comprehensively and clearly, who is too lazy to read or does not have 2 drops of brain to argue correctly - the problem is his!
Dude, but it has MEN'S tights that are just like women's, but they say MEN and what prime? I can't understand what this rigidity is ...
I don't think who ever wore what and what fashion is now is not a serious argument. I wear lingerie because that's how I feel as a woman. That is, I wear it for sexual motives. The hems of my bra are stuck in my ribs. My elastic panties squeeze the balls, my wig makes my head steam, but I wear them because they excite me. I don't believe women get aroused by a jacket or pants, while most men wearing women's things do it only because of sexual arousal. Some get aroused by the fetish for lingerie, and people like me get aroused by the feeling that they are women.
And others just like it because most women's clothes are just beautiful;)
Up to 52. Yes, yes, and those who wear them dream of being beautiful women.
We, not exactly. I will not, for example: p Understand that it may be just because of the beauty of a garment or because it is hellishly nice to wear it.
Hello, I have a fetish for women's socks, my boyfriend goes with 3/4 socks and only when we have sex and I put on her socks and so we have sex then I take them off, only while we have sex and put on socks1
I wear them all the time - shorts, 3/4 and tights. My boyfriend even buys them for me and he doesn't mind at all. She even likes it. There is nothing wrong with this.
To the author: What happened? Summer has passed, but did you overcome the anxiety of gossip, did you decide to show yourself dressed the way you like?