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May 19, 2020
2 camilalbg answered
Like you who don't know if they want to or not, they have to stay ALONE. Poor boy, you're angry that real men don't leave, but you find one and you run away with someone else. Leave them both immediately, they'il be better off without you!!
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May 19, 2020
3 roberta82 answered
There are two options-or you accept that you will not have relations with the second person anymore and you break up with him, or you break up with your friend and you hang out with the other.
We can't tell you which one to choose, at least me.
Just decide one of the two and do it. I personally would not go against love because of one misunderstood sense of duty, morality, faithfulness, honesty, and such... Love is the most important and precious thing in this world. She's the only one worth... Now you don't understand me wrong, I'm not telling you what to do, I'm telling you how I would do it.
Come on, if you had kids, a family to say you couldn't destroy it lightly... But you don't?
What is it that ties you to this man? You're not his property, man is not someone's possession.
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May 19, 2020
4 jacobbilaw answered
Hello, dear girl, I understand you completely. I've been very close to your situation. The difference was, I was in a relationship that I resumed after 2 years of separation. We were reunited and a month later I met a boy-I fell in love dizzily, I could not think of anything else, just for him, I eagerly wait for the minute, the second when I will see him. I was even in love with his perfume, I liked his smell and everything about him. I made a decision that I would. But my friend found out about the other guy, and just when I decided to break up with him, he cried, he said how much he loved me, and I couldn't dump him. Yes, I didn't. I stayed with him. I broke up with the other guy by texting, don't ask me how much I cried afterwards. I heard he hated me. A year after he got married, he had a kid. And to this day, I am sorry that I did not experience this so sincere emotion, this incredible infatuation, those strong feelings that were raging in me. I can't forgive myself yet. I wanted to be with him so much. It is quite probable if I had stayed with the second boy after a while to follow a breakup, but at least I would not regret and ask myself what would happen if. "If only". Soon afterwards, I broke up with my boyfriend. But, like I told you, I'm sorry to be a day, and I regret that I've broken these so sincere feelings about me, sorry I didn't give you a chance. Love must be lived.
So if you feel like me, I think I've described a very detailed way, not make my mistake. Experience the emotion, live the love. If your friend loves you so much, she'il understand. It may be temporary faltering, you can split with the boy and then get back together with your friend. So my advice is to try the new boy!
As you said yourself, you lack emotion and thrill-if you do not satisfy this desire, soon it will come to the surface again and another will appear.
Unleash what's inside you! Live it!
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May 19, 2020
5 linarich answered
I want Takviz problems too! My problems are usually how not to be late for school, and I want butterflies and I want a thrill and I want his love Mommy. And I want it not to be, if, for example, you are seated in the place of whether or not my people love it like that, I am constantly on diets his mom and I want so to have a wonder who to choose and I am the one who chooses it is not fair the world is not honest but it's a hell of a mother and it's not enough that once it happened to you to be in love that twice his mom and ever shared love you have no And the idea how you envy his mom's life is very unjust his mom
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May 19, 2020
6 agent_jones_ answered
"It's happening wE met each other... "In the same place, where you were exactly, to meet with the choir.
"I wanted to fall in love, butterflies..." Blah... And you didn't want to fall in love.
You lie to the two, and you lie to us, and you're lying to yourself about the sport. You're cut, you've cut, and you're going to go to the next "without a Wish" adventure. Sorry, I don't worry you, you're supposed to leave your own, just because everybody's got something more than you.
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May 19, 2020
7 butt2play answered
Another pretty girl who doesn't know what she wants and you don't learn that falling in love, chills and butterflies in your stomach are temporary you can't find everything you're looking for in one person. Falling in love is like an hourglass filled heart empties the head. Learn to make a difference between falling in love and loving, because those who are very fall are the most pathetic in life.
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May 20, 2020
8 alessiamatteo answered
If you're wondering between the first and second, choose the second one, because if you loved the first one, you wouldn't be looking for second.
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May 20, 2020
9 hot6sides9switching answered
Ah, the big brother, you can't close your legs, and then you're crying:D So, you deserve to be squirming, my girl, for your brains!
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May 20, 2020
10 2cum4more answered
Think how it would be best for you in the end.. I don't know how to help you, but the only thing I can tell you is to think about whether you can move on with your guy the same way and whether you really want it, but still don't replace the one who loves you because of the one that attracts you. :)
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May 21, 2020
11 katrin_fit answered
How banal...
The best solution in this case is breaking up both. You're alone for a minimum of a year and a half or two to brighten your head and clear the mind. And to gain the confidence that you can do without one, and without the other, and without anyone... And further on, based on the bitter experience gained, you drive it with a little more thought.
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May 21, 2020
12 eliza_18deldragon answered
If you love your friend, be with him. The thrill with the other boy would be over in a while, and then you'd sit back at the same crossroads. I was in a somewhat similar situation and then I just said end, I deleted all the numbers, emails, etc. and I moved on. Now I enjoy a long-standing marriage and love, passion and friendship with my then friend.
It's nice, on the one hand, that you've gone through this because it will help you to feel your feelings, your needs. You will gain a clearer self-perception. I guess it came to this because you lacked confidence, and you needed proof that you were still desirable, that there was a man/s who wouldn't be with you in a habit. Well, you got the answers. Now it's time to leave the beautiful dream and wake up. Make and the reality beautiful! And don't blame yourself. You needed an experience, you needed something and you took it. It was supposed to be split with your friend first, but what happened was... Now take a short sabbatical. Go somewhere alone for the weekend and sort your mind. Success!
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May 22, 2020
13 yesenia_and_jhonny answered
To the Author:
Hi, I read with interest your story, which terribly, terribly reminds me of mine, only that I am on the other side-I am the one you have to say end. This is a fact to me now and I just can't tell you how I feel... I haven't been myself for about 2 months. I guess that sort of thing happens all the time. I have some complicated circumstances with me, like the fact that we work together and we see each other every day, all day. Besides, we've known each other for many years, and before this happened between us, we were good friends. We've always liked each other and we've been flirting a bit, so on the edge, until at some point it seems the glass overflowed, and so we got carried away that soon we were both in love with the ears.... After about a year, however, she, like you, decided we had to stop because she couldn't live like this, and she slowly pulled away from me. ... Oh, I can tell a lot but not here. I would gladly share more because I think we can help ourselves with advice, because I have a blatant need to talk to someone and SHE does not want to talk about this topic, she wants to remain friends as before, but I so love her that I just can not think about anything else and do not know what to do.
In that sense, I don't know what to advise you.
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May 22, 2020
14 fiery_redhead answered
Yes, it happened to me. It was pretty painful and lasted two years. I didn't know which one to choose, even though I didn't get planned like you, you were looking for someone to experience the thrill. I was pbstoâtelstvata other and it must have been fate. While I was wondering who to choose, I got pregnant from one, so I made a decision. If you're wondering how I know who the child is, I've only had one. I told the other and we were just friends, as we were, so far anyway.
If you ask me and without getting pregnant, you can try to make a decision. Live for a while with the second, to pass a little bit of the initial euphoria, to see what kind of person he is and decide who you are. If you're looking for a permanent relationship. If it's something for a year or two, then choose the second one, at least it's a thrill. The first one seems like you're not interested. It may eventually turn out to be a third, you don't know.
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May 22, 2020
15 jasminefuckbaby answered
I think it's a good place to briefly present what happened to me:
After a two-year relationship that, in front of people, there was no mistake, I quit, the person I lived with. The reason was multi-layered: In a similar way to your thrill I disappeared; He began to behave like I was given and I have nowhere to go; On the internet I came across a person that I had not communicated with for a long time, and with whom we had once had a short affair-he naturally behaved well, conquered my mind and I decided that I was in love. Because I wasn't sure what I went through a few times I asked the person I was living with if he loved me. One time he said he was used to me and the sex was pretty... That sentence ended my relationship, I Want love.
When I told him I was moving out, he started screaming that he loved me, that he couldn't without me... After the rain hood. But what happened to the other person? Well, he also didn't turn out to be my great love and disappoint me.
Am I sorry I left my friend? Not. The stumbling block was another man, but it could have been something else. It's better that it happened.
Now I'm alone for over a year and life goes on.
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May 23, 2020
16 anonizoo answered
You had to leave your friend at the beginning of the adventure, you did very poorly when you lied to him while you were having fun with the other guy. I guess you're more in love with the other now, why would you have continued your first relationship? Your boyfriend is not there for a life jacket – not with who else – with him. I just don't know how to comment, I feel sorry for the boy!
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May 23, 2020
17 geraldin1996 answered
If you fall in love with a second person and hesitate to choose, choose the 2nd. If you're in love, you just don't love the guy next to you.
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May 23, 2020
18 sex__bunny answered
Well... The good part called "I have no intention of falling in love and just having fun" has ended. It always ends, sooner or later, one way or another. Now you're at the stage "I fell in love and I don't know who to choose." It's a bad stage, but a man has to think before something starts. For the good of your friend (the one, the official) will advise you to split with him. Please let him find a girl who effortlessly will keep the thrill!
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May 23, 2020
19 strumpfhose92 answered
You're the one who's been thinking about signing up for a dating site. Now you're going to take your pain so much. Don't be a mess. Don't be selfish, now you're going to cry a little. If you don't have the guts to go to the new one, stay with the old one and whine quietly in the corner. Do you ask him how he would if he knew he'd kissed where you put your lover's dick?
Unfortunately, you women are like that.
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May 24, 2020
20 ingridheidi answered
It's a disgusting story. Poor boys, I hope they get a good time. You don't have much to do in your life. Pfffffff Rush wanted.. I have no words. I just wonder how men can like women like that.
Not only is it your own fault, and you're lying to the boys, and the guys who read here, and you're very happy about the mess you've been messing with yourself. If it wasn't, you'd be messing with the valuable of things to look for when you have a boyfriend.
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May 24, 2020
21 llyyssaa answered
There really is no God when fate sends good boys to such as the author...
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May 24, 2020
22 valeria_caribe answered
Dear author, I'm not going to advise you crying to oblivion because you're still looking for what you got. You have to be happy because you've lived it. The mistake is only in falling in love. It would be worse if you were looking for something else and you only got what I would regret. I suggest you stay friends, and time will tell you how great your love is.
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May 24, 2020
23 hinata_hyuga1 answered
How old are you, author, if the NSI has more than 20 long-standing behavior. I've always bothered such stories, and those people who see themselves waiting for all the nice things they have from one Zone, a proverb, or in a precise speech, something of the kind that being happy is boring to suffer is an exciting thing from this soft and frankly I get more and more in the fact that the people in the Act are masochists and we are not content with what we have and we have looking for before and we are not involved in all people But not a small part are like that. I'm not going to judge you to call with terrible names as someone would call you a smaller 15-year-old, for example, in some stupid stories I've gotten into, but I pulled my polukite. I think you're a normal girl, but you're quite uninterested in my opinion, leave both of them and not commit to anyone for a while. First pay attention to yourself find yourself and so. If I were your friend, I'd like you to be honest with me. To confess everything, and I'd probably tell you that I want to break up for a period of time to clarify the feelings of who you love more, but during that period of time that we were supposed to split up not to talk to the other boy, but to think about it and after a while, you call and announce your decision. But frankly, not everyone would have done so, some people would go out even if they loved you, you know your friend but really be honest your boy doesn't deserve this.
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May 25, 2020
24 jazzgirl1985 answered
I agree with 13 but not entirely meaningful if there are any problems between two people until you sit down and talk to him, and you are not a person in a site with a workshop, and you find yourself lacking in someone else that's lame. Unfortunately, I obeždavam there's no communication whatsoever between couples who are just pathetically. Look, if you talked to him, you explained to him how you feel and continues on your own and not trying to bring freshness is another thing but the author is so,,,,, as well as a lack of freshness why alone did not take anything to see the things of why women rely on men to be active very well we know that most men do not understand the hints and so on we are always counting on the Drugiko and we do not do anything to spark And so we run in the most banal way. 3 Right that you gain experience and preodkrivaš yourself a posel you will find probably your mistakes and so on which is the good thing in the whole situation. And a relationship is understood how healthy it is, how strong it is in such situations, when a third person appears to everyone, it happens to stand under the temptation to feel dragged by it, but nevertheless someone is passed but others do not and as the number 13 essay is distilled from the person in question. I don't mean to be rude, but in my opinion, your relationship has not been a very strong sight, but it quickly cracked
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May 25, 2020
25 queebunny answered
With what right and in the quality of what do you judge the author? What lies are we talking about? From the beginning, the boy has knew that she is bound and what happened between them may not last for a long time. What was he hoping for? A relationship that only keeps on pleasures. This is more than absurd. P. C. Currently the author is confused and looking for advice and not criticism. You don't help her.
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May 25, 2020
26 sweetdreamssof answered
You can not help with the advice of someone who is such a lover of drama and overtakes. That love was so real, but impossible. And what? Oh, what a tragedy... Someone must be keeping her tied to her boyfriend, so their love with him is possible. So many love, so much roar and creeps.
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May 25, 2020
27 sweet_ariii answered
Hi! Just let it go, time will only show... Ignore the comments.... I've been in the same situation just know it's hard and I keep being... But you'il be fine, believe me!!!
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May 25, 2020
28 hotjamella answered
Whether you're a wrong or a natural that you feel desirable and loved.
Not everyone is feeling loved or wanted in this sense-you just have to fulfill your feminine emotions.
Excuse me, but you're not married to this guy, and he's not your bought ring, so you can tell him that he's the one who didn't kept you.
In my opinion, only men are guilty of bad things. And if anyone thinks it's not his fault, it's actually.
The worst of men is that they think they OWN another human being-the woman and notice she must serve them. If yours had done the right thing with you, you would never cheat on him because you just hold on to love and relationships. And if you're not going to take his prom mother, you're going to have fun, don't be a god to do the right thing--I'm an aman with too many restrictions that think they're doing the right thing.
It's your life, and you're going to express your emotions in whatever way you want with anyone you want--it's even nice to feel flattered and early, because the time you've lost with these people will NEVER come back (even if it comes back it will just happen again because it's fate)-it's a point. And it's always better to express emotions to avoid brain trauma.
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May 26, 2020
29 sabrina_rays answered
A man has to be where he wants to be, not where his circumstances dictate. First you clarify what you want and then decide what to choose. That's all you can do. Be careful not to become, "between two chairs that ended up on Earth"!
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May 26, 2020
30 jmow0723 answered
It's very simple, choose 2nd, when the thrill disappears-3rd, then the 4th and so until you realize that the choice decreases and you lose the train and you take the last-the most shoddy, just because there is no one else. And between the 1st and the other, you can rotate the butterflies with a roar.
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May 26, 2020
31 chenthemissubt1987 answered
I've been in a similar situation, but in the role of "the deceived." Let me just say that we're back together now. I cannot know how long and so, one assumes the Lord has. We're not married, we have a child and other things in common. However, there is one significant difference: we were not indifferent, we fought often and quite fiercely. Pointless to mention the reasons, they are funny even for external observers. After another quarrel, we were sick of both of them already, she completely pulled away; He started acting like he had another one. I asked her, I'd know, to do my life, anyway. She denied, I don't know why, she at least said she wasn't sure yet. And so far I don't know exactly what plan she had in her head, in any case a good day I found out where she was headed and it was not at all nearby, directly on another continent. I got a lot of crooked, in the meantime, I also discovered that he could take the child with him, and I couldn't do anything about it. I went a week as dizzy, she didn't get touched by the revelation, even said she had no right to lie. She also said that she was very much in love and so I found some more startling things. And then I got in my hands, I told myself, I gave it up anyway, I'm going to get another one. I had a lot of grief about the child, it wasn't a random surprise, but it was desired by both. And it started out as in the song "Me with another, you with other..." ". She left for two weeks, then came back, I had already propelled things, after about two Essas I managed to winning what I wanted through a court and so on. Meanwhile, her relationship flowed online (whatever that means), I was watching my new one, which was still not very brilliant, but still. On several occasions I received hints, whether it would be possible to reassemble, I placed my conditions and there. In a way, our child brought us back together, which showed us that he wanted to be with both of us, not with each individual or even without one.
I never understood what the circus was all about, so I didn't know how it happened that we got back together. She told me that she was looking for something she had already had — me. I did not question her much, nor did she me; Said we're even now. This is so; A woman decides for one man or another depends on many things. It turns out that our petty misunderstandings are smooth. Our child was very joyful. She kept some time her online relationship as she calls her. He just told me that he was not in charge her expectations (without telling me what they are), so. Now, considering how bad our relationship was before we split up, I wonder if she instinctively took all this adventure to save our relationship? I try to answer the question, whether one day I will not repeat the story, and how much I can trust her in the future. At least I can not forget about this story, already over a year time. The pain was very strong, but on the other hand, I managed to overcome it. Life is wrestling, it is. Which doesn't kill us, maybe makes us stronger.
To mention that I was and was in the role of the "lover" they abandoned for the first friend. Events... Become and gatherings, and sections...
Specifically, the questions: the only way to deal with the situation is to not let life drag you, take matters into your own hands, and act. Leave it open for the decisions you're going to have to take. Specifically in your case it is very depending. Think of what those men were willing to do to keep you and whether it was important to you? He can win one, maybe the other, maybe a third. But be careful: so many chances in life are eatable, if not the exception.. You're not responsible for what happened, it's out of your mind. You have to understand that in a relationship, it's never just one guilty, but at least the two of them are equal. Put some priorities in your wishes: Where do you want security, where you are ready to venture out. Both are risky, however, for the second clear, but at first you risk one day realizing that you have missed a lot for security. And otherwise, they say the time is healing, but I say it's not necessary.
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May 26, 2020
32 sexxxyvicky4u answered
By N:32-extremely correct, nowadays all do so and finally you are shaking why fate was not benevolent to them!
Do not you understand-butterflies are up to time, very rarely already happens people to have a thrill to each other in a long-standing relationship! After a while, it just remains a deep respect for the partner and that you have something much more than a good friend to yourself.
About the author-go ahead and try a second, and if you listen to me every two months, you find someone new and so the thrill won't get away!!!
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May 26, 2020
33 hannamiills answered
I'm in a similar situation. Only we have two children and twenty years of marriage. A huge routine, there was nothing to say, except for children and work. So I met a gentleman too, I was stubborn... I did not want, conscience, morality.. But I popadoh afraid that I would miss something that my life was clear and nothing wonderful would happen. I was with him, I lied to everyone, I hated myself. But I'm not sorry. Now the hardest thing to say is the end of the affair. I know how much I'm going to hurt him, but I wouldn't leave my family behind and start from scratch with him the way he wants.
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May 27, 2020
34 msvixen94 answered
I'm in a similar situation. Only we have two children and twenty years of marriage. A huge routine, there was nothing to say, except for children and work. So I met a gentleman too, I was stubborn... I did not want, conscience, morality.. But I popadoh afraid that I would miss something that my life was clear and nothing wonderful would happen. I was with him, I lied to everyone, I hated myself. But I'm not sorry. Now the hardest thing to say is the end of the affair. I know how much I'm going to hurt him, but I wouldn't leave my family behind and start from scratch with him the way he wants.
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May 27, 2020
35 tashasoul answered
I'm in a similar situation. Only we have two children and twenty years of marriage. A huge routine, there was nothing to say, except for children and work. So I met a gentleman too, I was stubborn... I did not want, conscience, morality.. But I popadoh afraid that I would miss something that my life was clear and nothing wonderful would happen. I was with him, I lied to everyone, I hated myself. But I'm not sorry. Now the hardest thing to say is the end of the affair. I know how much I'm going to hurt him, but I wouldn't leave my family behind and start from scratch with him the way he wants.
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May 27, 2020
36 pathetic_painslut answered
I'm in a similar situation. Only we have two children and twenty years of marriage. A huge routine, there was nothing to say, except for children and work. So I met a gentleman too, I was stubborn... I did not want, conscience, morality.. But I popadoh afraid that I would miss something that my life was clear and nothing wonderful would happen. I was with him, I lied to everyone, I hated myself. But I'm not sorry. Now the hardest thing to say is the end of the affair. I know how much I'm going to hurt him, but I wouldn't leave my family behind and start from scratch with him the way he wants.
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May 27, 2020
37 candy_puss answered
What's up with your friend? Sometimes you don't realize what you have next to yourself and you get into movies and then you all suffer. My ex was constantly having any dealings with the former and during our relationship. Now I'm already a year without her and I'm not going back to her, and the ex is engaged. She's all alone, waiting for one of the two to look for her, but nobody's looking for her. So sometimes when you don't realize what you've got, you lose it, and then as much as you want it won't come back.
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May 27, 2020
38 sabrina_spice answered
I've been in a situation on this second of the author. I never knew if there was love on the other side, it was mine. In the end, the game was rough, the situation was fading. Great passion causes explosions. At all, passion is not love, it's suffering. BUT who thinks these things. Everyone cites butterflies-what misunderstanding. So the lady in my case is now finally finished the affair with the second. It's more like an entity, but that's another topic. I find it interesting to me, whether there are women with only two men in life. Applies to men-if there is a second-what does it prevent to have a 52-nd? The trail has already been pushed. It really sucks to have you cut off when the interest is exhausted, but the author is good to make it clear and definite. The need for an "explanation". Everyone thinks of "an explanation in love", everyone would like to hear it, but at least the explanation is due to the person who caused some emotions, thoughts. Don't leave the man like I left me on a half-clutch and until I can cut it, it cost me a lot of effort. The second time I would not have made me feel emotional empathy for a woman, women should only act on the principle of logic, no exceptions. So it's better for them, I hope the man didn't really fall in love with the author, because then he will suffer a lot, as you can see, she does nothing to solve the problem. It's not her fault-she's just a woman.
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May 28, 2020
39 lettali answered
Hi! The first advice I can give you is to share this with your husband. If it is calmer it will react better. Tell him that the other person does not forget you and that it would be better to move to another city for a while (maybe with a relative). If this is a more complicated situation, I suggest you dump the second person and not tell your husband. Share with your friend and go to the SPA. You're going to loosen up and forget about the problems. You can also go to a psychologist and tell him about it and he will listen to you and advise you (that's his job). If you don't want to go to the psychologists, get to your best friend and share (maybe your mother). It would be even better if you slept at home!!! I'm 12, but I hope you get better.
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May 28, 2020
40 impalass59 answered
Every miracle for 3 days.... Just do not understand what you mean by "uniformity", are you always with the same person? So when you get bored with one guy, you dump him with someone else, then him and the third, and the third with the fourth, I'm sorry I'm going to say this, but that's what they do.... If you fell in love with someone else, you just never loved your friend, and instead of playing it, you could have said that this relationship no longer fills you... Now, if you serve him this thing, how will it feel? Or just looking at your own fun... Write here to appease your guilty conscience... Typical whining "Our relationship is very dull and monotonous, I want variety" does not pass anymore. Couldn't you get that "variety" from the person you're with? Travel, find a common hobby, go to parties, return to your teenage years, break into bed... When you have a dull relationship, make sure you change it first, then look for a new one so you don't regret it...
Marrr
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May 28, 2020
41 leyalotus answered
Hi.
The thrill always passes away. Ask yourself if you are one of those people who must at all costs have to have a person beside you to feel in harmony with yourself and well. Because I have the feeling that you want to be the kind of guys who are afraid of staying alone.
If it's a big love and you've been through so much, it's really bad you're stuck. But in so rather circumstances, I think it's good to split with it (the first) and to waste the thrill with the second one (if the second one doesn't dump you before the thrill has passed. But that's the risk.). But in any case, you're not going to feel any worse now, because you are now in an unexperienced thrill. Live it! And if it's written, You'il stay with the second. To be real with someone. For purely psychologically, for me and now you are alone, being with a person to yourself, to whom you are already indifferent and far from the one you are not. Success!
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May 28, 2020
1 sexyvpiska answered