I Wanted To Share These Thoughts

Hello, good people, For a long time now I have been thinking more and more about the degradation of the young generation and I am of the opinion that it is part of the black hole in the Bulgarian society, which is already narrow-minded and limited. It happens more and more often that I travel on the bus and see a little girl smeared with more make-up than his mother must have used. The children became more and more ungrateful and mistreating their parents, disrespecting them enough and not having a spiritual connection with each other. What can I say about the following picture: a minor / underage young man / girl walks down the street with the majesty of a lord and most shamelessly smokes in front of people, teachers, parents. Once upon a time a teacher only saw you smoking out of school, now the teachers are corrupt and everything is a big network of fraud (nothing personal to the people in this area). Adolescents have a very distorted value system and the lessons and teachings for most are on the last page of their life book with priorities, not realizing that the less educated they are (because nowadays anyone can "get a degree", it is not proof of what is really in your head), the lower paid labor will be. For example, I am a lone wolf. He is right when he said that a person can live without everything else, but not without friends, but I have a very good friend who has always supported and loved me unconditionally, no matter what mud I was in, she was there. for me unconditionally and this is my mother. I don't need other people. To others, I'm a weird, maybe even repulsive, cricket - but they don't know my story, nor do they know me. Lately I've been living with the theory, that I am not just another sheep in the flock, but I am clearly different in something that makes me so difficult to be accepted in society. I love art, I paint, I'm a member of a theater troupe, and when I'm really sad or just inspired, I write poetry. I have posted my stuff on this site - I am the author of "A Conversation with the Conscience of an Actor" and "Haiku, Poems" :). Yes, I'm a sad person in life, maybe I'm a little crazy, maybe I accept things first from the negative side, and then I look at them from the positive side, maybe I often say harsh words, maybe I'm more sensitive, maybe I'm tired already to take another role in life and change masks, maybe I'm a little disappointed with people. But at the same time I know how to have fun with myself, I enjoy the little things in life, I like to get up early in the morning, to watch the sunrise, I love my mother, I try to love myself and I try not to be another random actor in life. Since I know that the site is visited by both adults and children / teenagers, and the reader is already bored, I end my story with a few lines for everyone. Dear children / adolescents, Do not judge your parents too harshly. Remember that there will never be a person in the world who loves you more, prays for you, wishes you well, worries and anxiously, and unreservedly supports you more than they do. Remember that you will also not find a person who understands you better than your parents - they have already gone your way and know very well how you feel. Just because they don't know exactly how to react to your strange behavior, which in the difficult years of your puberty is at high tide, doesn't mean that they don't want to help you and don't understand you. Also have the necessary respect and esteem for them - they have gone through a lot of pain and deprivation because of you and most likely continue to deprive themselves of various things to make you feel good and feel satisfied. Don't waste your parents' money - remember that they don't dig it, they make it with a lot of effort, and be understanding when they can't always give you money for a movie or a new outfit, because there are more important things in the family. , urgent needs. Dear children and teenagers, do not smoke. Don't look at what those in your company are doing and change the company if necessary. Understand that this is no longer fashionable, smokers are no longer looked upon favorably, it is harmful, it does not help solve your problems and one day you will regret it. I know a very good man who, however, smoked very steadily. Started as a teenager. He was recently diagnosed with lung cancer. He has no more than a year left, but he is 60. The signs are already there, his hair and teeth are falling out, his life is leaving him ... the man is leaving. And he is only sixty years old. How old are your grandparents, dear teenagers? I guess about 70-80? This man will never play with his grandchildren and watch them grow. Here's a vivid example of the consequences of smoking at an early age - it doesn't have to happen to any of you, but remember - it happens once. And most importantly - do not rush to grow! One day you will want to be small and carefree again. Dear parents, Do not judge your children too harshly and do not compare them with others. This is a useless action that causes stress to both you and your children. Do not have too high expectations of your children and appreciate their every small success. Try to make friends with your children and talk to them in a calm tone, it affects them a lot - so they will unconsciously trust you more and will want to share more about themselves. Dear parents, do not force your children to live in an unsuitable home environment. Try not to witness scandals between the two of you. Please do not set a bad example for your children and do not smoke in front of them with the words that you are "great people and know what you are doing" - but the truth is that time and years never come for cigarettes. :) And yet, be their parents first, then their friends, and remember that if your teenagers don't hate you at least once in their lives, then you haven't done a good job. : ))) One day they will be very, very grateful to you for all the restrictions you have placed on them and for teaching them to be People of Dignity. I can still talk a lot, but it's already a long story! I just wanted to share these thoughts! I hope you understood me at least a little! And I will be happy for comments. :)