I am 20 years old, my friend and I have been together for 7 years ... But I have been writing to his friend for a year now, and from base to base it has happened that we both want to see each other. He because he wants us to be together and have sex, and I because I want to see how I feel if I go out. We talk on the phone and write to each other, but when it comes to seeing each other, I always run away from the question. I want to leave my boyfriend because we have many differences and for so long I have realized that we have no future together. But I can't ... I know he loves me and I can't do it to him, but I punish myself by staying with him out of affection ... And I feel terrible about what I'm doing behind his back with his friend. I don't know what to do, I want to go out with his friend, but I'm sure someone will see us, and I don't want that to be the reason for us to break up ... and then to go out to the bottom ...
1 ColombianCunt answered
You're obviously as easily in love as I am. When another boy wants any contact with me, I cut him! Because I don't want to hurt my friend. Lately, however, I've been saying to myself that this is scary, and if I cut everyone, then I can't handle myself, so I started dating others, but only as acquaintances. So my thought is: I know that if you go out with his friend you will experience the butterflies in your stomach as it was in the beginning with yours. This is because you are dating someone you don't know. If you get to know him over time, things will change. However, when you think about leaving your friend, you obviously have nothing to do with him and you want a new beginning. If you think it's worth hurting the man who loves you out of curiosity, do it. But then if things get bad with his boyfriend, you'll realize you had someone really by your side, and you dumped him for your stupidity! Think well worth it? !! Tell a friend, she can advise you wisely.