Watch that whirlwind nose, how far you're going to go.
People just worry because they love you, but you're a scorpion, you have to take it out their noses.
How are you going to pay for your university on your own?
We always touch people, don't think of yourself as independent. Not 18 years old.
You're going to get tired of life too fast, and you wish you'd had it on the other end.
Don't think if you move out, it's going to be great. You won't live with them, but you'il struggle. How are you going to cover all the expenses?
It's annoying to get in your way, but it's hard to be alone.
Don't think your friend and I would be better off.
Wait till you finish and move out to a place with your boyfriend. Just don't go live with his parents, because the vast majority of women are eating with mother-in-law in this situation, and you're going to be mom and dad's children instead of big independent people and a single family. The job doesn't shut down the university. You can work seasonally on the sea in a position with tips to have for the winter, or go to university and get a four-hour job. I had colleagues who ran away from parents who worked full-time. As for your mother, you will have to impose certain limits on her behavior as you are already an adult and an adult, not a parent and a child - you are a big woman now and normally to ask for personal freedom and independence. For example, don't call me when I get out, and if she rings, you don't answer. Borders are said, and if not respected there must be consequences. I'm your mother, and I'm worried about the fire, which again shows you that it's like you're not an adult who can be responsible for herself, and that's not the case. It can also give you a sense of guilt and duty - how much she's done for you, sacrifices, etc. You owe the same to your children, not to her. If you stay firm in your positions, you should learn to comply if you don't have to keep in contact with her if it makes you unhappy - no one wants a woman who comes complete with an annoying old mother-in-law. If you let her interfere, you won't be able to start a happy family. Remember, one should do what makes him happy, not what others expect from him.
The zodiac doesn't justify you. Your family is one part of you that you're going to think about for the rest of your life. It's normal for them to worry. How else? If you were mixing your circles, they wouldn't be so obsessive and annoying, because they'd know what they need and be calm about you. You don't believe that, but you'il miss that in time. Stay with them for two more months, at least finish. Then get a job, move out to a place and do whatever you want. It sounds very easy in theory to be self-sufficient, but practice proves otherwise. With school hours, it's hard to work for a normal salary that's enough for housing, bills and food. Be reasonable, don't jump upside down in this water carousel. Work is easier to combine with a university than with a school. There may be scandals, but only if you get the wrong way for your family. It's up to you if you're going to fight.
1,2 and 4 are a useful example of how parents manipulate and rattle nonsense to keep children dependent on themselves. This is not right and right and it is not as difficult as they describe it – since I was 18 years old I am alone in Sofia and after 8 years I am super with a serious friend, a high position, a salary well above average and an apartment I bought soon even. It's very cool to be free, independent and achieve everything on your own - self-feeling is different and you're much happier.
I don't support the commenters so far. You're an adult now, it's normal to feel suffocated by that attitude. Among other things, it will not give you the opportunity to build yourself as an independent person and develop in time in all directions. If you have a financial opportunity, move out, if you don't at least stand up for your privacy and set hard limits.
Wait till you graduate. until then, your mother has the right to contact you with the police, because by law she is obliged to support you. Don't get into stupid movies.
When you graduate, you say you don't want to be supported, and no one can tell you what and with whom and where to do it. You're moving out and you're on your own. But until then, "grandma for beauty"!
It's better to be surrounded by people who love you and think good to you than not to have anyone.
At 18, we all thought our world was at our feet, that we could do anything, that we knew everything, that our loved ones had to comply with us, that we were more than them, if you will.
However, life is running out, time passes, and after years we realize that we know nothing, even already grown up, and little by little we begin to come to the minds of our parents (if, of course, they are normal people). Then we have children and we understand that we have not been to the end of the world to think of ourselves and great, and we worry one day that our children will not think so about us.
The conclusion of what it is- there has to be a middle ground. Your family loves you and they think you're good. Talk to them, explain to them that you're reasonable and that they can trust you that you're not going to do anything stupid. Maybe their concern is caused by the fact that you're too secretive and they don't know what's really going on with you. They don't know you.
I'm a scorpion, too. I don't think the zodiac defines man and his character. It's a matter of choice. You can't identify with the characteristics of the zodiac.
Number 5 is very right! And number 6.
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p: And the super funny thing is when a girl or boy complains something from their parents - then they write him the exact opposite: 'come on, get out, you're 18 now'.
The best thing you can do is enroll in university, and live in a dorm. But it's not going to be easy for you to get your life in order tomorrow. It's going to be a few years, but it's the safest way to separate yourself and ensure adequate living conditions. And about the parents... you'd better be far away to keep your relationship decent. And by no means do you allow your future family to live under the same roof with parents, lily, uncles, evils, grandmother, tets and other relatives. You'il get neither happiness nor peace of mind!!!!
Well, you need initial capital to export, like for any endeavor. I started saving at your age, squeezing my teeth at my mother's, and it wasn't until I was 23 that I had the money to separate myself, but I went straight overseas, so I needed more. Now, you need a deposit for the rent, the first two rents, the maintenance money for two months, the reserve in case of illness, and another inviolable reserve for a ticket home if something goes dry. And from the first university fee. That must be your ready-made money before you go. Count them how many are and act, work, save, raise capital. That's the minimum. At least because you can be out of a job, then you have to have that money to make time to find a new one. Or if you leave without a secure job and look on the spot, you can cover your needs. You'il probably have to put up with other roommates, but maybe it'il be easier for you, look how it is, try it. There's always a way back.
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