Hello. I am a woman, 22 years old. I have a small problem, or rather not a problem, but an unclear solution, which I hope you will help me with, because I cannot solve it alone. I like a boy who is 6 years younger than me. We met him at a home party, which was attended by about 35 people and was generally crowded and everyone called a friend from somewhere and great fun, jokes, dancing and drinking (you know how it is). We met at the door when I arrived, we didn't know each other then, and when he entered he opened the door for me and smiled. When we entered, he came to ask me immediately if I wanted something to drink and to meet by the way. He began to smile terribly charmingly at me again. At first I honestly thought he was at least 19 or 20 because he was about 1, 90 tall and relatively large. I even asked him which university he was at and if we had met at a disco in a student town, and he laughed a little again and said he was only 10th grade, still 16 years old. So we continued in the evening, drinking, jokes, dancing, some photos, which we then uploaded to social networks, and then in the evening he sent me home and asked for my phone number so that "sometimes" we could go out for a coffee. . Of course, I couldn't refuse him and I gave it to him. Subsequently, we started going out more and more often, he introduced me to my friends, and I introduced him to my girlfriends, everyone tells us that we go a lot and they always ask me why we are still "just friends".
What do you think could be the reason? The years naturally. So ... we continued to go out regularly, for coffee, walks, we even hugged and kissed a few times, he invited me to them one night, he said his parents were on a night shift, and I didn't go. Some time ago he invited me to watch his training (he trains football), of course I went. Then his matches. He wants me to be with him everywhere. It seems to him that he has sunk to my ears. He offered to be with us a few days ago, but I still haven't answered. I told him it wasn't because he was the cause (and it really wasn't), I just wanted to make things clear. He is only 16 years old, still a student, and I am now in my second year at university. He asked me if age was an obstacle, and I was wondering how to avoid his question, but he finally guessed and said that he really wanted to have something very serious with me and that was not an obstacle for him.
He was in love with me. However, he said that by the time he graduated in two years, I will already be 24. He said that even then I might have thought of a family and he was afraid of abandoning it because of some 25-30-year-old stable man in order to start a family. He says he is very much in love with me and would like us to be together for a long time. I feel it too, he's really in love with me, but I'm still wondering - should I be with him?
Will I do not get tired of being younger in time, or will he get tired of being older and want someone his age? Because when he's in his second or third year at university, I'll be a graduate ... I'm really faced with a serious dilemma. I still haven't told him if I want to go, if you can give me some other advice on age and if it will work out between us ... thanks in advance. that maybe even then I was thinking about a family and he was afraid of abandoning it because of some 25-30 year old stable man to start a family. He says he is very much in love with me and would like us to be together for a long time. I feel it too, he's really in love with me, but I'm still wondering - should I be with him? Will I not get tired of being younger in time, or will he get tired of being older and want someone his age? Because when he's in his second or third year at university, I'll be a graduate ... I'm really faced with a serious dilemma. I still haven't told him if I want to go, if you can give me some other advice on age and if it will work out between us ... thanks in advance. that maybe even then I was thinking about a family and he was afraid of abandoning it because of some 25-30-year-old stable man to start a family. He says he is very much in love with me and would like us to be together for a long time. I feel it too, he's really in love with me, but I'm still wondering - should I be with him?
Will I do not get tired of being younger in time, or will he get tired of being older and want someone his age? Because when he's in his second or third year at university, I'll be a graduate ... I'm really faced with a serious dilemma. I still haven't told him if I want to go, if you can give me some other advice on age and if it will work out between us ... thanks in advance. that he is very much in love with me and would like us to be together for a long time. I feel it too, he's really in love with me, but I'm still wondering - should I be with him?
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Why go so much? It's like distance is an obstacle to love, isn't it? If he is so in love with you, do not ruin his "dreams" if I may say so, because at this age his psyche is not yet fully developed and all sorts of nonsense can do them. And you will see, as you said, that he will get bored and find his set. Good luck going forward and I hope I didn't mislead you with something or make a mistake with your choice. PP: And yet what the fuck? !! 6 years difference ...