Hello, I am a girl of 16 years old and I have a friend of 18. We have been together for 8 months. We are from one city in general, but he lives in another because he is a student. He comes in a week and sits a lot. We have already said that we love each other. At least that's how I feel. We understand each other above, but we both have very difficult characters. We fight constantly and get annoyed. We argue about the smallest thing. The problem is that he does what he wants, but he forbids me to do that. I don't usually listen to him and go out. I used to give him a lot of problems going out, talking to girls, but later I realized that these are children's stories and it's not worth bothering both of us. After all, these are my school years, and his student years. This is common to our relationship. The real problem is that he lied to me before and I don't know if I can trust him. As far as I know, a relationship without trust is not a relationship. And he doesn't have anything for me and constantly causes me problems, for example if I haven't written for 30 minutes or I don't call or say where I am. For several days I have been apologizing for everything and trying to please to avoid scandals, but I am guilty of it again. I've tried everything. And with quarrels, and with indifference, and with good behavior. If I tell him to break up for a while, he may not want us to get together anymore and nothing will be the same. I don't know at all what to do with this boy, whether it's worth the relationship and the time. In my place, what would you do? I've tried everything. And with quarrels, and with indifference, and with good behavior. If I tell him to break up for a while, he may not want us to get together anymore and nothing will be the same. I don't know at all what to do with this boy, whether it's worth the relationship and the time. In my place, what would you do? I've tried everything. And with quarrels, and with indifference, and with good behavior. If I tell him to break up for a while, he may not want us to get together anymore and nothing will be the same. I don't know at all what to do with this boy, whether it's worth the relationship and the time. In my place, what would you do?
1 lilyshine answered
Try to explain to him how you feel. Tell him that being bigger doesn't give him more rights. That if he wants things to go well, he should not press you and give you freedom, but keep you short. If nothing changes, leave it because it will get worse over time. Everyone deserves a second, even a third chance, but that's it, you shouldn't ruin your life for a boy.