I'm desperate. I want to catch a boyfriend, but it doesn't work, I don't like anyone, I don't get along with anyone, as if someone invites me, I refuse, because I'm not attracted to this person and I'm not interested. What to do I've been alone for years, only couples around me, they get married all the time, I'm not too old, I'm 22, but I don't feel very sick, I just can't do it, it's hard for me. During these years it's not like I haven't dated anyone , but everyone I tried turned out to be women, I don't know if I'm attracted to them or like them. Otherwise I have fans, but I expect something accidental, love at first sight, to have chemistry, it has always happened to me, not to try to go out with someone who is not intriguing to me and try to get something and something to arise. Are there others in my position?
1 akshay answered
My experience is that it is pointless to give a chance to people who are not attracted to you. I did it, the whole situation is unpleasant for me, I feel like I'm being forced and I can't wait for the meeting to end and leave. If you do not meet men who like you, you need to expand your social circle. Here's what I do. If I don't like someone, I don't waste my time or his, with meaningless chances. If I find someone attractive, I try to see if I will like him as a person. However, I am proactive, I do not wait for him to think of anything, but I try to provoke events.