Hello!!! I have been in a relationship for 2 months with a 50-year-old man. He is married and much older than me. So far, our relationship has been entirely about kissing, hugging and cuddling. I've wanted to have sex with him for a while and I told him. We tried several times, but our commitments were interrupted. The bad thing is that my desire is strengthened by the thought that it will never be mine, and I will never be his. I adore him. I have a feeling he's worried about disappointing me in bed. Please give me advice on how to predispose him. What can I do for him and how can I do it for him ? Write only on the topic. Thank you in advance!!!!
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I will write to you, Miss, not to spoil a family, because this is a great sin
Call his wife, she will tell you exactly what to do!
Don't listen to number 2, obviously the woman doesn't know either. Look, author, don't push this man. He is currently struggling with himself. Otherwise, you will get burned. Sex will be very good, but if you fall in love? You will have to cry alone. A 50-year-old man finds it difficult to divorce because he has to share all his property with his wife. And yet - it happens. Another question is whether it will happen to you or you will be another young, used and abandoned woman. Love is not a sin. He is an adulterer, not you, because he is married. But I'm telling you, be careful not to fall in love
And you, how old are you? Let's clarify this to tell you if you have a chance to be yours.
Sex with you does not necessarily mean divorce for him. He is already old and wants to try young, to remember how he is. He is nothing more. And if he fixes you a few times, he will withdraw on his own, and you will suffer. Will you exchange some other disease and why ?? Get a 30-year-old to shake you hard, what's this old man for ?? Do not commit the sin that you will have children one day and the same thing will happen to you, even though this day seems quite distant to you right now, be sure that it will come. There is no free lunch in this world, my girl, never forget it. Sooner or later you will have to pay your part of the bill, I hope your children do not have to pay it one day! Think hard.
In my opinion, it is stupid what you do that you will regret in time and at least ruin the man's family. Take matters into your own hands and don't do stupid things;)
Abe jerks, the girl wants you to give her advice and not to read her the bible !!!!
Abe people are you okay? How can you call a 50-year-old a "grandfather", it's an adult. I sincerely regret the women who were not with older men, do not know how much they missed, but so much to the limited. Regarding the author's problem, I want to advise her to be herself, the more relaxed you are with him, the easier it will be for him to relax. Predispose him by reminding him how much he likes and excites you! Success!
Off what nonsense I read only. He was a grandfather at the age of 50, are you all right?
I don't understand these women ... "I adore him ..." Emmy, don't break his family. If you were in his wife's place? !! How would you feel? You would probably adore him at that moment, too. Doesn't the very fact that he's cheating on her with you repel you? If he's a lot older than you, it's only temporary. Because if you are together, you will want something "younger" in time, as he wants now with you. This whole story doesn't speak well of you at all, and it's good to think about it.
Alouuu, "moralists", I'm quiet! Where did you get such "sinless", huh? "Don't do this, .... don't do that, ... God will judge you, ... this is a sin." In such cases, I like to say, “Do not judge, lest you be judged.” No one knows what will happen to him in this colorful and full of surprises life. No insured! In essence - a girl, it matters how old you are and what you want from life. What are your plans, expectations, are you ready for a serious relationship, do you want a child and a family? They correctly wrote in some of the above comments, do not expect anything serious from this man. For him, you are a variety, you bring color and emotion into his life, which, along with family, problems, work, has become a monotonous everyday life. But if you have secret hopes that he will divorce his wife for you - no, this will not happen! He has already created something safe, and men do not run away from security. Still to commit again, to adjust to a new character, in a few words - to start all over again. It will be difficult for him no matter how much he tells you that he loves you and that he can't do without you. It's easier for both of you to have the kind of relationship you have right now. As for how to predispose him - show him that you adore him, tell him sexy things, what you will do to him ... Just tell him that no matter how you "introduce yourself in bed", for you it is not of paramount importance . I think that when there is really passion, thrill and emotion, I'm talking about those primary passions, then things just happen in the most wonderful way. in a few words - to start all over again. It will be difficult for him no matter how much he tells you that he loves you and that he can't do without you. It's easier for both of you to have the kind of relationship you have right now. As for how to predispose him - show him that you adore him, tell him sexy things, what you will do to him ... Just tell him that no matter how you "introduce yourself in bed", for you it is not of paramount importance . I think that when there is really passion, thrill and emotion, I'm talking about those primary passions, then things just happen in the most wonderful way. in a few words - to start all over again. It will be difficult for him no matter how much he tells you that he loves you and that he can't do without you. It's easier for both of you to have the kind of relationship you have right now. As for how to predispose him - show him that you adore him, tell him sexy things, what you will do to him ... Just tell him that no matter how you "introduce yourself in bed", for you it is not of paramount importance . I think when there is really passion, thrill and emotion, I'm talking about those primary passions, then things just happen in the most wonderful way. that no matter how you "present yourself in bed," it's not paramount to you. I think when there is really passion, thrill and emotion, I'm talking about those primary passions, then things just happen in the most wonderful way. that no matter how you "present yourself in bed," it's not paramount to you. I think when there is really passion, thrill and emotion, I'm talking about those primary passions, then things just happen in the most wonderful way.