Sex is fun !!! ??? The fact that you look at sex as fun is a very big problem. Let's say it's fun if you like it that way, but it's fun for adults, not children, who, if they have other children, can't take care of them. At your age, I lived with your tremors and pains. When my mother told me I was little, I just hated her. Now, as I read what you have written, I understand my mother. You are SMALL for these things and the fact that you call sex "Fun" proves it in full force. I respect your feelings, I understand them, it's hard to be in love and not shared, but on the topic of sex we can not agree. Fall in love at this age as much as you want. Kiss as much as you want. Lie, swear, promise ... but be careful with the "fun". Sex is the perfect addition to a real relationship. I'm sorry I'm going to moralize (I know you hate that a lot and I hated it), but that's the way things are in life. You will understand me only when you find the real one. At your age, everyone is "real." Only now do you enter life, get to know yourself, your feelings, etc. Everything really is yet to come. Everything - in every way, including love. You yourself are not shaped as a character. From now on you will build. Remember that all these obstacles and pains you encounter along the way build you up as a person. Children, children! Why are you in such a hurry to grow up! Tomorrow you will hate yourself for giving away your body for someone's "fun". Show me a 100 percent safe way to get pregnant! There is no such thing, dear child, there is none! What fun is this, which can ruin your life in an instant! Why do you look at things so superficially! Will an abortion fix your situation later? What about your conscience? And the remorse? And the fears that when you grow up you will not have children? At this age, the sea is knee-deep, but please listen a little more to the advice of others. It's wonderful to be a virgin. Try not to change this in the near future. You haven't lost anything just because you haven't shown your naked body to anyone. Don't be so willing to give in, because the humiliation you will experience if you do it with a person you later realize was just a number is huge, unbearable and nightmarish. Should your mothers bear the brunt of your sin by signing for an abortion? Dear girls, think what you are doing !!! Life is yours, it stands before you. Where are you in such a hurry! ? When you turn 25 (for example) and find the person who meets and fits exactly your already built worldview and character, but he tells you that he really wants to be a virgin, and you "having fun" gave yourself this "nothing" to an adventurer, then how will you feel? All men love light women, but do not take light wives for themselves! I really hope you always remember that! If at 18 you meet the man of your dreams, how will you explain to him that at 16 you had already developed (don't get me wrong, I don't want to offend you). Appreciate your virginity, girls. This is not just a burden, but a gift! Don't give presents to everyone you meet just because it's fashionable to have sex. This is a dangerous game that leaves incurable scars in the soul. Each "piece" is a wound in the soul. Don't let anyone leave a wound on your body either!
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The problem is that you have not experienced your love, and he already took you for granted .. At 15, how many even greater thrills will you meet ..