Hello. It says a 19-year-old girl. I have a friend for about 2 years .... at the end of May we will finish them ... but recently there is something that worries me. In general, my friend (1 year older than me) likes freer relationships. He doesn't like to say "I love you", it sounds cinematic to him, he doesn't like frequent meetings ... not that he doesn't like them, he doesn't make much impression on him, but as I said he likes to be more relaxed and his boyfriend doesn't bother with "dramas." I want to add that his parents are wealthy people, whether they are his apartment and he lives alone, they gave him a car, he doesn't study, he doesn't work, they smoke weed in them with friends almost every night ... recently his father promised him a new car with the condition that he would give it to him if he went to university ... and his mother made him a plan of what to study, then what to specialize and work .... they try to lure him to the "right path", but he came up with a "plan for millions" by gambling. He's cute, he's great, he doesn't lack love when we're together, he hugs me, he kisses me, he tries to be a gentleman, he reads books separately (on personal development) he wants to do useful, productive things, but he's quite lazy . But I am personally worried about the fact that we see each other 2 or 3 times a week ... when I am at school and there is no way more, I justified it to him, that he has to work on his plan for success with the acquisition of millions .. even though he is free all day and lives only 25 minutes away from us .... so before we saw each other, had sex, we were together for a few hours and so on until the next weekend ... until at one point I muttered that I can't just sex .... so yes .. I just want more time together ... to tell me he loves me, to see that he wants to spend time with me ... I love the closeness of people's souls, not just sex. I told him that he was torturing me ... he reacted, but once he told me that he likes the fact that we are freer ... only that I need a boyfriend ... and not someone I see so rarely. .. as I said, I thought he was busy all day with some things, but soon when I questioned him, I realized that he actually sleeps late and then deals with nonsense, and in the evening they gather to smoke ... and I wondered .. God, I thought there was no time ... and he has such freedom and yet he does not spend time with me. Am I wrong that I want more time together ... to do some things together ... trips, trainings, games, to talk about deep topics, to have fun ... or what I want is normal? I cried a lot at times because I was lonely ... but I didn't want to bother him, although he says there is no problem. I have been training boxing for almost a year and there is a boy who wants to spend time with me .. he doesn't push me for sex and things like that .. of course I cut him off, I don't want to get dirty ... but I thought ... this a boy is busy all day and still finds some time for me and offers me ds we go on outings, discuss interesting topics ... and I thought ... why my own boyfriend does not have as much time for me as this boy .... maybe it's just that our points of view are different, maybe young people don't care about engaging relationships ... What do you say?
1 chaakir55 answered
I am a boy and I fully support you. You just want a boy who loves you and shows it to you, that's the connection. I understand you and you want the right things. Make him jealous and pretend you're not sure.