Hello, I need advice very urgently. Here is my story: I have a friend for 3 years but we do not live together, but I feel that the feelings between us are getting colder. He has been working at sea for about 3 months and will return in October. We rarely talk to him anymore, we don't write to each other in a word, I think I'm tired of him already. My ex-boyfriend and I have been separated for 3 and a half years, but we have been writing to each other for about 2 weeks. At first he only wanted to sleep with me, but then he said that he had feelings for me (I trust him because I know what a person he is and he would never play with someone's feelings). He has been telling me for 1 week that he was in love with me, he asks me if I would kiss him, but I told him that while I have a friend I will not do it because for me it is something like infidelity. He tells me he would do anything for me, he would wait as long as he needed to and do what he had to do just to be with me again. He told me 3 days ago that it didn't really matter if I went with him, but it was more important for him to separate me from my current friend because he wasn't for me, and I'm sure I still have some feelings for him.
And yes, we've been writing these things to each other for 1 week and today I saw that he was engaged to a chick, but he explained to me that he didn't feel anything for her, he just didn't want to be alone anymore. We wrote for another day and suddenly everything stopped - calls, sms, we stopped writing .. PS: We don't see each other from different cities but we are not that far away. I want advice on how to make him miss me and find out if his feelings are really that strong! :) and it's more important for him to separate me from my current boyfriend because he wasn't for me, and I'm sure I still have some feelings for him. And yes, we've been writing these things to each other for 1 week and today I saw that he was engaged to a chick, but he explained to me that he didn't feel anything for her, he just didn't want to be alone anymore. We wrote for another day and suddenly everything stopped - calls, SMS, we stopped writing ..
PS: We don't see each other from different cities, but we are not that far away. I want advice on how to make him miss me and find out if his feelings are really that strong! :) and it's more important for him to separate me from my current boyfriend because he wasn't for me, and I'm sure I still have some feelings for him. And yes, we've been writing these things to each other for 1 week and today I saw that he was engaged to a chick, but he explained to me that he didn't feel anything for her, he just didn't want to be alone anymore. We wrote for another day and suddenly everything stopped - calls, sms, we stopped writing .. PS: We don't see each other from different cities but we are not that far away. I want advice on how to make him miss me and find out if his feelings are really that strong! :) we stopped writing .. PS: We don't see each other from different cities but we are not that far away. I want advice on how to make him miss me and find out if his feelings are really that strong! :) we stopped writing .. PS: We don't see each other from different cities but we are not that far away. I want advice on how to make him miss me and find out if his feelings are really that strong! :)
1 thegriz90 answered
Wait a minute. Do you want to make your ex almost explain himself to you in love, and at the same time you are bound to someone else? !! Hey, that's called a girl who doesn't know what she wants. Give up on both. You don't deserve them.