Hello strangers, I hope you help with advice, I will introduce you to my problem. I'm a woman in my 30s, I've had a friend for a year, we've been together, everything is going perfectly, (But everything can't be 6). I have had a hearing problem since I was a child, I can't hear well. And that kills me ... And that's where it all starts. He's a dream man, I don't deserve him. He was probably advised that I was not for him ... To find a healthy girl. And as you can guess, because of my problem, I avoid going to them often, going out with his friends. We love each other, but until when should I avoid meeting people. I want to somehow make him leave me. I don't want him to regret over time that he became very attached to me, or for example that we are a family. I do not have the courage to tell him, nor would I show what is written here, I do not want him to suffer. I just want it to end on its own. A little about our relationship - We didn't have any problems. We understand each other, we give each other space. We are not jealous. There are also no dissatisfied in sex. Our parents know each other, I make sure that he is more often with us. It took a little while but I had to explain. And to add that we are the same age. I expect you to share from me, apart from being cooler to him, what else should I do We have a lot of acquaintances in common, I don't want them to gossip about me. I will follow and comment, be healthy everyone. what else should I do? We have a lot of acquaintances in common, I don't want them to talk about it because of me. I will follow and comment, be healthy everyone. what else should I do? We have a lot of acquaintances in common, I don't want them to gossip about me. I will follow and comment, be healthy everyone.
1 LaLa_Blue answered
And you plan to sit alone all your life because of hearing problems? There are people, the blind, the disabled, the terminally ill, who still have connections and start families. He has accepted your problem, but you obviously cannot accept it. Instead of wondering how to get him to leave you, work on your self-esteem. Do not isolate yourself, even learn to joke about your problem and all his friends and relatives will accept you. After all, he has a relationship with you, not you. So even if someone doesn't like you, you don't care at all.