I'm 28 years old. I have been married for three years and have a 1 year old child. I loved my husband very much, but over the years he has changed a lot - he always insulted me and teased that I do not earn enough money, that without him I can not cope, and I have a university degree and earn decent money. And so the days after marriage turned into scandals, sleepless nights bathed in tears ..... We stopped talking and had sex no more than once every two months. In the evening, when he returned from work, he always complained about life, how he was not doing well, how the money was not enough / and we are very, very well materially / And all I wanted was to hug me and show me that he loves me ... ... When we went out together, he always looked at foreign women, forgetting that I am beautiful and I have always had many suitors ... Even in another scandal, he told me that he would leave me .........
I began to feel emptiness because my parents and my girlfriend did not know about the situation, and I did not want to leave it because of the child. And now I want to reveal why I chose the section Love and Infidelity .... At the beginning of the pregnancy a new colleague joined the company. After I stopped working in the office, he would periodically call me on the phone to ask me how I was feeling and how the child was, or just to talk. After I gave birth she even visited me in the hospital and congratulated me and my husband. I was glad that he was interested, but I always declined his invitations to see him because I found this interest unfounded, if you will, I tried to distance myself, because the colleague in question is a very attractive young man, sensitive and delicate. And I didn't want to make my husband jealous because I still wanted to save my marriage .... But one day, my colleague called me at home and told me that he had registered on Skype and offered to talk to me. This time I accepted .... And so day after day, little by little I began to feel the joy of communicating and I can to talk about something other than the topic of money, cars, etc. And the strange thing is that I never revealed to him about the problems with my husband, I never complained, I even hid the truth and I said more than once that I am happy in my marriage .... But last night he sent me a jazz song called "Woman of Gold" and he told me that he reminds me of him, he also told me that in his eyes I am a gentle, intelligent woman who also has a character, which plus has a wonderful little child ..... ..I was speechless and cried in front of the computer and jokingly added that he should be careful with such women, then I added,
1 kelly__peirce13 answered
Do it. No one has the right to judge you. To love to be loved is the greatest happiness in the world, and you deserve it. What does your husband offer you - nothing good, right. And the other - all you need - LOVE. Be happy. I used to be - and a lot, but not now, because my love replaced me with another.