Hello. My story is nothing special, but I want to hear an opinion from the male part. I have been writing to a man for several years, we have heard each other, we have talked until the middle of the night, we have shared, laughed, joked, etc. We have never seen each other live, but we feel close to each other. At the beginning of our acquaintance he wanted to come to the city where I live, but I refused. He was free then and obviously had some hopes. On the other hand, I was in an extremely depressing period of my life and I didn't want to. We behave completely freely with each other. But we never made sexual overtones. We recently decided it was time to meet live. We don't have a specific date because we are both very busy and have a hard time finding free time. Well, we haven't seen each other yet. In two of our conversations recently, however, we relaxed in chat and on the phone and had something like phone sex lol. It was strange but nice, interesting. The first time we did it, the next day we continued the communication, as usual, as if nothing had happened. After the second time, however, I feel as if I have withdrawn.
We wrote two, three words and that's it. At the moment he is busy, he has a girlfriend he rarely sees and most days he is alone or with friends. They have been in a relationship for 2-3 years, but as far as I know, there are things he misses with her. I have no hopes or plans with him, I'm just bitten by the ambiguity. I relaxed with him because I feel close to him and I know that it is the same with him, otherwise our communication would not have lasted so long. So, I turn to the male part with a question, what do you think? How do I react? What should I do? What should I think? Do I look light in his eyes, provided that he knows about all my relationships and that I am not, because we share everything constantly? I had no plans to mess with him, I just relaxed. It bothers me that I don't know what to think, this person is really important to me. I will be glad to hear your opinion.
1 pure_annabell answered
How do I react? What should I do? What should I think? Do I look light in his eyes? There are questions that none of us can answer. How to react? And what do you want? If you want to continue as before, do nothing different. There's no way we can tell you if you look "light" in his eyes without knowing him. There are men for whom you will look "light" if you show up without a veil on the street. Here we can only offer you individual points of view. Mine is that you fantasized, you enjoyed it and that's it. That doesn't mean you have to grab yourself when you see each other. Fairy tales are one thing, actions are quite another. The best solution is to understand what you want. Then hear / chat and clarify your relationship. Grandpa Torbalan