Hello, I want help from people who have already experienced separation from the child's husband and father. Separation of 5 years after that several unsuccessful attempts on my part to get together. Problems and misunderstandings, I allowed both of us into our lives and other people and I created many difficulties for our child. I admit that I was to blame because I broke up. And then to give myself a chance to recover and reunite my family, I failed again. And this summer I lived together again for 3 months and he not only ruined everything but the child felt close to him as a child, because his behavior is that of a carefree and angry man. He has never been the father he should be, he wants a woman next to him first of all the child has appeared later and is not the most important to him, he does not know how to deal with her. She is already 10 years old. in a difficult period she got used only to me and he had to enter her life with care '. A mature man of 34 years. I think he needs to understand that he was missing in the child's life and instead of attention he wanted to establish himself as a strict father and even she if she could have given him her place and he gives more important to me and not her. It was a nightmare and a war and problems, he was angry with me that we were separated for a long time and insulted even the child. I don't know what to do now, he wants another chance, it's still better and I still feel guilty and I want the child to be with both of us. But I am afraid again of problems and new wounds for the child. That's why I broke up with him, he was carefree at 29, now he's unstable at 34. I wonder if we have a chance ... I think he needs to understand that he was missing in the child's life and instead of attention he wanted to establish himself as a strict father and even she if she could have given him her place and he gives more important to me and not her. It was a nightmare and war and problems, he was angry with me that we were separated for a long time and insulted even the child. I don't know what to do now, he wants another chance, it's still better and I still feel guilty and I want the child to be with both of us. But I am afraid again of problems and new wounds for the child. That's why I broke up with him, he was carefree at 29, now he's unstable at 34. I wonder if we have a chance ... I think he needs to understand that he was missing in the child's life and instead of attention he wanted to establish himself as a strict father and even she if she could have given him her place and he gives more important to me and not her. It was a nightmare and a war and problems, he was angry with me that we were separated for a long time and insulted even the child. I don't know what to do now, he wants another chance, it's still better and I still feel guilty and I want the child to be with both of us. But I am afraid again of problems and new wounds for the child. That's why I broke up with him, he was carefree at 29, now he's unstable at 34. I wonder if we have a chance ... I don't know what to do now, he wants another chance, it's still better and I still feel guilty and I want the child to be with both of us. But I am afraid again of problems and new wounds for the child. That's why I broke up with him, he was carefree at 29, now he's unstable at 34. I wonder if we have a chance ... I don't know what to do now, he wants another chance, it's still better and I still feel guilty and I want the child to be with both of us. But I am afraid again of problems and new wounds for the child. That's why I broke up with him, he was carefree at 29, now he's unstable at 34. I wonder if we have a chance ...
1 latinandrea answered
No. Look ahead. Better alone and calm with the child. Without a man you can, without joy and balance - no.