I Want A Long-term Relationship.

   No, these are stupid stereotypes. My girlfriend is a type of stuffed person, after which everyone turns around and I am glad that she chose me. I know she didn't cheat on me because I tested her.

   Not so. The so-called 'beaters' are inappropriate, not because of their vision, but because of their nature, namely - party people, frivolous, maybe even materialistic. And don't be fooled, there are many people who are not obsessed with their vision - women who are not suitable for wives. Do not judge only by the vision, but acquaint people with the right questions, so as not to waste time in observations. You need to be smart to choose the right partner, it is true that most people are not smart and therefore fail in their endeavors and relationships, but they can learn.

   You need to look for someone you fit in, not a certain stereotype. One of my childhood friends is very beautiful in general, but she is also a super hot babe. Makeup, hairstyles, manicures, pedicures, hair removal, and fitness - the woman trembles. Before meeting her husband, she was very open, often cheated on her partners, and was not a bargaining chip at all. But her husband is the best for her, she never cheated on him, she never even thought about such a thing. It completely satisfies her sexually, personally, financially and in any other way. Accordingly, even though he got caught with a battered babe, he did not make a mistake, because she adores him. I'm not like her - caring for my appearance is minimal to maintain good self-esteem and to like myself. I'm not particularly beautiful at first. This does not mean, that I've always been looking for serious relationships, but men were mistaken like you - if I weigh 5 kg, I don't try to look perfect and I don't go to parties every night, so I'm a family man. Many burned like that, sinking into some kind of self-delusion. After all, in order to have a serious relationship, the important thing is to match someone. Appearance cannot give you a 100% guarantee that someone meets / does not meet your criteria. You understand when you talk to each other, when you experience some things. that someone meets / does not meet your criteria. You understand when you talk to each other, when you experience some things. that someone meets / does not meet your criteria. You understand when you talk to each other, when you experience some things.

   Very good comment on number 2. What I want to add is that there are women who, although considered suitable for wives and mothers, DO NOT WANT to be wives and mothers. This fact must also be known to the author, as well as to any other person. The fact that a woman is kind and calm, with good manners and modest, but still well-maintained, that she works so as not to burden her parents with herself, without having a fixed idea to make a career, should not be at all. means that she wants to become a mother, married, etc. The first thing the author should be interested in is whether a particular woman at all wants to be a family man at some point in her life, and then to judge and calculate her whether or not this thing happens.

   It is not the appearance but the character of the woman that matters whether she is suitable for a serious relationship. I know hot-tempered women who really want a certain man to kiss them on the forehead and hug them in front of the TV every night. I also know women who don't care about their appearance, but they don't feel at all comfortable with a partner and are looking for drama and partying everywhere. Vanity is a quality that a homemaker can have, he gets his opinion on other characteristics.

   When you think about these women with a lot of likes, etc., their problem is with overconfidence and their expectations. I think you felt right not to do things, because it's a waste of time in most cases.

   There can be no long-term relationship with a "beautiful woman". No matter how beautiful she is, at one point she gets bored;)