Hi I want to share my story... Four years ago, for the first time, I took out a quick loan because I had unforeseen expenses and i repaid it. I also had a consumer loan, withdrawn to buy a property of EURO 10,000 and paid it off absolutely regularly. It happened so I started betting, mostly with small amounts of matches, supposedly for fun, supposedly while watching football to be interesting and from there my fallout began.. Total failure... I started not having enough money from salary, i took out new loans, I repaid, I merged into new consumer loans.. I started asking for money on loan that I knew I couldn't pay back in time. I've been in debt with a huge amount of credit. My parents helped me with some of the loans, but I didn't tell the whole truth about how many there were.. I lied to them because I was afraid to admit how indebted I was. I lied to myself that I would find a way to extinguish most things myself and live more peacefully. There's no hope for me, even after I realized and sought help for my addiction to betting. I stopped, but I don't see how I could get better, and I don't even know if I want to, because I'm worth it all... From to... I've lost a lot of my weight out of anxiety and I've come to that point where I don't see the point in living because what I've done to myself and what I'm going through is not life, it's just existence. It hurts the most that I've let a lot of people of mine down. I don't care as much as I care about them. I know that if I put an end to everything, it won't solve my problems, but I've lost the desire to live at all. I share it because it's not an inspirational story, but I hope someone sees it and realizes what it can do to itself if it's in the circle of credit and lies to their loved ones. I don't wish it on even my biggest showers. Be healthy and happy with what you have and don't be greedy. It doesn't lead to anything good
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latinboy_german answered · June 09, 2020
First, I advise you to look for a psychologist, but in general, I don't see why you should put an end to everything... as there is a solution. It's best to tell the whole truth to your loved ones and stop lying, but also to seek a solution to the prom. I'd sell the real estate if I were you. There's a real estate, you're going to get another one from where it came from, there and gone. Then I would look for a way to make a lot of money quickly - working abroad, for example, for men there is a very well-paid job. I'il pay my debts, i.e. I'il take responsibility, cross, and that'il be the gambling cure. That's life. Let this become simply a stage that has built you up as a person and made you stronger. You're going to be fine, people are dealing with more severe problems - losing a child, cancer, war. Yours is really a small problem if you think about it.
I believe in you
g35
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franchesca_dukan answered · June 09, 2020
We're in deeper place with a lot more than you. The important thing is that you don't have any property they can take and get your income, and the bank will have to take and give them when you have it at some point you're going to clean up. Find a hobby that does not require money for example to run for health or levers and do not bet in the UK the odds are funny and want knowledge is not just a battle of names of any teams.
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adambottom09 answered · June 09, 2020
It's such a bad situation that even if I admit everything to everyone, I'm not going to get better. Until recently, I had hope and a mental mood that I would come out of the hole I was in, but I don't see a way out. I don't mean to sound defeated, but even when I try to take things easy, it's all going backwards, and I don't remember anything good that's happened to me for a long time. Yes, you'il say I'm healthy, I'm a man, but all the pressure and anxiety and stress I'm going through has affected my health. I just lost a desire for life.