I am 25 years old and I have the most perfect person next to me. We understand each other a lot, he considers me for everything, he asks me before he makes any decision. It's just that everything is perfect. He is the man of every woman's dream. He has a great body and all women drink it with their eyes, but it's just mine and I'm sure of it. But enough for him. We have been together for 6 years and I am very happy. I've never looked at anyone else, let alone kissing someone or cheating on them. There are a lot of men around me - that's just my job and I see that I'm very wanted, but I've never been tempted to look at anyone. Here's the problem, I recently met by chance a boy with whom we had a lot of fun. I realized that he is also from my zodiac sign. So my feelings for my boyfriend changed that I can't control myself. I'm constantly exploding for small things and I can't recognize myself. I rarely meet the boy in question, but I never allow myself to even smile at him. I get up thinking about him and go to bed thinking about him again. I can't go on like this anymore, it's been going on for 2-3 months now. At first I thought it was something momentary and it would pass me by. But this ball does not pass in my stomach does not disappear. I wait every moment to see him, wherever I am I look for him in the crowd. When I meet him I lose my mind and my words and if I look him in the eyes I see him looking at me with a gentle look and my stomach turns. I don't want it that way, my man doesn't deserve it. He is the most beautiful in the world and he never flatters me, he adores me, and I hate myself for what I feel. How to get out of this circle - I've never felt this way before. I don't want to hurt anyone and that's why I keep it all to myself. Thanks for the advice in advance.
1 chris_jade answered
Complicated situation. It must be really hard for you. In principle, I always find some advice (good or bad) for everyone. Everyone decides for himself what to do with his life. But in your case ... It's very difficult. On the one hand not to hurt your loved one, on the other - yourself. Maybe your relationship needs to pass this test. You love him, it's obvious. In general, I would say try the other. But in your situation I can't. Try not to think about him. Who knows? In words, everything is easy. Dear girl, I wish you a lot of happiness and make the right decision, whatever it is. You seem to be a good person. Think about the situation from everywhere, do not rush the decision. Let me just add here that you have known your friend for a long time and you think he is perfect. And from this (thrill) you do not know what to expect. He may not be your type at all ... Be careful !!!