Sex with boys is pedophilia. Sex with men is another matter :) On the topic: author, people are right here, this is not going according to plan, you really have to feel the moment. Don't make the mistake of sleeping with someone because it's "already time". When you have the right person next to you, you feel ready, beautiful, free and with a box of condoms in your pocket ... go :) Take more time for the first time, don't tune in to anything - neither to hellish pain, nor to perfect romance . I had read before that it almost didn't hurt, etc. I thought it would pass quickly and easily ... it wasn't like that, the pain was terrible and ... well, I gave up. So 3 more times. It didn't happen until the fourth :) I hope it's easier for the others! For the sheets do not cut :) I had prepared a big red towel especially for the occasion (now that I remember dying of laughter, it was bought specifically for this purpose, thick, to absorb well so that there is no damage to the sheets). Emmy ... the only thing we stained her with was a few drops of lubricant. In other words, no big blood, stay calm. And what you will do next is up to you :) Judge the situation :) However, it seems to me that for this purpose it is not good to choose a back seat, meadow or toilet for the terrain. Not for romantic, but for practical reasons. You need peace of mind, a bathroom, it's good that your man has washed his hands ... Such things :) Boronia Not for romantic, but for practical reasons. You need peace of mind, a bathroom, it's good that your man has washed his hands ... Such things :) Boronia Not for romantic, but for practical reasons. You need peace of mind, a bathroom, it's good that your man has washed his hands ... Such things :) Boronia
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I would laugh if I didn't have children your age. That is, I know what excites them and how many naive questions they ask, which is solely due to the fact that they have no experience. First, what are these limits? To everyone when the time comes. When you meet the right person, when you feel ready. Believe that you will understand it yourself if you have a friend (presumably someone you care about, and he cares about you). It's stupid to turn it into a fixed idea, to plan it and almost compare where your girlfriends are and where you are. As for this famous for the first time - individual. It is better for the boy to have experience, but as it happened. At first, not so much blood flows, and sometimes it doesn't flow at all. Sometimes it doesn't even happen the first time. In the sense of widening the opening and leaving the hymen or part of it. In short, don't think about it in advance. The smallest problem will be the sheet or what you have laid. It is important to do it with whom and when you really want.