I Think He's Cheating On Me.

He chats with another virtual, the important thing in not cheating on you in reality. And if there's a change in his attitude, I think you're in the "boredom" phase and wondering what to do..

100 km. you can tell there's another one. You can pack up and tell him. Let me see your phone, what you're doing, or I'm leaving. And if he doesn't give it to you, really, it'il be more than clear that he's got another one. Otherwise, you can't catch him. And don't fall for the "But don't we trust us, how can you even think I'm cheating on you." That's what all men say.

If I'm on you, I'm not going to follow him and freak out. I'm going to drive him crazy. I'm going to start going out more often. He may be with a friend, but I'm not going to tell him who I'm going to be with, or I'm going to answer evasively. I'm going to do my hair and put on my best clothes. I'm going to buy new underwear and a new perfume, etc. Believe me, this is the best option to get someone to start thinking about you. And pretend you're already losing interest in what he does. But at the same time, be nice to him.

There's no one else, there's others, and I'm not sure if it's better or worse. He's cheating on you 100%. Internal anguish of infidelity is confirmed at 99. 9%, if you have them. Sorry.

Well, i'm sure. Unless he's squatted in betting that's obsessed with his whole mind. In my opinion, it's the first.

You tell him 'let me see what's on the phone if I don't pack and get out.' There's nothing to worry about.

From personal experience, there is a yes. He's trying to manipulate you, making you doubt yourself and your judgment. If there's any possibility, check his phone, if you don't just intimidate him by leaving him, if he comes back and admits, he probably really cares about you, and he'il still admit it if there's anything. If not, just don't look for him anymore. :) I'm sorry to be so honest and direct, it just hurts for you and me and all the other cheat women, knowing that 99% of men, with a mate by their side, lie even if you have proof against them and make you suffer. Good luck to you! K.

Give it back to him! Of course, I'm not really asking you to cheat on him, just to make him doubt and jealous. Put a password on your phone, hang out with girlfriends without telling him where you are and when you're going to come back, buy sexy underwear, get a new haircut... just to make him think he's in danger of losing you. And then he just started to value you more, thinking you were going to dump him for someone else, and you changed your behavior. With long relationships with time, one begins to take the other for granted and begins to get bored. And if it's a little less characterless, it's only a matter of time before you succumb to temptation. But if he's in danger of losing his legal soul mate... here usually comes the desire to win his love again. So be a little more secretive, act a little like a femme fatale, and if she still loves you, I think you're going to wake up his interest again and quickly realize you're much more than that.

I don't think he's doing anything else, he's looking at some sites he's self-indulgent with. If you were a woman, it wouldn't be so obvious, he'd be more cautious. Rather, she's ashamed to find out about a new sexual fad that pleases online.

I can think of a lot of people who react strangely to their partners' jealousy. They put passwords, they hide everything, they don't give explanations, they fuel the fire, because the suffocation annoys them. For your case, though, I'm pretty sure he's texting with others. I don't know. You only described his attitude to this phone and the fact that you once caught him flirting with someone else's profile. You didn't say if he was late after work, for example. I fell into a similar situation to yours once. How did I know what was going on? I saw that a few people had commented that you could annoy him. I think it's a little childish and it can easily be turned against you. I wouldn't say irritation, I'd say change. I just stopped paying attention. I started bringing his phone myself, and if I saw he was sitting on the computer, I asked him if he wanted me to go out. I left him alone in the room at every option. I refreshed the house, bought underwear, learned new recipes, but I did not go out alone, the underwear wore it in front of it, and in no way i suggested that there was anyone else. In the evenings, I found stupid activities like reading articles, entirely in order to distract myself and not talk to him while he was "busy." Naturally, I put a password on all my devices, but I did not give him adequate reasons for jealousy. My attention kept focused on him, I behaved well, more than perfect. One night, I thought I could scare him down as much as I could see what was going to happen. I told him if he wanted to sleep with others, he could tell me, and I wouldn't be mad. I was ready to hear any answers, he was completely confused. One minute I start to show understanding of him, my attitude improves, and the next I talk to him about sex with others. He asked me for passwords, and I told him. You didn't check in front of me, but I'm sure he looked closely until I was around. He removed his own passwords after a week, having told me before. Then there was a big series of confessions, whichever stupider. Turns out he's not cheating on me. He wrote to some women in one game, they took him down, he didn't fight back with the same thing. I read the chats myself, visibly compliments scratched his ego, it's obvious he wanted more, but he didn't start flirting himself and didn't respond with a ban. If he sends me a picture on his screen that shows a messenger bubble with a woman, he starts explaining who she is, how much he knows her from. I don't even ask him about those things. I feel like he felt guilty and that I was so into it, that I didn't even care if he had an affair. I have no words, he's just another man who wanted both freedom and attention at the same time. He needed to feel meaningful, sexy and interesting. More or less, I felt bad that he hadn't discussed with me that the boredom of our relationship was too much for him. For a moment, I felt not beloved enough. I chose to go through all this with less drama and more tactics. Maybe I knew myself in time, I'm not sure the situation wouldn't have been exacerbated by another scenario if I'd gone completely crazy. I acted like the femme fatale, but the perfectionist. I begged him to open jars, told him I was afraid, I let him believe I needed him, yet I kept a certain distance. I let him feel strong, brave and meaningful, all a little, but not enough. My worries didn't turn out to be completely groundless, but I imagined something much worse. I'm offering you this option.

Oh, give it back to him, I agree with the ladies up there, that it's good to take more care of yourself. I'd add that if you enroll in sports, you wouldn't be wrong. It could be fitness, yoga, dancing. It will quickly increase your tone and self-esteem, and the best thing is that you will meet new people. Put a password on you, whatever you called, that's what you called. Hide it, carry it with you even when you go to the store. Make him want to see your phone. Make the alarm on your phone and the ringing one the same and set it to ring late at night, then just say you got confused and wanted to ring at 12 noon, for example, to remind you to do something. Doubt will burn. Make some innocent conversations with strangers "Ah, Joro, where did you get my phone? No, it's not my keys, mine's in me, but thanks for calling, I'll see you friday at practice.

Take this phone. While you're out or right after he's home, take the phone, remove his battery and hide it. Make sure you pick the right moment so that he actually thinks he might have lost it, or forgotten somewhere. Take part in the search and even fight him how distracted he is. Then as soon as possible, I take the phone to a service station to unlock it.