Hello, I am writing to you because I want to ask you for your opinion and advice. I am 16 years old, but I dare say that I have outgrown my age because of the blows that life has given me since I was very young. I'm not a conflicted girl, I try to be friends with everyone, but after an event (if I may call it that) it turns out to be almost impossible. The event in question happened 2 years ago when I won a beauty contest and then another during my summer vacation. Then I became famous at least among the people from my city, people wrote about me in the newspapers, magazines, the attention of the boys to be increased, etc.
Then I was 7 for 8th grade and in the new school year, I continued my education in high school (before that I studied in elementary school). But the people in my new school didn't turn out to be what I thought they were, or at least the girls. Evil glances, pushing in the corridors and similar hints started from the first day, until one day one of my classmates, whom I didn't even know, unjustifiably accused me of calling her behind my back and with different names or names that I won't mention now. and accordingly jumped on my paints.
After a few months, the same thing happened with another classmate, after a few more. I wanted to get along with all of them in words like big and mature people, but it just turned out to be impossible. I just want to emphasize that before I won these two competitions and realized myself in the world of fashion, I did not have such problems.
So I think all these attacks are the result of envy and female malice or something.
What do you think? And please some if he had or has my problem to share how he overcomes it, please give me advice, because I'm tired of all this and I do not think that this should be the relationship between today's teenagers! Thank you in advance :)!
1 calreynolds answered
Your statement is quite correct - in today's material world, universal values have lost their shape and meaning, people have become further embittered by their unjust social situation and alienated from the normal perception of the individual called man and human attitude! Our society is on the verge of psychological collapse - perceptions are distorted by the fact that the image of the enemy is instilled - different, successful, enterprising, and in your case the visually beautiful woman - these are indicators that are difficult to perceive normally by people who by nature they are envious and striving at all costs to show their low upbringing, and by trying to trample on their set goals they want to gain the recognition of the table. I am a man of 39 years.