I Suffer Not Because They Break My Heart, But Because There Is No One

   I'm just like you. I'm also tired of waiting and there's nothing I can do about it. Maybe we should compromise. To be with someone, even if there is no thrill, and love can come later, I do not know. But I completely understand you.

   Well, you probably haven't fallen in love. You say you're looking for the man. And where are you looking for him? Love is not sought, it finds you alone. Yes, everyone loves each other. Do you love yourself? Do you like yourself If the answer to the last two questions is NO - do not expect others to like you and love you, if you do not like yourself and do not love yourself. If you cannot love yourself, you will not be able to love others.

   Girls looking, do something. Think about what kind of person would love you and look for him where his hobby and free time is. In such places people with the same hearts and souls involuntarily gather. Go and do what makes you feel good and then look around. But look, don't wait for it to drip on top of you. This does not mean that you give easily.

   Loneliness is terribly torturous, but it's good to know exactly what you're looking for and to join a dating site, although there is such vomit that I have no words, but try there are decent people. If you are destined to meet her, love will find you, then experience it as you choose. I love a married man, but my love makes me "fly" only when I'm with him, then I grieve and I'm alone, but I wouldn't replace him with many married girlfriends with eternal problems, maybe because I see him 1-2 times a week and we only have love and sex between us, we do not have everyday life with its problems. So think about being with someone and you, like your girlfriends, will have a gray everyday life, problems, quarrels, misunderstandings, etc. It is very complicated now and we are making our lives more complicated than it is.

   To 2. Hmm ... let me tell you, I love myself so much that the problem is hardly there.

   Hello, what you are experiencing is painfully familiar to me, I am the same but life has turned me into an insensitive "oligophre"A long time ago (8 years) I met a girl we fell in love but this supreme happiness lasted only a few months, there were people who separated us and let us be together. To this day I love her and I can't forget her and I can would exactly that's why I don't want to be with another just this incident turned me into a person who doesn't feel any feelings and I can say that this is really disgusting knowing that you can't fall in love is a terrible burden after what happened I'm tried with many women but I have never experienced love and this is the feeling I long for and crave over time I realized if I can not fall in love that I have become numb that nothing brings me joy that I am still the woman I will be with it kills slowly and very painfully

   So am I. I don't think I'm in the right environment. Or that I am unsuitable for the environment. Otherwise, I'm an emotional person and I'm looking for a man with whom I can sleep, share and even quarrel ... but I always come across such people - elementary material, mediocre adjusters, insensitive complexes, etc. How come these men don't want something real to happen to them? I don't want a pet! I do not want a source of income! And you know, the ones you're complaining about - a lot of them have come together quite compromised with their halves and are now tolerating them with varying degrees of success. I can't twist my soul so much. And I can't lie to myself that much. I wish you to find the person to ignite the spark in your soul! Except I don't know how. If I understand, I will definitely write to you. Just in case, communicate more - and not just with married girlfriends.

   Thank you very much for the advice.