Hi, I'm a 20 year old girl. So far, my relationship has not been going well, and my last one was with a boy of 24, whom I really loved. But unfortunately he did not me and more than a year ago we broke up. I have a new relationship for about 3 months now, but I started thinking about my ex-boyfriend again. I don't know what happened to me, as if I fell in love with him out of nowhere. And it's as if I've stopped liking my friend, who treats me incredibly well, such people are rare, I don't want to hurt him, and that's why I feel terrible. For so long I have dreamed of finding a person who will truly love and care for me, and now that I have the opportunity to spend time with one, I have lost my feelings for him. I was really in love in the beginning, and now I am constantly thinking about my ex and I do not feel any happiness and excitement when I am with my current friend. Love is an irreplaceable and wonderful feeling that gives you incredible emotions and I don't want to have the chance to experience them with the person I'm with right now. I do not know what to do if you have been in a similar situation, please advise me something.
1 piahot_candy answered
An unwritten rule, always the first one you're on after a long relationship, I don't know why I don't know how, but it just doesn't work. So calmly with the second you will succeed, this one accept it as a consolation. And remember no matter what we dream about, at some point when we get it we start dreaming about something else.