I Still Love Him, But All This Love Tires Me

   I wonder if such a human delusion is possible? This man has arranged his life and is living it, and you are waiting for a dead letter. He is married! What do you expect from this man. He diversifies his days with you. Get sober. Enough flying. If he wanted to be with you, he would be. I'm not blaming you, I'm just sorry. Have more self-esteem. Close this page of your life and start looking at the faces of the men around you. There's someone around the corner - good, smart and FREE - who is waiting for you to notice. I wish you peace of mind and do not despair!

   And I'm so old and I've experienced what you feel, I know that the feeling of love is unique when it is shared. And I waited for months for him to decide to take another step and I finally got tired of waiting, crying, longing for him, dreaming about him. I still love him and we still see each other but I already have my life. I go out with friends, I have another connection - it's not the same, but I don't rely on him. When I saw him, the world turned around, but I learned to live without him.

   I don't know why your boyfriend married someone other than you, but I think you're in love and lost, and he did the math. If you couldn't do so much without each other, you would live together, and not be alone now and expect a few hours to be together. I'm sorry to speak to you in such a tone, but I have experienced such moments and I have tormented myself to infinity, and the gentleman in question does not care about me at all - he comes to me because I create comfort and tranquility for him to escape for a few hours of everyday life and relax with me, have good sex and get up in the morning and leave without caring what I feel. I am 46 years old and the man I am dating is 18 years younger than me, married with a child. Of course, I don't expect him to divorce his wife, but I see that whatever he tells me what I am to him, he comes to me only for variety, and he does not care how much I suffer when I am alone all the evenings and holidays. So, darling, try to shake off this attachment of yours and look around. You are a little younger than me and you still have a chance to meet the right person for you, and the one you are suffering from now forgets it once he is married and has no intention of divorcing. As good as it is with him, you end up alone. I know it's hard, but if you get your hands on it, you'll do it. Just don't meet him for a while, don't think about replacing him with someone else at this moment - just isolate all the men around you for a while and then maybe you will have an insight into what to do from now on. he comes to me only for variety and does not care how much I suffer when I am alone all the evenings and holidays. So, darling, try to shake off this attachment of yours and look around. You are a little younger than me and you still have a chance to meet the right person for you, and the one you are suffering from now forgets it once he is married and has no intention of divorcing. As good as it is with him, you end up alone. I know it's hard, but if you get your hands on it, you'll do it. Just don't meet him for a while, don't think about replacing him with someone else at this moment - just isolate all the men around you for a while and then maybe you will have an insight into what to do from now on. he comes to me only for variety and does not care how much I suffer when I am alone all the evenings and holidays. So, darling, try to shake off this attachment of yours and look around. You are a little younger than me and you still have a chance to meet the right person for you, and the one you are suffering from now forgets it once he is married and has no intention of divorcing. As good as it is with him, you end up alone. I know it's hard, but if you get your hands on it, you'll do it. Just don't meet him for a while, don't think about replacing him with someone else at this moment - just isolate all the men around you for a while and then maybe you will have an insight into what to do from now on. that darling try to shake off this attachment of yours and look around. You are a little younger than me and you still have a chance to meet the right person for you, and the one you are suffering from now forgets it once he is married and has no intention of divorcing. As good as it is with him, you end up alone. I know it's hard, but if you get your hands on it, you'll do it. Just don't meet him for a while, don't think about replacing him with someone else at this moment - just isolate all the men around you for a while and then maybe you will have an insight into what to do from now on. that darling try to shake off this attachment of yours and look around. You are a little younger than me and you still have a chance to meet the right person for you, and the one you are suffering from now forgets it once he is married and has no intention of divorcing. As good as it is with him, you end up alone. I know it's hard, but if you get your hands on it, you'll do it. Just don't meet him for a while, don't think about replacing him with someone else at this moment - just isolate all the men around you for a while and then maybe you will have an insight into what to do from now on. As good as it is with him, you end up alone. I know it's hard, but if you get your hands on it, you'll do it. Just don't meet him for a while, don't think about replacing him with someone else at this moment - just isolate all the men around you for a while and then maybe you will have an insight into what to do from now on. As good as it is with him, you end up alone. I know it's hard, but if you get your hands on it, you'll do it. Just don't meet him for a while, don't think about replacing him with someone else at this moment - just isolate all the men around you for a while and then maybe you will have an insight into what to do from now on.

   You are a strong woman and you will succeed. Get away from the person who has definitely shown selfishness towards you. That would give him a choice. And you will look at the world. And most importantly, be selfish.

   Register on a dating site, start chatting with strangers, flirt out of boredom and just see you found another bachelor. Success! And just use it and you only fill a certain part of the time, have sex whenever you have the opportunity.

   If he wants to be with you, to be only with you, if not, let him know that he has ruined the most wonderful person.

   I am 34 years old. I fell in love with a man who obviously doesn't feel the same way about me. When he is happy, he is with me, when he is not - there is none. And I sit and wait .......... The feeling of helplessness and loss of connection with reality is indescribable. At times I think that if I fall in love with someone else I will sober up, but I can't find a suitable one. I compare everyone to him. That's not how you live. I don't even know what world I'm going to. There must be a cure .............. for months I think there must be a cure ............

   And I'm 34. I was in love with a 16-year-old, it's not over yet. They say that time heals ... that's for sure - it takes (a lot?) Time to heal, to restore your soul (№7, this is for you, I'm sorry you're in such a situation, completely you I understand and I sympathize with you, but I can't give you any other help) ... Towards №3: I was very interested in what you wrote, probably because the age difference in my case is exactly the same, but you are ahead of me in the situation; this difference is a big problem, for me it is a serious reason for nothing to happen between me and the boy (not that it could really happen who knows what - I mean seriously and in time, this relationship is doomed, but I experience it a lot ; am I not emotionally retarded? If №3 reads, I would like to write on this topic).

   I have been in a similar situation, and I think that if he really loved you in the strong and real way you are talking about, his act is stupid. Given that you are divorced and separated from your official partner, I can not understand why, then you did not clarify and why this great love and passion you squandered and lost the beauty of this blooming rose. For me in this situation the way out is one without this person, leave a beautiful memory of him and those real things. It is not a good choice to sacrifice yourself completely for him, and in my opinion obviously all the passion comes from the thought that is your secret relationship. I think that if you were together during this period as husband and wife, your eyes would be opened. I've always said have fun, people - it's not bad, but don't ruin the family hearth,