Hello, I have a friend with whom we live together. However, the problem is the following .. I still have feelings for my ex-boyfriend, we are constantly spotted, every day .. and when I see him all my memories come back to him .. and he constantly hangs out with me, I thought I was him I forgot, but obviously I am not, he is in my great love and obviously he will always be ...
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Do not harass the current one, but leave him before a long time has passed and hurt him more after that.
The story he shared is quite short. If your ex loves you, not just teases you, you better understand each other and be happy together. If you have feelings for him and as you say that it is your great love, it is clear that you do not love the present and it will be for your and his good not to waste time with each other. Love is a serious thing and people have to fight for it with their teeth and nails.
If you decide to reunite with your old one, discard the new one first. Don't start dating him secretly behind your current back!
Starting a new relationship by loving (because it's the word, not "I have feelings") "the previous one" is just not fair. But we humans are like that - confused, contradictory, hurtful - even passive. The tin of this lack of openness will take away your current comrade - and without guilt, the person who trusted you. If you love the previous one, then you don't love the current one enough - either? If you don't know, and you think you love both, then do your best to stop seeing the previous one ... and just "hanging out" with you just means he's bullying you. This can only mean that if you reunite with him, he will not respect you. If the current one respects you, stay firmly by his side - if you love him, of course, at least a little.
Some, like the author, only look to be tied to whoever they are. There to be, for the people, not to be alone, someone to pay the bills ... How disgusting! How did you start a serious relationship when you have feelings for your ex? Aren't you ashamed to lie to your current friend? These women are big monkeys. You want advice: leave your friend and stay alone, so that the so-called you feel.
This is what happens when people jump chaotically into new relationships. A new relationship begins when you are fully aware that you do not love anyone and your heart is pure to begin one. Where there is true love, sooner or later the relationship is renewed and no one can prevent it, fate knows its job. But the bad thing is that third parties suffer because they are involved or, most of all, they have intervened where they do not care. Your current is definitely out of place. Did you deceive him, did he not have enough experience to plant duck eggs, but it is a fact that he will suffer sooner or later, because if not now, then in time you will leave him again.
Author: Hello, thank you all I love my current friend and we are happy together. And I don't use it "to pay my bills" I just sometimes think of my ex and I feel sick ..
"I thought I forgot him, but obviously I'm not, he's in my great love and obviously will always be ..." Author, I think you are a very confused woman who is not at all aware of her feelings and emotions . You write terribly contradictory and I hope I never meet someone like you. Success!