Hello friends, I am a 24-year-old girl from a small town, I am married with a 1-year-old child, everything is fine between me and my partner, but I have a problem. I buy a lot of nonsense, I have an obsession with clothes, make-up and beauty salons. It often happens in the morning that I go for a haircut for no reason just to be beautiful, my husband is 10 years older than me and is very responsible. Our scandals are mostly related to my expenses, the minimum I spend per day is 30-40 BGN, the maximum is 200-300, I want to change and not buy things that I don't even carry, but I'm obsessed with HELP!
1 thibautcourtois answered
Obviously you don't know the value of money. Have you ever worked, had you had to figure out how you were going to spend the month with the money you made, and were you hungry if you didn't have enough? I was hungry at your age. I wrote down all the expenses for the day in a notebook. Otherwise I would not be able to pay my rent and electricity. Stop buying unnecessary clothes and without them they are still the same. And your husband should respect you for what you represent, not for the look you get used to, and the beauty is temporary. Obviously he has no reason to respect you at the moment. It works, and you, standing at home, spend money pointlessly. I just wonder why he gives you money in this situation. I wouldn't give it to you. When you want to buy nonsense, make money first, spend on family support, and then spend it. But a reasonable person saves money,