Hello, I am another lover who will pour out her soul here. This story is about a man I had a relationship with until two months ago. We broke up because I became jealous of him. He didn't give me a reason. He paid attention to me, complimented me, but I did not fight with my complexes. He was kind and understanding, and I was cold and treated him as if I were the princess and he was my page. At one point he said that he was no longer in love with me, that I was just a friend to him and we broke up. I was looking for him, but I have a feeling that my behavior was obsessive and frightening. I cut off all contact with him. Two weeks later we ran into each other on the street and he started talking to me. I pretended to be in a hurry and didn't talk to him for long. After a few more days, I started seeing him in places I went. Came to work as I got the feeling that he had deliberately invented an occasion. The next day I saw him in the cafe where my friends and I meet, and he generally never goes to that cafe. But that day had come, and I noticed that he was looking at me. After a few nights at a disco we met and he pinched me. All this made me think that it would give me a chance to be as kind and dedicated again as he liked me and as I was at the beginning of our relationship. Several of us have passed since our last meeting and I sent him a message: "Hello" and a grinning emoticon. He read it, but did not answer, but continued to stand in line and be active. I decided that I had misinterpreted everything and that he had not returned his feelings to me. I felt stupid, like I was a nuisance. I waited 15 minutes and after I never got an answer, I wrote him that I promised, that I will leave his life and my presence will not bother him anymore and I wrote him, "goodbye". He immediately replied, "Hello," but I did not write to him again. What could I tell him. He answered me because he felt sorry for me. I will stop all contact with him again, but my heart is broken.
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Very confused work. One could have taken a shower, eaten, cooked, been in the toilet ... But in general, he seems to have gotten rid of it.
Typical female behavior .. You don't know what you want! First set goals and then pursue them, not in the middle I want it I don't want it ..
So he really didn't do anything, but apart from abandoning him, you treat him like a thief and an intruder. I will not look at you in his place.
If he wants to be with you, he will look for you, if he doesn't look for you, then he doesn't care about you, that's why he doesn't waste himself ... short, precise and clear.
Apparently your mania for greatness and for staring has turned into a mania for persecution. They have to prescribe you something very strong! Otherwise you will be divided, apathetic and dementia.
I am in the same situation, the decision is the only one, I know that you are worried about what he thinks, what he will say about this, about that, it is best to make an appointment and without shame to admit to him that he you love that you made a mistake and you want to be together. Pour your soul in front of him and do not wait for him to take any initiative as always, only then you will be sure whether it is worth it or not, do not be ashamed of your feelings, the best thing in this world is to have someone to love. Good luck and write what happens to you !!!
Number 7 is right - with one addition - that when you tell him you're wrong you really have to realize it. Repent of your behavior. And change your attitude. But with this partner it will not happen - because it takes time to change.