That is, according to number 11, women should not deny any man, so as not to fuck his instinct to procreate. Clever! How could I not have imagined that humanity would perish if I did not respond to the aspirations of my drunken neighbor, who breathed sweat, barrels and dirty linen? !! What troubles have I caused by refusing to sleep with my dumbest fellow student? And how did I "disappoint" the poor rich boy, who disgusted me with his consumerist thinking that he deserved everything? And so on ... Men are good at scattering seeds everywhere, but we are the ones who choose "mat'ryala", if you understand me, 11. It is natural to have claims, to compare, to reject or approve. What are you, is it all you who will become the mother of your children? Or so as not to disappoint her and, you see, to lose her libido and ability to give birth, will you go to bed with the ugliest idiot in your environment? Don't bother answering, the questions are rhetorical. To the author now. My girl, I see myself in you 18 years ago. Then our first meetings with my ex-husband began. Boredom, boredom, boredom, I tell you, sister! Sex - if this rocking back and forth could be called sex - only if I take the initiative. And always the same scenario: kisses on the couch, then a timid unbuttoning of the bra, then in bed, the missionary, and finally, if you will believe me, he called me "Your Thanksgiving." Tragedy! Otherwise tall, well-built, representative, highly educated, computer specialist, earns well ... What's more - all my mothers, grandmothers, uncles and cousins were jealous - can you want it, ma? !! And I married him. 10 years of boredom and 10 years - no sex. After I said yes in the civil, my husband decided that sex was no longer needed. We don't have children, as you can guess. We ended all social life. At the end of our marriage, there was no one to invite to my birthday. After I thought that my hymen had healed and I had lost all my friends, my second husband appeared and quickly reminded me how a man should actually behave with a woman. I divorced without hesitation, married my lover and never regretted it. Yes, I don't have that standard (if that word is used to denote money, cars and five-star vacations), but I don't need it, because by "standard" I mean the degree of life satisfaction, for which a lot of money is often even interfere. We live wonderfully and wonderfully with my second husband. His hand is constantly under my skirt - I don't know how many years anymore (for us time has simply stopped). We expose ourselves in public places because, as usual, he strokes my ass in front of people. There is almost no day when we do not make love. I thought I would be happy for a few years and then we would become a "normal" family. There is no such movie! He is becoming more and more inventive, but the important thing is different. Namely: when there is passion between the two, a strong emotional connection, a powerful erotic potential - this is the energy that drives all other aspects of their lives. We have become more successful in our professions, we have started to achieve goals we never dreamed of, we have grown as individuals, we have become more motivated, more balanced and tolerant of others. Happiness attracts. People are happy to communicate with us, our home is full of friends, especially in the winter almost every night we are either at the theater, or at a concert or dinner with company. So, author, my advice to you is from personal experience - look for yourself! If you do not recognize your own emotionality and soul in the person on the other side, he is not the man for you. Your chosen one must be your mirror - if you look at it, to see yourself: the reflection of your own desires, thoughts, dreams and hopes; if you touch it, its warmth will penetrate to your heart, and your knees will soften. Believe me, the rest will work out like a magic wand. I wish you happiness! If you do not recognize your own emotionality and soul in the person on the other side, he is not the man for you. Your chosen one must be your mirror - if you look at it, to see yourself: the reflection of your own desires, thoughts, dreams and hopes; if you touch it, its warmth will penetrate to your heart, and your knees will soften. Believe me, the rest will work out like a magic wand. I wish you happiness! If you do not recognize your own emotionality and soul in the person on the other side, he is not the man for you. Your chosen one must be your mirror - if you look at it, to see yourself: the reflection of your own desires, thoughts, dreams and hopes; if you touch it, its warmth will penetrate to your heart, and your knees will soften. Believe me, the rest will work out like a magic wand. I wish you happiness!
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Well, tell him everything you think about him. You say you don't have a sense of humor, so it's normal to be a little bored. Talk to him, give him time, diversify, try new poses, make romantic surprises, dinners, etc. . Try everything possible. If you need to take a break, do not see each other for a while or write to each other. If that doesn't help, then it's not your man.