Hello! I have a friend who is 10 years older than me. We have been together for 7 months. In a month, two goes on business trips abroad for 30 days. But for these 7 months he walks only once. Takes good money. BUT still nothing gave me not that there is no time or money, I just do not know. I constantly give him gifts and surprises. I save, I deprive myself of many things just to make him happy, and he does nothing. He spends only on his car. He told me that he gave a lot of things to his exes, he indulged them. And nothing to me. He says he loves me very much, he would do anything for me. He doesn't pay much attention to me. I'm not for the presents, but it's always about his exes and he keeps telling me how he went out with them, went everywhere with them, bought them everything! However, none of the above did as he tells me. When I like something and he is with me, he doesn't buy it for me, even if it's a flower or a trinket. When my friends tell me what gifts they received, I feel uncomfortable. I feel somehow out of place! Even when he insults me and I cry he pretends that nothing happened. I'm confused if I mean anything to him. I know that love is not expressed in gifts, but in the actions of the other person, but how can I believe that he loves me when he has done nothing for me. I do not know what to do? Please give me advice! and with the actions of the other person, but how can I believe that he loves me as he has done nothing for me. I do not know what to do? Please give me advice! and with the actions of the other person, but how can I believe that he loves me as he has done nothing for me. I do not know what to do? Please give me advice!
1 jeff152 answered
Leave it. Love is also in the small gestures.