I Only Comply With Him

The Story

Hello! I have been in a relationship with my partner for half a year. We are both learning about very difficult exams that are coming soon. However, you still have little time to go out, even once a week. The problem is that he never says "let's go out even for an hour". Before you say anything, I talked to him about it. The problem is somehow deeper, namely that I always, absolutely always I comply with it - in what classes he studies, when he trains, when he sleeps, when I can possibly go to them, he does not come to us, he always wants (if this happens it will be because I made him go out), he wants close to where he lives (in the case of the outskirts of the city), and we never go out for example in the center / park where I live and I love nature very much, and he's just trying to get me into a mall, just because he's two steps away. I have talked to him twice on this issue - that I take into account the hours when I come to them or eventually go out, that he never takes into account where I want to go out, for example. His answer was that he had a lot to study, he is busy. OK, I understand that and I have to study for the same exams, I do not want to increase the frequency, although it would be nice, but just to start in some respects he complies with me . I will be happy for opinions and advice on how to show him that one cannot compromise with the other. Thanks in advance! but just to start complying with me in some respects. I will be happy for opinions and advice on how to show him that one cannot compromise with the other. Thanks in advance! but just to start complying with me in some respects. I will be happy for opinions and advice on how to show him that one cannot compromise with the other. Thanks in advance!

Last Updated
August 14, 2020
Author:
ostboys

Comments