Hello! Probably many of you are tired of such topics, I write rather to make it easier for me and to hear objective opinions of 4 people who do not know me. I'm a girl, 18 years old. I live in a big city, I am surrounded by many different people, but I am already starting to feel terribly lonely. I have friends, I am not antisocial, on the contrary. I'm not ugly, I even think I look good. There are things I don't like about myself, but they are changeable. I'm funny, people accept me as more crazy, there are guys who like me, but they are totally not my type !!! No one knows that I have never had a relationship with her husband, even my last kiss with a boy was 5 years ago .... I have not had sex or anything like that. I don't know why someone grabs my attention, I don't exist for them, he doesn't even notice me (although I don't show interest) I think that if the man also has an interest he would show it to me no matter what. People find it weird, and even my mother starts to worry ... (I have a sister who had at least 3 boyfriends by my age) I really hope to meet my man because my sweetheart is lonely and I just wanted to give it to you. shares ...
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I understand you, I wish you to find your man and to feel in your soul the joy of being able to feel another soul so close to you that the words kindred soul will be fulfilled for you with meaning.
We live in a society of debauchery and do not think that what is wrong is in you ... Suitable people with whom to find reciprocity and fit emotionally, mentally and physically are not easy to meet. It's just the "philosophy of life" today - to fuck whoever falls, whatever happens. You are still very young and you will still get to know yourself and what kind of people you want to be with. Early sexual growth leads to the problem that the people you meet will shape you as a person, not the other way around ... The other is that if you don't like the "matchmakers" who pursue women as a sport, don't expect other men to just you pounce with the same mentality. Nowadays, every man expects a woman to "date" someone ... not just one. In addition, everyone has their own complexes. These things can't stop just someone just looking for sex. Be more active, show yourself to the one who likes a special attitude. And one more piece of advice - find out if he is free ... Women are very fond of committed men, but what they don't remember is that if they manage to take it away from the "other", the "other" will be able to take it away from the "other". them ...
Yes .. The big city has such an effect - the interesting thing is that from what I notice - more boys have this problem - it is difficult for them to commit - more than girls because they are the object of attention - passive - and boys are active - and it's weird that a girl is just - I don't know you - I don't know why - but I sincerely hope it's because you choose well - because what impresses me is that pretty girls quarrel with disgusting boys - clowns - who they just want to untie their ribbon - to consume them - to drive them from left to right and in general .. that's how time passes - no talk under the stars - about the stars .. there is no real thrill .. sorry that I unfolded the delicacies - I fall a little chatty romantic (in theory ...) If you are looking for a good company my email is murderer98 I do not want to make a bad impression in advance - just if you want :) I am in a similar situation to yours ..
You're still young, don't worry. Better to wait for a happy and stable relationship than to be like the girls who start having sex at an early age. I am sure that one day you will find love.
"I think that if a man also has an interest, he would show it to me no matter what" - do not think such things as you protect yourself and do not show interest as they do. We have to add the fact that if someone shows interest, your first reaction will be to back off, right? So no one expresses emotions so as not to be hurt or at a disadvantage and leaves opportunities to go away. Unless he knows what to do, but in this case he has experience and you are unlikely to be the special thing in his life given his experience. If you want open behavior, don't hold back and expect others to reveal themselves because it's convenient for you, but take your risk and reveal yourself, because firstly you need it and secondly - that's how you will learn.
It's just that people are already nasty and fake. It's hard to meet real people. I'm a 20-year-old boy and I've seen so many scary things that I better not tell them. I understand you, and very well. The feeling of loneliness is worse than the feeling of death / I have experienced both, so my comparison is acceptable and true /. The scariest thing in this world, or if not the scariest, then in the top 5 of the scariest, is loneliness. It sucks, I know. How is it overcome? I don't know, really. Maybe you should pray to meet your man. Maybe you can. I'm not doing very well yet. Male, 20 years old