I Need An Advice

   Of course, it is not safe. You are only 13, your body is not developed enough to have sex.

   I don't think he does. You're still young, there's time, and he's small too. There is time for everything. In early sexual intercourse there are many risks that you have probably heard, but I would emphasize them again: unwanted pregnancy (there is a risk even with condoms), diseases, infections, etc. Also keep in mind if you break up after 1-2 years (nothing is certain even now that you love each other very much) how you will feel like you have given your virginity. Virginity is something valuable and once you give it there is no going back and then there is nothing you can do to regret it. According to me, do not hurry, if he loves you he will wait.

   It's early for you! Go out and play - there is time for sex.

   Well, if you want to be right ... Become a mother at 14, don't watch your lessons, blunt ... Let your parents be proud of you! However, it is a great pride to become a mother at the age of 13-14 ... No problem .. It is completely normal ..

   DO NOT! I am your age and I understand you because exactly the same thing happened to me. Don't really, your friend has to be a fool to force you.

   Wait, wait, wait. 1. I think it's early at 13. Even by law it's allowed at the earliest at 14. 2. How long have you been together, how is he behaving with you, are you convinced that after that he won't dump you and tell you to everyone? I had such a case, only the relationship was supposed to be just a push, that I was a virgin, but one day it happened that we had sex, everything was supposed to be discreet, but this idiot took it that everyone was talking. Straight horror. 3. You can for at least 1 year, preferably at least 2, be satisfied with hands, mouth - for example, to make French love, to touch, to kiss passionately and somewhere on the body .. 4. If you still decide to do so, never allow without a condom if you do not want a baby. He may try to tell you that he will keep you safe, that at some stage in a woman's cycle she may not get pregnant, that it won't end in you - don't listen to it, just with a condom! There is always a chance of getting pregnant, and he can hardly control when he ends, also during intercourse he secretes pre-ejaculatory fluid, which also contains sperm, and there is NO way to stop it. Only with a condom and then see if it is torn, and best before you put it on.

   Do not. That's all I can say. L.

   If you don't feel safe yourself, you better wait. Let it happen spontaneously when you feel ready. Otherwise you will not be left with good memories from your first time and tomorrow, when you are older, you will say to yourself "if I had waited a little, so that I would have remembered it well". However, this is something special. And at 13 you're really young. You have a lot of time ahead of you. To be alive and healthy, you will do it thousands of times in the years to come. Even if your friend starts pressuring you, don't do it until you feel ready. There will always be a little fear, but at least you should feel that this moment has come. There's no way you can't recognize it. Just relax and don't think so.