I was terribly bored with this, and I don't know what to do. I haven't seen anything from him in 4 years. He doesn't even remember to give me a flower for the occasion. He shows no respect, does not surprise me, does not take me anywhere, and when I offer him no desire. There is no gift for a birthday, for Christmas, for March 8, but what about an anniversary, so he doesn't even remember when it is. He has no desire to visit new places, to meet new people. I don't live in his apartment, I drive my car, I buy everything myself, clothes, shoes, jewelry, watches, food expenses, bills, restaurants. He has no desire for any entertainment, variety, rest, thinks only of work and money, and in the end is no better financially than I am. I want variety in a relationship, I don't care about expensive gifts, but I do want to be remembered and respected. And a card and a flower catch me. I want us to go to different places, to have memories and good moments together and to keep the flame of the relationship. After all, we live together for a long time and it is normal at times to get bored of each other. I don't know what to do. How can I hint to him Or just think about taking another path.