I Love Her, What To Do

   He likes you, but he has no choice. I understand how you feel. Good luck, may you ever be together!

   Fight for her!

   Dear boy in love, I personally have no experience with such cases, but there are three options in your situation: 1. She likes you, but has no choice. 2. She is another user - a whore who turns on her little finger 1000 boys, lies to them, hurts them and plays with their feelings constantly. I hope she is not like that, but I will tell you that you should try to look at the whole situation from the side, because you know that the lover is blind! If she really turns out to be a user, get her out of your life, you will experience it, there will still be many more girls. 3. This is just a sixteen-year-old disoriented teenager who doesn't know where she pees from and doesn't know what to do! She's not sure about her feelings, and maybe she even likes being with two boys. SUMMARY OF THE MOST IMPORTANT: I ​​know it will be HELL difficult, but you should try to look at the situation as a sideline. See if it's just you trying to be together, if she cares about you and your feelings at all, if she doesn't use you or play with you. This is what can save you. Because once you leave, if things get even deeper, you will REALLY suffer a LOT and I am afraid that whatever you look like a sensitive boy, you may try and commit suicide, which would be the biggest nonsense you can do in this case. We were all teenagers, I know that hormones rage and everything, but you have to control yourself and try to act like a mature person! Grace, 21 P. P. I will follow your story because I really want to protect you because you seem decent to me. I don't want to watch the news about another kid who took his own life. See if it's just you trying to be together, if she cares about you and your feelings at all, if she doesn't use you or play with you. This is what can save you. Because once you leave, if things get even deeper, you will REALLY suffer a LOT and I am afraid that whatever you look like a sensitive boy, you may try and commit suicide, which would be the biggest nonsense you can do in this case. We were all teenagers, I know that hormones rage and everything, but you have to control yourself and try to act like a mature person! Grace, 21 P. P. I will follow your story because I really want to protect you because you seem decent to me. I don't want to watch the news about another kid who took his own life. See if it's just you trying to be together, if she cares about you and your feelings at all, if she doesn't use you or play with you. This is what can save you. Because once you leave, if things get even deeper, you will REALLY suffer a LOT and I am afraid that whatever you look like a sensitive boy, you may try and commit suicide, which would be the biggest nonsense you can do in this case. We were all teenagers, I know that hormones rage and everything, but you have to control yourself and try to act like a mature person! Grace, 21 P. P. I will follow your story because I really want to protect you because you seem decent to me. I don't want to watch the news about another kid who took his own life. This is what can save you. Because once you leave, if things get even deeper, you will REALLY suffer a LOT and I am afraid that whatever you look like a sensitive boy, you may try and commit suicide, which would be the biggest nonsense you can do in this case. We were all teenagers, I know that hormones rage and everything, but you have to control yourself and try to act like a mature person! Grace, 21 P. P. I will follow your story because I really want to protect you because you seem decent to me. I don't want to watch the news about another kid who took his own life. This is what can save you. Because once you leave, if things get even deeper, you will REALLY suffer a LOT and I am afraid that whatever you look like a sensitive boy, you may try and commit suicide, which would be the biggest nonsense you can do in this case. We were all teenagers, I know that hormones rage and everything, but you have to control yourself and try to act like a mature person! Grace, 21 P. P. I will follow your story because I really want to protect you because you seem decent to me. I don't want to watch the news about another kid who took his own life. which you can do in this case. We were all teenagers, I know that hormones rage and everything, but you have to control yourself and try to act like a mature person! Grace, 21 P. P. I will follow your story because I really want to protect you because you seem decent to me. I don't want to watch the news about another kid who took his own life. which you can do in this case. We were all teenagers, I know that hormones rage and everything, but you have to control yourself and try to act like a mature person! Grace, 21 P. P. I will follow your story because I really want to protect you because you seem decent to me. I don't want to watch the news about another kid who took his own life.

   Grace Thank you very much for understanding, I was already trying, no matter how stupid it sounds, but I sat down and counted to 20 and said to myself that it doesn't make sense. I perceive life so I represent 1 candle if I encroach on my life after 1 year no one will remember me I will be 1 nothing. A boy told me, brother, you are a dog, learn to endure the pain of becoming a man, that's how hard it is, I think about those words, and he's right, but the thought of her just seems to kill me slowly. For the last 2 days I drank 6 coffees / 2 boxes of cigarettes, it's not real, I just get upset when I see our photos while listening to our songs .. And I come to a worn-out phrase "Life is a bitch or he you or you him" my hormones are raging, however, I can't come to terms with the fact that waking up in the morning doesn't make sense.

   Author, Another thing I would advise you is to talk to her. This will clarify some things. You may suffer, but it is worse when one is ignorant. And as for the opinion that you are nothing, it is not so. Everyone is unique. Just think - NO ONE else thinks like you, does not have your fingerprint and your feelings. Your real problem is that you fall in love very deeply and sincerely. This is a very good thing, but you can suffer a lot because of it. Grace

   Boy, it's very important not to drown your grief in coffee, cigarettes and alcohol, and don't give yourself drugs, but better distract yourself with something. Do sports, go out with friends, do not constantly stand alone, because when you are bored, it is natural that you will think about her. Grace, who keeps a close eye on everything like your anonymous friend :)) And by the way, I'm not 21. The truth is that I'm 18.

   Hello. You are very, very confused. Love in these years can be the best thing, but also the most painful. I'm not going to tell you to forget it, because right now it just won't work. You don't say how old you are, I guess 17-18. I know from personal experience that true love should not be so difficult. You look like a smart boy, so you've considered all the options. You know what this wait will lead to. You know that if two people want to be together and if they really love each other ... they will try to overcome all obstacles. And this is a two-way highway. You can't be the only one who will fight. My romantic side would tell you not to give up your love, but also stop walking on the edge. Stay away from her. Stop calling her or looking for her. Wait for her to look for you. Face-to-face meetings are not good. When you look find a way to see each other and put all the cards on the table. Tell her that you love her, that you want to be with her, but also that for the first time you have to choose yourself over her. Tell her that you don't want to suffer anymore and that if she really loves you, it will be her turn to fight for you. Transfer the ball a little and see what it will lead to. If he gives up quickly ... then he doesn't deserve your feelings. Your story touched me, because only a few months ago I ended up with a similar one. It started when I was 15. From completely innocent childhood feelings, it grew into murderous love. We loved each other, we hated each other, we got together, we parted, we lied, we were jealous, we were with others and there was always something on the road that bothered us. Believe me, sometimes love alone is not enough. When we found out a few months ago that we didn't stand a chance, I felt like I was breathing for the first time. I can't say that I don't remember or sometimes it doesn't hurt me there on the left, but now I love myself more than him! I wish you success! An 20g

   From the Author Thank you all for the comments and advice I finally got on my feet and now everything is okay :))

   I like a girl of 2 years I asked her if she likes me she tells me she doesn't like me and I would kill myself but my best friend stopped me