Hello! I am 17 years old and two years ago I entered high school. In the previous school my class and I were all very close, we constantly went out and had fun. After we broke up, we were left with a group of 10 people who kept seeing each other and going out. In time, there were four of us left - me, my best friend (we are in the same class) and two friends. I love them all very much! However, I had a little stronger feelings for a boy than a friend, but I did not show it and never told him. He started behaving very badly, he changed a lot. He started insulting me with his behavior. He doesn't care at all about me, how I am, what I do. He once saw me crying at school and didn't even ask me how I was. He insulted me more than once - he called me a complexist, that I don't have a good body, that I am reckless. He always wants me to do what he wants, and when I ask for something, he doesn't do it. He doesn't comply with me, constantly laughs at everything I tell him, ironizes me and makes fun of me. In the end, I couldn't stand it and told him everything I thought, and he even without thinking told me that everything was a lie, denied everything, said that he had never behaved like that.
He said I was making it up. And I told him he had to do something, stop, think, apologize. And his words were: "I don't care about that now"! I could not believe! I didn't stop crying after that. I'm terribly disappointed, but I love him very much and I miss him and keep looking around the hallways to see him at school. I think about him and the moments together. What to do? Should I forgive him or just forget him! he ironizes me and mocks me. In the end, I couldn't stand it and told him everything I thought, and he even without thinking told me that everything was a lie, denied everything, said that he had never behaved like that. He said I was making it up. And I told him he had to do something, stop, think, apologize. And his words were: "I don't care about that now"! I could not believe! I didn't stop crying after that. I'm terribly disappointed, but I love him very much and I miss him and keep looking around the hallways to see him at school. I think about him and the moments together. What to do? Should I forgive him or just forget him! he ironizes me and mocks me. In the end, I couldn't stand it and told him everything I thought, and he even without thinking told me that everything was a lie, denied everything, said that he had never behaved like that. He said I was making it up.
And I told him he had to do something, stop, think, apologize. And his words were: "I don't care about that now"! I could not believe! I didn't stop crying after that. I'm terribly disappointed, but I love him very much and I miss him and keep looking around the hallways to see him at school. I think about him and the moments together. What to do? Should I forgive him or just forget him! to think, to apologize. And his words were: "I don't care about that now"! I could not believe! I didn't stop crying after that. I'm terribly disappointed, but I love him very much and I miss him and keep looking around the hallways to see him at school. I think about him and the moments together. What to do? Should I forgive him or just forget him! to think, to apologize. And his words were: "I don't care about that now"! I could not believe! I didn't stop crying after that. I'm terribly disappointed, but I love him very much and I miss him and keep looking around the hallways to see him at school. I think about him and the moments together. What to do? Should I forgive him or just forget him!
1 nelydiasenrose answered
It's not worth it, darling! Find new friends and move on! I know, you are sick, you hold on to this person, but he will not change and will hurt you forever and will behave badly. So why are you doing this to yourself? However, life is too short to suffer and humiliate someone who does not deserve it! If he was your friend and held on to you, he wouldn't behave like that. And if, even though you told him in plain text how you feel, he continues, think how much he cares. Well, he doesn't care about a gram! So it's just not worth ruining yourself for someone who doesn't care about you. Forget it and move on! He is neither the first nor the last cool boy you will meet, so look for a person who will be your real friend and when he sees that you are crying he will not pass you by, but will come to you to comfort you and ask what to do with it. help. That's what friends do!