:) Hello, A few months ago I met a boy. He is so different from me. First the age difference, I'm 14 and he's 19. I really like him. We've been out for about 2 weeks. We have a great time, everything is perfect. But one thought remains in me that all this is wrong. He is 19 years old and has not taken a good path at all. He is constantly in some pubs ..... He smokes and drinks. I suspect he's sniffing. And I know that I don't have to be with him, because I don't want to fail, I want to learn new languages, to learn many new things. He doesn't stop me, but I feel insignificant next to him. As if not drinking makes me stupid. I know perfectly well that this is NOT the case, but I feel that way. And he speaks one thing in front of me and then does another. I've been thinking about breaking up with him, but every time I see him ... I just can't imagine that I could put an end to going out and all the good moments. So, my question is what should I do Should I stay with him and wait for time to show what will happen? I'm just confused .. :) PP I know that the age difference is quite big, at first I didn't want to go out with him, but I decided to try ...
1 pecheurcom answered
The difference in your age is not as big as the fact that you have different interests. And this is the most important!