As the title suggests, I like a girl very much, 10 years ago we went out on something like love dates, she told me I had a lot of fun and something could happen, but I went to another city and we hadn't seen each other for 8 years. I didn't meet her again soon and we traveled together for 6 hours. We talked a lot. Let's get to the problem now. The truth is that for me she is unique in every way, super beautiful, with a super cool character, an actress in a theater, but I seem to underestimate myself. It's too perfect for me. And I'm not that glamorous. I try to change my appearance, but I still accept myself as too weak at the moment. I just don't want to fuck everything up and leave it for later when I get in better shape. However, my experience has taught me that further means usually never.
1 bhak_sala answered
If you have known each other for almost 10 years ... you should be a mature man already, and you are thinking as a teenager. External traction is not everything - at least it is not a leading factor in men and if you have achieved something else in these 10 years you should not worry so much about how you look.