Hello, my story is very different. My parents have been married for 22 years, when I was little we were a hell of a close-knit family, we were like atoms of a solid object. Ever since I was 11, and it has happened before, my father has been cheating on my mother. I've witnessed a lot of fighting, swearing and everything you can think of. My mother is a very good person, she is devoted to her family, ready to take a bullet for one of us, always willing to forgive, to help, but my father is always nervous, he erupts quickly because he is unstable. Yes, you read that correctly, he is unstable. I checked his phone, his whore's name is S., but he writes it with a male name so that we don't understand. I couldn't lie to my mother, she is the only person I rely on, I told her. My mother, of course, knew very well ... we checked her, I found out where she lives, where she works, I even found out that she has two sons, I was obsessed. I hate my father, I hate to touch him, kiss him, even touch his clothes, because I know that when he lies to us that he is at work, he sleeps with another woman. I am already 14 years old, I am familiar with our financial situation and it is not good at all, we only rely on his money and my mother's salary, which is 550 BGN. BGN 600 per month only for this loan. Our people quarrel regularly, I don't know, mom, how strong a person he is to last all this for so long ... at home the situation is never good or there is not enough money for something and this becomes a problem, or our people quarrel because of Snezhana. I realized that he gives most of his money to her, I can't stand the fact that it remains for mom to struggle with her small salary, and he feeds prostitutes. My mother is a very attractive woman, she is beautiful, I would say unique for her age - 42 years old. I always try to drool and create a cheerful atmosphere at home, it works, but my mother still thinks about it. I can't complain about my father either, because he is ready for anything for me, but I don't understand how he can have such a woman and cheat 10 times uglier. What to do, how to calm my mother, how to restore order in this house?
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Honey, your mother has known about his infidelities for a long time. What do you think you know and she doesn't? Do not interfere in the life of your parents and most of all - do not say to your father bad things heard by your mother about his girlfriend, because you can lose him as a father. If your mother is such a cool and capable person, she will know what to do, how to earn her own money (as a prostitute), she will divorce and find a man worthy of her. You have only one father and one mother. Try to have a civil relationship with both of them and do not interfere in their personal lives, because sometimes things are not as they seem. And without that you can't change anything. They are both married, they will make the decisions. I don't understand why you're jealous of your father from the other woman. "I'm disgusted by my father, I'm disgusted to touch him, kiss him, even touch his clothes, because I know that when he lies to us that he is at work, he sleeps with another woman. "Only your mother has the right to be disgusted and angry. You are not married to your father. Seek a psychologist if you are jealous of the other woman, because this is not normal.