Are you working in IT? I'm 30 and I've been dry for three years, haha. I've already forgotten what this thing is. I rarely masturbate. It's a horror. Before that, I had two boyfriends we were getting out of sex with, but when I got through my life, I got into the cycle of boring everyday life... there is no place to find women for relationships, let alone for sex... At work from 9 to 19, there are no women at work, and it can take weeks without communicating with women.
Well, if you haven't done, what's the big deal? You'il see each other in a miracle. It's hard to catch a boyfriend, especially when your self-esteem sucks.
Hi, I'm a 26-year-old girl and two years ago I had a dry period of a year and a half. I couldn't find a suitable person, and I was so obsessed with sleeping with someone I really liked, i'm not going to be the man of my life. At one point, however, I got sick of it and started going out more actively with friends and colleagues from work. I started saying yes to a lot of suggestions that I had previously refused. I even got stuck with two colleagues who i didn't like, haha. But I don't regret having sex was great, and I'm glad I broke that stupid dry period. As it may seem, I had fun, and it was so much better than hanging out on my own. Right now, I have a friend I've met through my friends.
So you just have to get out of this waking coma. I was in it, too. The minute you start dating people, you're going to meet more people, and so on. But you have to give yourself a little trouble and get out of your comfort zone.
I've never had sex at 33 years since Sofia, and I'm super based on today's debauchery that's swirling in the capital.
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I'm 25, too, and I'm in a much worse position. I've never had a girlfriend, I've never had sex, I've never kissed.
Hi! And how are you doing? Don't you feel sexual tension? How do you get over it? Please tell details, if you can, of course?
You stopped being a boy seven years ago.
Try some hobby, some club with interests like yours. Especially if you're from a big city, there are a lot of places like this, whether it's a sport, some games, some music. Go out to people other than the people you work with.
Number one - I can't believe how you lasted so long. Don't you miss a woman's flattery? Don't you masturbate? I don't think it's healthy not to have contact with the opposite sex and not have a sex life. I'm a woman, and I can barely last a month, and I masturbate every day and use a vibrator every now and then. It's normal for you to lose your self-esteem and feel incomplete when you lack female attention. There are online dating apps if your environment doesn't allow you to meet women. There you can always find someone even if only for sex, and you men can afford it without a problem.
So, so, so, You've been out with a boyfriend you've been through with sex with (if true) and now you're dry.
It's normal.
It's like quitting a well-paid job because you're tired of complaining about being unemployed.
Up to 9 out of 1: I answer you because it really annoys me how women are not connected to reality. You write about how "men can only afford someone for sex without a problem," but it's an absolute lie and shows your total lack of connection to reality. Dear woman, 80% of men can't find sex easily. You obviously didn't take to the streets to see the average men and you think all men are like the ones you used to get along with for sex.
You women think that because it's easy for you to find sex, it's easy for us. Any woman weighing less than 100kg if she has a Tinder profile today will be able to find sex within a few hours. And an average man will have to spend days, weeks, maybe months, until he only manages to go on a date with a woman, we're not talking about sex.
You have no connection to reality, you can't imagine the sexual frustration and suffering of the average man, because you, dear women, only want sex from the coolest 20% of men, and this is something predestined to a large extent.
The sexual revolution of the 1960s and 1970s in the US and the subsequent waves of feminism that influenced the whole world supposedly were supposed to create a more egalitarian sexual economy, but in fact led to a surge of female capitalism.
Number 11, you obviously lack basic knowledge of how polls are done and what criteria they should meet if you consider a single statistic, even more made by a site like Tinder, to be pure truth. Other times instead of passively accepting information from Western forums, take a little "research", huh?
What about men, this and women, especially those who are not omnivorous. I broke up with my boyfriend, rather he dumped me going abroad, and I've been alone for more than a year and without sex. I just don't want to do it just because of sex, I'm not interested. Then what? Loneliness again. I don't do drama about the lack of sex, although I am surrounded by people who are in pairs and sometimes I wish I had a man (and have regular sex). But when I see the options are zero, I'm just standing there. Just finding someone just for sex is not difficult (that is, even if you do not like them), but it is completely pointless, at least in my opinion. And nowadays having a serious relationship, especially if you're over 40 is kind of like higher math.
11. Just because you can't get sex easily doesn't mean that 80% of men are like you. You just don't seem to care, you don't know how to approach it, how to ask for it, and you don't have experience with women. Whoever's looking always finds, and you don't.
up to 12: Why didn't you offer even one statistic, huh? Take your statistics if mine doesn't satisfy you. Come on, huh? Where's your research, huh?
Up to 14: Come on, come on, you have a lot of sex, but only in your dreams. A mass single man stays out of sex for months, while a mass woman can find a for two hours. Big proponents of feminism have become all but licking the women's soles.
However, I realized that the author is looking for a relationship, not just sex. The title misleads. He wants to have sex, but in a relationship, but so far there are no suitable women. Well, that's the problem. And for men and women. In tinder a lot, in the sites - even more so, but in reality no one likes us, because in person no one is perfect. Whoever invented photoshop and phone beautification options should be sued! I also don't understand the people who send old pictures to who are younger, weaker... who are they lying to?
You've got the number 18 very correctly, the best comment ever. I feel like they're only looking for sex with money and money for sex in one form or another.
Author.
Don't worry! It's not a lack of sex. You just roll your day-to-day routine and get annoyed that you're not having sex. I haven't been in four years, and I'm starting to get into my 40s. Work, bills, headaches, child , that even a viper for a woman and it evaporates my desire. Otherwise, I had success with online connections. I'm talking about 10 or 12 years ago when the face and dating sites were rising. Now I've tried, but a lot of them have been crushed and filled with reverses. And to number 3/the girl/, with us men is very different. We rarely say yes. We always have to ask ourselves in the most original way so that there is no risk of rejection.
Author, the most meaningful comment on your subject was at Number 3. Why don't you pay attention to him? And I, even though I'm a woman, find truth in your words about which gender it's easier for him to get sex. My friends are complaining about the same thing. Number 3 has described well enough how to get out of this situation, however. I can only wish you act! Success
Thank you. After all, you're only 25 years old. you have a lot of time and chances. Good luck to you!
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Thanks for the reviews, I reread comment number 3, the girl very well explained it really, I did not expect so many people to get involved on the topic.
I'il follow your advice "3."
To number one... I'm not in the IT sector!
Nice advice from number 8, but I don't have time and opportunity for hobby and entertainment.
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