Hi, I'm a 23 year old boy. I have a girlfriend of 5 years, but I feel that my feelings for her are no longer the same. The years are also not small and perhaps this is the reason for this "cooling" of feelings. I don't think about other girls or anything like that, but I'm no longer as sexually attracted as I used to be. She has no idea. The thought of separation is now more and more present in my daily life. The question is will I make a mistake? I don't think she deserves to be misled about my feelings for her and I should act masculine when I tell her? The thought of being ruined also stops me. What will be your opinion? What do the girls think, what would they prefer - a stable, monotonous and exhausted relationship or the truth that will lead to great pain and sadness?
1 chriseriksen8 answered
You better tell her to be honest with her. You can offer to separate for a while.