Hello, soon a few friends told me that I was dressed like a whore ... I was not naked, I was wearing a black long-sleeved bodysuit and a hip-hop tracksuit, ie everything was covered, nothing was visible, except I had braided my hair in two braids at the end and tied them with pink ribbons. In general, my style is like that, modern, girly, a little rebellious, I can't dress any other way because that's the only way I like myself. The strange thing is that most of my friends dress the same way, but I liked a whore and a muffin, and they didn't. The explanation was that to me my appearance was such a whore, dirty, perverse almost and for that it was better not to dress like that, until they were so muffin. I wanted to ask how to solve this problem, how to change my style of dress or more precisely the look, not the style, so they don't think I'm a whore ?? Just to clarify that these girls are very close friends of mine, and when they say I look like that, then something really made them think it, they don't say it out of envy or anything like that. I guess to some extent my problem is that they are a little more masculine, while I am told that I am the typical femininity, coquette, I am also a former ballerina, they even teased me that while walking I turn my ass : D I don't do it on purpose, it's just big, like the Brazilians, and while I'm walking it spins on its own. My hair is long to the butt, naturally straight, and my complexion is darker, just like a Latina girl. Besides, I'm a child in the face, I'm 18, and they take it for 14-15. My breasts are medium, cup C. I know a girl with a dozen older ones, already in D, they look super big and yet it doesn't look so vulgar with a tight blouse. This also hinders me in my relationships with boys, because they accept me only as a piece and not as a girl for a serious relationship. My friends tease them a little less than me, but when they do, they are always serious guys, while everyone teases me, because they hope to tie them ... I want to be able to dress as I want, without them, without to be a whore and vulgar and to be taken seriously by people, how can I achieve it?
1 kiaenzona answered
Hello. The only advice I can give you is not to change for anyone. We live a life - wear what you like. Yes, it is possible that your girlfriends are sincere and their comments are not caused by malice or envy, but if this is your style and you feel good in this type of clothing, your girlfriends should respect your choice. Whore is done with actions, not with a specific style of dress. Not to mention that most women try to be so attractive to men. Rejoice that you achieve it without undressing. And if your appearance is like that and you can dress with a sack, it will not change. Apparently this is your charm and there is nothing wrong with attracting a man with it and then keeping him with character and behavior. Be yourself.