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2 rinkie answered
Hello! Thank you for your support! I wish you a lot of love and warmth! Be happy!
3 Candy-Hot-XoXo answered
Hello! I am in a similar situation. I am 20 years old and he is 38. He is married and has 2 children, and he is also a criminal. Things are a little different with us, because he gets along with his wife, but we still have a passion for each other. I'm very much in love with him, but I can't be sure about his feelings. And we are from a small town and he is famous and if I have something to do with him the next day the whole city will know, and I can't cause this but my family! I will be waiting for advice! Thanks in advance!
4 mywass answered
And what would you say about such a relationship, but when they both have a good family, they hold on to it and love their other halves? There is just a great attraction between them and they cannot overcome it. And in the end, everyone wants to keep the family, but they don't want to end that relationship either.
5 atleticorionegroclube answered
Well, I am in this position ... We are both married without problematic marriages, but as №4 says, the thrill between us is great ..
6 buzzkitoofficial answered
And finally, if it is necessary to specify what is "correct" and what is not in such a situation? To continue to be with the person in question and feel guilty (100% of everyone feels it at some point) or to end things "by force" - because that's the right thing to do. And who actually determines what is right and what is wrong ???
7 SwtJulie answered
HELLO, I WILL ANSWER YOU FROM THE POSITION OF THE WIFE IN SUCH A SITUATION, IT HURTS A LOT. AND IF THE BOTH WANT TO GIVE HIM A CHANCE BECAUSE OF THEMSELVES AND THE CHILDREN THE MISTRESS HAS NO PLACE THERE
8 DoMeAngels4u answered
Here is a comment from the other WIFE. Dear girls of none of you who love married men, I do not want you to be in our place, to feel the pain of betrayal, to fight it for days and try not to hurt your children by watching you suffer. Know that you are not the first and you are not the last to break our men. Even if some fool leaves the family to seek his freedom with you, will he get it ?! Won't you have the requirements we have for them? And they are elementary and we all know them. Then They will seek their freedom again and you will be on our side: hurt, confused, betrayed and maybe abandoned. I recently found out that my husband was cheating on me. When I put him in front of a choice, he asked for both of us. He couldn't decide. How does this sound to you ?????????? When I told him that he didn't think about me or the other girl, he said, "Yes, I know I'm selfish, but I'm fine with both." Considering that we also have two wonderful children, how can I leave and at the same time keep his good name in front of our children, telling them "your father loves, but he does not love Me and another woman. He has the right to put his happiness above Ours. Now when we have to think about your future, choose the best opportunities for a good education and give you a good start in life we have to give Tati the opportunity to be free and happy away from us.We are three strong girls.We will do it yourself. " These are MEN all but one. I wish everyone who reads this comment not to feel the pain of the experience of me and others like me.
9 stormi_jones_ answered
I'm in the position of 8. But the woman my husband is cheating on me with is not some naive 20-25 year old girl, but a woman in her fifties, three years older than my husband. She clung to him like a leech and I have no idea exactly how she bullied him, but she drank his brain. Sometimes I think there is magic. I think all her efforts and hypocrisy to please her are for money. She is a widow and plays the role of "long-suffering Genoveva" just to pluck him for money. As for the author of the letter: - Girl, run away, you will cry! You will cry a lot! And it will hurt you! Because everything comes back! And there, around the corner, is a boy waiting for you to notice him. A smart and handsome boy who wants to tell you: - I want to get married! I want to live together, to eat together, to watch TV together ... To quarrel, and when we get along ... Ah, when we get along it will be so nice !!!!! This girl was me and the boy was my husband.
10 xzero17 answered
My advice is, live as you see fit! A man who is used to cheating will cheat again, if you are not someone else he will be better. It is better to be you, because you have not ruined his family, and the other may want to do just that ...
11 slowdive answered
People, I just fainted ..... "you better be, because you didn't ruin his family .....". You better get out while it's time. One day it will turn out that you are alone, 5, 10 years have already passed, and you are where you started. Good luck!!!!!
12 bebekvegelisim answered
Hello, I am 20 years old. and I'm currently dating a man a few years older than me. He is not married, but lives with his girlfriend and their 6-month-old child. I have a great thrill for him and I want to be together, but I know it can't happen. He loves the woman who is with him and will not leave her, but he wants to be with me. I don't know what to do, to indulge my feelings or to distance myself from it?
13 celia_go answered
Hello .CHUDYA THEY IS HOW ALL WHO HAVE affair with a married man can not claim that in families sign these men NEVARVYAT THINGS THAT wives do not understand them and all that GLUPOSTI.KOLKO of you are asking themselves they are so NVshtASTNI TEYA WHY MEN THEY RETURN HOME TO HIS WIVES. WHY DO YOU THINK THAT SUCH MEN WHO LIE TO THEIR FAMILY: WIFE AND CHILDREN AND COME TO YOU ARE FREE WITH A SPARK? Did not you realize THAT ARE SURE YOU OR WITH families sign they are always the same DVULICHNITSI.SVIKNALI complain SOME THEM sorry someone reassures them IT IS IMPORTANT TO HAVE ANY maintain their own EGO.KOGATO the same TEYA MEN THE WIFE TELLS THEM THAT THEY ARE UNHAPPY AND DON'T WANT THEM IN THEIR LIFE, THEY ARE ABLE TO crawl and beg to NOT LEAVE THEM. A TRUE MAN CAN TELL THE MAN NEXT TO HIMSELF, WHETHER HIS WIFE OR FRIEND WANTS, WHAT MAKES HIM EXCITED, TO SIT AND BECAUSE OF HIM. However, a hypocrite and coward is not able to even sit alone and realize how many people are hurt; WOMAN, CHILDREN, MISTRESS. EVERYONE. SUCH PEOPLE DO NOT RESPECT EVEN THEMSELVES NOT TO TALK ABOUT ANOTHER. AND THE AUTHOR OF THE CONFESSION IS EXACTLY SUCH A PERSON LIKE THE MEN WITH WHO IS SLEEPING. THE IMPORTANT THING IS THE PLEASURE FOR THE MOMENT AND SO MUCH. I HOPE THEY ARE HAPPY FROM LIFE AS SO MUCH AS ENOUGH. I DON'T THINK THAT MAN CAME TO THIS WORLD TO SATISFY ONLY THEIR ANIMAL PASSIONS. However, a hypocrite and coward is not able to even sit alone and realize how many people are hurt; WOMAN, CHILDREN, MISTRESS. EVERYONE. SUCH PEOPLE DO NOT RESPECT EVEN THEMSELVES, NOT TO TALK ABOUT ANOTHER. THE IMPORTANT THING IS THE PLEASURE FOR A MOMENT AND SO MUCH. I HOPE THEY ARE HAPPY FROM LIFE AS SO MUCH IS ENOUGH FOR THEM. I DON'T THINK THAT MAN CAME TO THIS WORLD TO SATISFY ONLY THEIR ANIMAL PASSIONS. However, a hypocrite and coward is not able to sit alone and realize how many people are hurt; WOMAN, CHILDREN, MISTRESS. EVERYONE. SUCH PEOPLE DO NOT RESPECT EVEN THEMSELVES, NOT TO TALK ABOUT ANOTHER. THE IMPORTANT THING IS THE PLEASURE FOR A MOMENT AND SO MUCH. I HOPE THEY ARE HAPPY FROM LIFE AS SO MUCH IS ENOUGH FOR THEM. I DON'T THINK THAT MAN CAME TO THIS WORLD TO SATISFY ONLY THEIR ANIMAL PASSIONS. THE IMPORTANT THING IS THE PLEASURE FOR A MOMENT AND SO MUCH. I HOPE THEY ARE HAPPY FROM LIFE AS SO MUCH IS ENOUGH FOR THEM. I DON'T THINK THAT MAN CAME TO THIS WORLD TO SATISFY ONLY THEIR ANIMAL PASSIONS. THE IMPORTANT THING IS THE PLEASURE FOR THE MOMENT AND SO MUCH. I HOPE THEY ARE HAPPY FROM LIFE IF THEY HAVE SO MUCH ENOUGH. I DON'T THINK THAT MAN CAME TO THIS WORLD TO SATISFY ONLY THEIR ANIMAL PASSIONS.
14 yourbae_29 answered
Hello from me too..I am also married with two children and I have a relationship with a married man much older than me and without children..We both love each other and wish and watch every free minute to be together, of course secretly .. But we have never hurt our halves, because despite the passion between us, we try to keep our families happy. I don't see anything wrong with such a relaxing relationship that helps you be happy with your family and beyond.
15 misteriouskeisha answered
Number 8 ... your story sounds very complicated, I don't know how you endure this situation ... some say it will endure either me or the other .... in the end it seems to me that there is nothing left between anyone ... a sad thing. I've experienced infidelity and it's awful ... it's the hardest thing for me to keep wanting my husband sexually ... just every time I think he's been with someone else and now, yesterday, a while ago ... I feel like him .... If you leave, what will he do?
16 Fatty_Moniq answered
Hello from me! And I have a relationship with a married man. I am 24 years old, he is 32. He got married very soon - less than a year after his marriage, and our relationship began three weeks after the wedding, a week after they returned from their honeymoon. Not only a sexual thrill or a love affair keeps me close to this person, but a very strong friendly and warm love. We are even currently discussing the option of stopping seeing each other secretly for sex, risking his family's harm, but we have never talked about breaking up. Love makes you want the other to be happy and you love in some way even the woman who loves you as a wife. To the wives who have written or will write comments. Does it feel? Does he really have that intuitive knowledge that He is breaking. I have not experienced infidelity - from any of the parties. I'm not jealous and it probably won't hurt me. It is quite normal for me that people meet, love, separate ... Why should there be hurt? With transparency in the relationship, everything is in order and it is not difficult at all. To those who say "hey, girl, realize" He's fine, it's easy for him, and your life, what will you do in 5 years - you will be alone. In fact, is there anything wrong with asking for such a life if it brings you joy? You are very strange to me with such morals and parades of values. Let's ask the right questions. Why does infidelity happen? Why do we try to keep the man next to us at all costs? Why should we get angry in the event of a divorce - take everything from him? Why the woman who loves your husband and does not want anything from him and so in no way harms your established habit of life must be eliminated? Why are you angry with her - she wanted to love. Is it bad? Why do you live next to a person to whom you feel lonely, unhappy or betrayed? Why do you insist that this continue ... and then he, the scoundrel, is guilty - if he had told me that he wanted us to separate, and not to lie to me. And how to say? Will you accept it calmly? To that comment that had something about the soulmate. And if your soulmate is not your husband, but that boy in the cafe opposite you, who is engaged, married, busy with children. Does social status matter to the true nature of love? Come on, medieval thoughts and zombies, okay? Everyone lives in a certain way. I wouldn't suffer, as my friend's wife is suffering at the moment, because I am almost convinced that she knows about me. I am happy to love without conditions, without selfishness and without obsession with possessions. Why do lovers claim that the men they are married to are not doing well? Because they are right. But marriage doesn't work - it obviously works as long as it doesn't break up. However, marriage is an institution, something built by man, it represents him in society, it has its privileges as an institution. Their marriage is going well - the relationship between the spouses is not going well. Something is not clarified, something is missing, maybe it is solvable, it is solved with a third person, maybe it is surmountable, maybe - the cases are different. But it is the habit of offended wives to look for guilt not in themselves and in their own relationships with their husbands, but in the third person, who you see has done magic to him one hundred percent or is a vile whore who is offered forever. Let's start thinking right about ourselves, huh? About the author. Life is short. It's so short it could end tomorrow. Live fully and full of joy. If your relationship is difficult - give it up. If you can transform it into something that won't weigh you down, do it. If it doesn't weigh you down - experience it with your whole soul. And don't listen to those who tell you that in 5 years I don't know what would happen. You are a FREE person, even if you marry this man in time, you remain a FREE person who can and has the right to choose his life. Because I'm sure if tomorrow you meet more love, you will not pass it, because you will anger your friend, right ?! And there is NO guilt! Not in the mistress - believe me - there is no such feeling. Not because we are insensitive, but because we know how to love without possessing. Of course, that there are also happy family cohabitations in which wives also know how to do it. Talking under a common denominator for everyone has always been useless anyway. Good luck to all and get to know yourself!
17 nonagirlcrezy788 answered
Ha, ha, number 17 really made me laugh with its infantilism. Because her love is hidden, you have found a vent :))) Does his wife know? You would already know about him. If he is calm, then he does not know. Eh, how they love them so selfless ... Why not "hit" something outside :))) As something is lame in his family, why not get divorced and live free and you wait for him, freely knowing that he is with another ? :))) Is this love? No! You have not yet met true love. You "love" a liar. Or maybe he's a thief, a murderer? How far are his courage and moral restraints?
18 myie answered
17 to 18 I don't want to hurt her, I'm an extremely positive person and I don't want to hurt. If I wanted her to know to hurt her, I'd find a way to do it by now, wouldn't I? No, really, I don't think of her as anything other than being part of the person I love. And about the wedding ... um ... I asked him! I want a transparent relationship. We had a relationship before their wedding, but ... well, they had to get married, we broke up. When we saw each other later ... love does not stop with reason, nor with the wisdom of society, nor with the prohibitions of morality, does it. I am glad for you that you are one of those smart people who know that the fault is our own relationship with the other (be it a husband, a friend, a parent, etc.) is not sought outside of this relationship. You have my admiration for that. It only makes me angry when someone starts pouring morale. He's like this and like that, he's fine like that, you, you fixed his life, he fixed his, right? And it's such nonsense. And I think - I am a young, attractive and smart woman who continues to work, study, meet new people, go out with friends. The mistress is the gloomy, lonely and expectant being, if she chooses to be. But if he chooses to love - I really do not see what the problem is not to live his story.
19 pinkboy12 answered
Very interesting, number 17, 18, 19 .... I had not written here, I would not like to take a side, but when I read here - it seems to me (as a third and objective person) that exactly number 17 (mistress!) especially here is quite educated, successful and happy young lady, while her opponents can't even step on her little finger with their primitive way of "discussing". Let anyone read your comments and they would confirm my opinion. Otherwise, in my opinion, 17. she has considered her situation quite well. It is no coincidence that even the church gives us the so-called free will to release God from the responsibility for failures in our lives, in the world. Like Dostoevsky, I believe that the intelligent, educated is more than the simple, the criminal and the loser, but unfortunately his responsibility is greater, but he can also bear it - that is, he is allowed more than the last illiterate and peasant. It's one thing to be an elementary model and to knock someone Mitko P., to receive a gift and to whistle, it's another to be like 17. She quite consciously lives her life and enjoys it, so she decided on her relationship. This is a very difficult position, because one day, when the drama begins (and it will), women like 17 will not be able to blame anyone, but will take the blame for their failed and lonely life on their shoulders. I admire at 17, her intellect and her courage, but I know that she will suffer and she will have to drink the cup of bitterness of this love to the bottom. The couple in the marriage will give birth to children, will build material and social well-being, while 17 will build perhaps only her career and I wish her to become a real workaholic. I see you're a well-read woman, number 17, there are many books on the market (mostly in English) for lovers. These "fam fatals" have even ruled countries (Madame Pompadour), occupy key positions (the editor of Cosmopolitan Great Britain) ... work in this direction so that you can build something too. You're right, life is short, but it's also unpredictable - time passes quickly, you can wake up like a single grandmother, live to 90 ... try to rise professionally in spite of the envious. Money and a career will give you the social status and freedom that wives can dream of. Good luck, I don't approve of your way of life, but I adore well-read and intelligent people, which unfortunately your opponents are not! Marie hold key positions (the editor of Cosmopolitan UK) ... work in this direction so that you can build something too. You're right, life is short, but it's also unpredictable - time passes quickly, you can wake up like a single grandmother, live to 90 ... try to rise professionally in spite of the envious. Money and a career will give you the social status and freedom that wives can dream of. Good luck, I do not approve of your way of life, but I adore well-read and intelligent people, which unfortunately your opponents are not! Marie hold key positions (the editor of Cosmopolitan UK) ... work in this direction so that you can build something too. You're right, life is short, but it's also unpredictable - time passes quickly, you can wake up like a single grandmother, live to 90 ... try to rise professionally in spite of the envious. Money and a career will give you the social status and freedom that wives can dream of. Good luck, I do not approve of your way of life, but I adore well-read and intelligent people, which unfortunately your opponents are not! Marie Money and a career will give you the social status and freedom that wives can dream of. Good luck, I do not approve of your way of life, but I adore well-read and intelligent people, which unfortunately your opponents are not! Marie Money and a career will give you the social status and freedom that wives can dream of. Good luck, I do not approve of your way of life, but I adore well-read and intelligent people, which unfortunately your opponents are not! Marie
20 jeromelamaar answered
Marie and I admire her! : D There is a show about a polygamist. I recommend it to 17, and to you, after we saw your thoughts in another topic. ;)
21 spangle01 answered
17 to 21 Hello, Marie! I'll start with your last sentence. Before I loved this man, I not only denounced women like me, for me they were the mats of society. A busy man (relationship, engagement, marriage) was a forbidden man for me. Why are so many free men pushing my girlfriends (who have shared with me) into foreign relationships? they were funny to me even until I passed this side and saw what I was talking about. The lesson is hard, you change your views, you rise above judging. But some lessons are like that. My "opponents," as you call them, are simply unopened beings who are guided by general formulas of morality. About suffering. You know, I suffered, I suffered a lot. This man and I were making plans for the future, we had similar interests, a very strong friendship had been formed, based on trust and respect, then tenderness, care, anxiety blossomed. We had even come up with children's names - I remember we often argued about that. He had to part with his girlfriend, but he was waiting for the right moment. And he never came - she had either left for a few days, or her mother was ill. When she found out about us (he admitted that we have been "dating" for a long time, and we have had a sexual relationship for a month), she said that he could not leave her because she was pregnant. :) Movie! !! !! We broke up, we lost each other, we imposed a full distance, but come stop the thoughts in the evening and the fast heartbeat when you remember a joke? !! No, people, this does not stop ... Is it suffering? I am over it! It was so strong I could barely breathe in pain. Who has not watched from the side, hidden in the corner, how the creature who marries another, he can never understand this pain. Nor can he understand this love that makes you whisper through tears, "Take care of him, take care of him as I would. Don't hurt him, don't make him feel lonely, sad. Love. a lot of it! ”But this cruel pain is a path to yourself. And when you poke inside yourself, you find paths and questions. :) Now I can't be unhappy because I know what suffering is. Our soul does not suffer, it is bright, strong and joy is the thing that develops it. I love, I'm capable of a shaking feeling and I even allow myself to be a little proud of it. :) And as for intelligence - thank you for noticing this. And something for which you have my sincere congratulations. Life is unpredictable! I may die tomorrow, I may meet someone tomorrow, to whom I will want to stay in my life and build a family, tomorrow I can go somewhere, tomorrow, tomorrow thousands of things can happen ... that's why I live today. I live the way I want to live, I am full of love and joy and I believe that this will plant good seeds that I will reap tomorrow. I fiercely follow my career, but I am not a workaholic, because the field in which I have chosen to develop denies workaholism and regards it as something extremely unnecessary and harmful. Thanks for your comment, Marie! It will be interesting for me to talk about other things or the topic. I like to communicate with different people. I think that very soon you will have some beautiful adjustments that will purify your soul ... and when the world reveals its colors to you, it is an incredible moment! Greetings! that is why I live today. I live as I want to live, I am full of love and joy and I believe that this will plant good seeds to reap tomorrow. I fiercely follow my career, but I am not a workaholic, because the field in which I have chosen to develop denies workaholism and regards it as something extremely unnecessary and harmful. Thanks for your comment, Marie! It will be interesting for me to talk about other things or the topic. I like to communicate with different people. I think that very soon you will have some beautiful adjustments that will purify your soul ... and when the world reveals its colors to you, it is an incredible moment! Greetings! that is why I live today. I live as I want to live, I am full of love and joy and I believe that this will plant good seeds to reap tomorrow. I fiercely pursue my career, but I am not a workaholic, because the field in which I have chosen to develop denies workaholism and regards it as something extremely unnecessary and harmful. Thanks for your comment, Marie! It will be interesting for me to talk about other things or the topic. I like to communicate with different people. I think that very soon you will have some beautiful adjustments that will purify your soul ... and when the world reveals its colors to you, it is an incredible moment! Greetings! in which I have chosen to develop, he denies workaholism and regards it as something extremely unnecessary and harmful. Thanks for your comment, Marie! It will be interesting for me to talk about other things or the topic. I like to communicate with different people. I think that very soon you will have some beautiful adjustments that will purify your soul ... and when the world reveals its colors to you, it is an incredible moment! Greetings! in which I have chosen to develop, he denies workaholism and regards it as something extremely unnecessary and harmful. Thanks for your comment, Marie! It will be interesting for me to talk about other things or the topic. I like to communicate with different people. I think that very soon you will have some beautiful adjustments that will purify your soul ... and when the world reveals its colors to you, it is an incredible moment! Greetings!
22 thekidlaroi answered
number 22, you know, I love living in big cities because I don't care about the lives of others, mine is also my personal business - there was a song "Who does what he does for himself." I do not want to discuss the lifestyle of 17, but even the naked eye can see that the lady is very educated and intelligent. For example, if she recommended that I watch a "show for a polygamist," I'm pretty sure she'd figure out what that "show" is called and when and where to watch it. There is a difference between an intellectual and an uneducated woman, don't be angry, but it's true. You will see these differences in the work, in the way of communication, in the argumentation. I'm not saying that one is better than the other, I'm just personally avoiding the second category, because I know from personal experience that it tends to extremes, gossip, false morality, envy, revenge and cruelty. I don't want to take sides - let everyone live as they want, but I can't hide my addiction to educated and intelligent people, regardless of their personal life - if it doesn't hurt me, what do I care? So far, I have consistently expressed hatred only for married MEN who make fun of women, and if this was the topic here, I would not spare a fierce comment. Not that they did anything to me, but I am in solidarity with women and I am of the opinion that women should support each other more, instead of eating each other and interfering in their lives. Marie what am i interested in So far, I have consistently expressed hatred only for married MEN who make fun of women, and if this was the topic here, I would not spare a fierce comment. Not that they did anything to me, but I am in solidarity with women and I am of the opinion that women should support each other more, instead of eating each other and interfering in their lives. Marie what am i interested in So far, I have consistently expressed hatred only for married MEN who make fun of women, and if this was the topic here, I would not spare a fierce comment. Not that they did anything to me, but I am in solidarity with women and I am of the opinion that women should support each other more, instead of eating each other and interfering in their lives. Marie
23 strong1couple answered
from 17 to 19 Hello! I do not see infantilism in my comment! Rather insufficient orderliness of judgment, but what :) I love a liar - well! And who said that liars should not be loved? And who said killers shouldn't love each other? Let's ask their mothers if they love them. Everyone needs love, and if you can accept the other person with his shortcomings and advantages, I think we can safely call him even "true love" I ask if his wife knows, because I think he knows - intuitively, but he says that this is not so! I just want to take a step forward and avoid some ugly clashes that will be extremely unnecessary for anyone. So what do you say about calm? No, he is not calm! But she's also damn suspicious and "keeps it short" - it's their job. Before I couldn't hide, I wanted to separate them, I wanted it for me and that's it. That was infantile. Now I clearly realize that I do not want to be the reason for such a thing. When two people separate, let them separate, because they both understand that they are not happy together. When the cause is a third person, which of them will have learned the lesson? Open your souls, ladies! There are many fun and interesting truths that you will be much happier once you get there!
24 nastyhotpussy69 answered
to 17 - I don't feel sorry for you at all. In this life I pity only the poor in spirit, the rest simple, for reasons beyond their control, the intellectually retarded, the mentally ill, the poor in spirit, the petrified, the false moralists, the unfortunates, the insignificant and mentally limited people .... and you are not like that. What can I tell you, in my life I try to get together with people like you, because we speak to them in a similar language. I was brought up not to discriminate against people and so I had allowed a lot of the above category in my life, which out of envy and simplicity hurt me a lot. Unfortunately, people like you and me attract them, just as honey attracts flies. By CONSCIOUSLY deviating from their lost norm of behavior, you are just another victim for them. They do the same with wives who choose not to divorce, despite the infidelities of her husband, with the infidels in general, with the homosexuals .... in general with people who have had the "misfortune" to break their boundaries. I don't like the way you live - I think your love is a weakness that will eat you in the heart for a long time, but I like the way you look at things, I like the way you are arranged - you are not poisoned by hatred for your wife or the man. My personal position is, I will allow myself to intervene anyway, because we are online, if she was my friend - I would be silent - I think the wife in this case by some absurd number of fate is the "second" - she is weak in the triangle that provokes the protection of the man. That's her great power over you, otherwise I don't believe she's any better or smarter, simply as a strong and ambitious intellectual you are not a spoon for every mouth and the man has obviously found in her an object of his protective feelings. It is strange, because usually, in my opinion, the wife is the strong one, and in the mistress the men look for a woman to protect. I also don't like the fact that they got married because of her pregnancy - a very unfortunate attempt to keep a man, which I personally reject because I consider myself valuable enough to look for such a hook for a man. I don't know, 17 - if it was a casino, I would bet BGN 1,000 that you would suffer again as you suffered. The solution to the problem is temporary. If you were a simpler person, you wouldn't suffer so much, but I'm afraid that your intelligence and your tendency to analyze philosophically, to take responsibility, will play a bad joke on you and you alone will be the victim. In your case, there is something very interesting - usually in such relationships, first comes the marriage, then the choice "she or she" ex post, for you the choice was ex ante, ie before you enter the role of mistress! !! !! he has already had the opportunity to choose between the two of you and has made his choice! !! !! If he wanted you, smart, ambitious and strong, he would not have caught the pitiful excuses and pitiful hooks of his current wife - he wanted just such a wife, dear - weak, resigned, a woman to live in his shadow, to him be a good housewife and mother of his children. You obviously weren't like that to him. He does not think that he had no right to choose - he had what! Marie before you enter the role of mistress! !! !! he has already had the opportunity to choose between the two of you and has made his choice! !! !! If he wanted you, smart, ambitious and strong, he would not have caught the pitiful excuses and pitiful hooks of his current wife - he wanted just such a wife, dear - weak, resigned, a woman to live in his shadow, to be a good housewife and mother of his children. You obviously weren't like that to him. Do not think that he had no choice - he had what! Marie before you enter the role of mistress! !! !! he has already had the opportunity to choose between the two of you and has made his choice! !! !! If he wanted you, smart, ambitious and strong, he would not have caught the pitiful excuses and pitiful hooks of his current wife - he wanted just such a wife, dear - weak, resigned, a woman to live in his shadow, to be a good housewife and mother of his children. You obviously weren't like that to him. He does not think that he had no right to choose - he had what! Marie to be a good housewife and mother to his children. You obviously weren't like that to him. He does not think that he had no right to choose - he had what! Marie to be a good housewife and mother to his children. You obviously weren't like that to him. Do not think that he had no choice - he had what! Marie
25 buttsunlimited answered
Thanks for the personal intervention! First on the subject of suffering. We are beings of energy who have taken on a material form in order to walk through the world and gather experiences that develop our true selves. And the energy does not suffer, does not doubt, does not hate, does not blame - it just E! This energy is the energy of Love, which has infinitely strong creative power. That with the casino was a good statement! Now to share a little. I'm not expecting anything, you know? I don't expect him to always love me, I don't expect him to take care of me, I don't expect him to divorce me, I don't expect us to get married. He made his choice. Do it not with your heart, but in the tone of that frame - Fear, what people will say ... you know how it is. The child is just a "mask". Yes, she is a weak woman and yes she suffers and yes, he is not happy and yes, she is not happy. But they have to find out for themselves, I just feel it! So about the choice ... He made his choice - right, wrong - it doesn't matter. He was needed to teach his soul something. I then had my choice - to go back or continue to stay "aside" and miss him. To date, I am only with him, most likely I will soon ask for a relationship that fills the loneliness and I will boldly approach it. Then again he will have the right to choose, etc. We make our choices every day. I don't know if you would like it, but I think it will be interesting for you to get acquainted with the "Seven Spiritual Laws of Success" by Deepak Chopra. Wait, I'll leave you a link http://pims.ucoz.net/load/knigi/okultizm/5-1-0-180 There is a download form here ... but there are a lot of things that Google finds in Google!
26 hothotsensual answered
Marie, I'm 22. I didn't say the name on purpose (how unintelligent I am: D), but fine. It was translated by The Polygamist. If you are interested you can look at it. I said it in connection with something she wrote 17: "... you somehow love even the woman who loves you as a wife." . In the show in question, the wives shared how they treated each other and even chose each other. I don't know what 17 is, but whatever it is, I think it's wrong. This is from me. :)
27 KatrinaHendrix answered
to 28 ... thanks, now I remembered that I saw this film's description months ago, I don't need a translation, but I just didn't like it - another American vomit for unloading. I do not imagine that such films are made to reveal reality to us, but on the contrary - to entertain and detach us from it. I admit that I am hungry for such films, even House is currently running, but I do not take them seriously. Until the 17th - I will write to you! This from me, I said (I said too much) even what I think this from me, I will not bore you anymore Marie
28 vanexel31 answered
I see how hard you spat № 17. Of course you chose your expressions quite carefully, because you correctly felt that she was a very intelligent woman. However, you missed something very important! A truth she says that I will allow myself to repeat in her words: "... Their marriage is going well - the relationship between the spouses is not going well. Something is not clarified, something is missing, maybe it can be solved, it is decided with a third person, perhaps it is surmountable, perhaps - the cases are different.But it is the habit of offended wives to look for guilt not in themselves and in their own relationships with their husbands, but in the third person, who you see one hundred percent did magic to him or is a vile whore that has been offered forever. "For all of you who disapprove of this woman and who have a bad relationship with their husbands. You have two options: 1. You clarify what (where) the problem is and try to solve it. If it happens, you win a second chance (don't miss it). Otherwise you win again, although you may not believe it (in this case you will have to endure emotions with a negative sign - but there is no rule that only good things will happen to us in life). 2. You become a nervous, angry, grumpy and self-pitying woman, to whom everyone else (mistress, husband ...) is to blame. Dear ladies. Understand that most men will not seek a relationship outside the family if something does not drive them. In very few cases, this is their nature, no matter how unbelievable. THE MISTRESS IS A CONSEQUENCE, NOT A CAUSE. Don't forget it! Success! Male at 40 although you may not believe it (in this case you will have to endure emotions with a negative sign - but there is no rule that only good things will happen to us in life). 2. You become a nervous, angry, grumpy and self-pitying woman, to whom everyone else (mistress, husband ...) is to blame. Dear ladies. Understand that most men will not seek a relationship outside the family if something does not drive them. In very few cases, this is their nature, no matter how unbelievable. THE MISTRESS IS A CONSEQUENCE, NOT A CAUSE. Don't forget it! Success! Male at 40 although you may not believe it (in this case you will have to endure emotions with a negative sign - but there is no rule that only good things will happen to us in life). 2. You become a nervous, angry, grumpy and self-pitying woman, to whom everyone else (mistress, husband ...) is to blame. Dear ladies. Understand that most men will not seek a relationship outside the family if something does not drive them. In very few cases, this is their nature, no matter how unbelievable. THE MISTRESS IS A CONSEQUENCE, NOT A CAUSE. Don't forget it! Success! Male at 40 that most men will not seek a relationship outside the family if something does not drive them. In very few cases, this is their nature, no matter how unbelievable. THE MISTRESS IS A CONSEQUENCE, NOT A CAUSE. Don't forget it! Success! Male at 40 that most men will not seek a relationship outside the family if something does not drive them. In very few cases, this is their nature, no matter how unbelievable. THE MISTRESS IS A CONSEQUENCE, NOT A CAUSE. Don't forget it! Success! Male at 40
29 karthik answered
A man of 40, I disapprove of neither men nor women who cheat, nor their lovers. I do not have any such problems personally. ;) Not only vicious, as you put it, wives disapprove of these things. You seem very hypocritical to me, because this is not about gender, but about infidelity in general. If the sexes in a particular situation were exchanged, you would not be so defending 17.
30 whoreganicgoods answered
№33, it's one thing to "disapprove" and quite another to get into a situation you don't approve of! The question is from there - what do we do next? Don't think of yourself as insured! No one is ... It is certain that if it happens to you, you will completely change your views and understandings. Take a closer look at the site - stories that start in style are not uncommon: "I never thought I would get involved in such a relationship. If someone had told me a year ago that this would happen to me, I would have laughed in the face - I did not approve at all and strongly condemned such actions ... "etc. People, be more tolerant of dissenters and those who experience differently, that tomorrow you may find yourself in their place, no matter how absurd make that sound to you today.
31 boompanotdotcom answered
№ I am 32. I have forgotten to clarify that everything I have said is fully valid in the opposite case. In this case, I have allowed myself to speak of women, as the author is a woman, № 17 also as far as I can see. And most of the attackers, too. I hope the explanation is enough. Still, let's not forget what this is about. The problem is not in the lovers whether they are men or women. As I said, they are a consequence, not a cause. The problem is in the relationship, which creates a need for a third person. And as we know, every need that arises sooner or later is satisfied. Whether someone approves of it or not. Therefore, if you want to do something meaningful, find the causes of such needs and eliminate them. To attack the consequences, to be dissatisfied with them, to feel sorry for oneself, etc., etc., is at least stupid and fruitless.
32 cassyw answered
Ah, we wrote with the gentleman at the same time :))) In a relationship there is always something missing. I have not seen a perfect. The question is, what did the seeker do outside before looking? I do not see a word for this, but always transfer the responsibility to a sound head. Um, of course, yes, I know this, why it's something known as a divorce. And the psychology of falling in love has long been explained - you begin to emphasize only the positive features of the passion and only the negative features of the old relationship. Until the "awakening" came. And the gentleman to delude himself that at home they will look for the cause in the investigation. If so, rejoice that some of his guilt is being shifted to an unnecessary place and the energy has been diverted to the wrong place. All the energy should be for the jester to you, because you do not have the courage to lift your ass from your relationship, and hide like a mollusk and recite mantras for your solace. Yes, and your partner is not perfect, but you are not the prince of the white horse. The most common reason for male infidelity is not so much falling in love, but the fact that in front of his partner he feels naked - with all its flaws. The need for someone's eyes to be the perfect man is the main engine. Well, that can't be, after he's farted under the covers ... or more beautifully: "what a joy it is to ride with the children and the wife in the new car, when I can brag in front of someone" sensitive ". female infidelity is the feeling of being loved, no matter who imagines it. The most common reason for male infidelity is not so much falling in love, but the fact that in front of his partner he feels naked - with all its flaws. The need for someone's eyes to be the perfect man is the main engine. Well, that can't be, after he's farted under the covers ... or more beautifully: "what a joy it is to ride with the children and the wife in the new car, when I can brag in front of someone" sensitive ". female infidelity is the feeling of being loved, no matter who imagines it. The most common reason for male infidelity is not so much falling in love, but the fact that in front of his partner he feels naked - with all its flaws. The need for someone's eyes to be the perfect man is the main engine. Well, that can't be, after he's farted under the covers ... or more beautifully: "what a joy it is to ride with the children and the wife in the new car, when I can brag in front of someone" sensitive ". female infidelity is the feeling of being loved, no matter who imagines it. as you can show off in front of some "sensitive". While in female infidelity it is the feeling of being loved. No matter who imagines it. as you can show off in front of some "sensitive". While in female infidelity it is the feeling of being loved. No matter who imagines it.
33 breatross answered
From № 32 or the gentleman with whom № 37 she wrote at the same time. I do not understand the hostility (to put it mildly) with which you speak to me. As far as I remember HERE we comment on what the author shared, not my story or yours. Why the author did not share her efforts to keep her relationship, I do not know and I can not be responsible for that. However, what makes you talk without knowing anything about me I can not explain. Frankly, I don't want to. What gives you reason to think that someone wants or should beat my jester? In any case, it's not me. Despite the complete lack of information, you comment and analyze me. Without a database, however, any analysis is doomed to be at least inaccurate! Finally, let me tell you something about myself. I really am not a prince and I have neither a white nor any other horse. Besides, I don't need to brag to anyone. As for my partner, I will have to disappoint you. There is no such thing for a long time. And the reason is that, contrary to your opinion, I had the courage to lift my ass out of our relationship. And if you can, be so kind as not to accuse me now of being such a filthy filth because I left my wife. After all, at least you don't know the reasons! And with your last sentence you seem to be trying to justify female infidelity. If I misunderstood you, I hope you will excuse me. However, if I am right, I would be happy to explain the existence of this double standard in a relationship. be so kind as not to accuse me now of being so filthy that I have left my wife. After all, at least you don't know the reasons! And with your last sentence you seem to be trying to justify female infidelity. If I misunderstood you, I hope you will excuse me. However, if I am right, I would be happy to explain the existence of this double standard in a relationship. be so kind as not to accuse me now of being so filthy that I have left my wife. After all, at least you don't know the reasons! And with your last sentence you seem to be trying to justify female infidelity. If I misunderstood you, I hope you will excuse me. However, if I am right, I would be happy to explain the existence of this double standard in a relationship.
34 april____ answered
From 37: I don't know if you notice that post 36 is missing. It's the one when we wrote together. Due to its lack (it may not have been liked by the censors), there are some misconceptions. And with your first post, you unequivocally explain only one seemingly situation about the consequences of the surprised partner (you were referring to the female sex). I pointed to another based on life experience. It is very noble of you to have separated from your partner before secretly looking for another, dissatisfied with your life together. From your first post, one is left with the opposite impression - almost an empirical approach to this problem of corners, which is so widespread in our society. I have read many opinions on the net about them. I don't have a driving standard, and observations about the differences in the lead between the two sexes are unfaithful. But I found a common mistake - no one looks for guilt in themselves. The greatest is the guilt of the one who is being cheated on - that he has confided in the person next to him, the lesser is the guilt of the cheating person - that he does not have the courage to separate and have an open conversation with the person with whom he shares joys and pains. the least is the fault of the third, the fourth ... the ones in the corners - they want so much from life - if ... until the "beloved" asks for them. Despicable souls are those who cheat and persist in family relationships with their spouses. You will not accuse me of having criteria for human relationships, from which I can determine who I consider a true friend, who a true business partner, who a family partner. Life is too short to squander hypocrisy and false friendship. the lesser is the guilt of the adulterer - that there is no courage for separation and for an open conversation with the person with whom they share joys and pains, and the least is the guilt of the third, fourth ... ones in the corners - they are so they want from life - if .. until the "beloved" asks them. Despicable souls are those who cheat and persist in family relationships with their spouses. You will not accuse me of having criteria for human relationships, from which I can determine who I consider a true friend, who a true business partner, who a family partner. Life is too short to squander hypocrisy and false friendship. the lesser is the guilt of the adulterer - that there is no courage for separation and for an open conversation with the person with whom they share joys and pains, and the least is the guilt of the third, fourth ... ones in the corners - they are so they want from life - if .. until the "beloved" asks them. Despicable souls are those who cheat and persist in family relationships with their spouses. You will not accuse me of having criteria for human relationships, from which I can determine who I consider a true friend, who a true business partner, who a family partner. Life is too short to squander hypocrisy and false friendship.
35 ivybeblue answered
I was in two different positions I had a relationship while I was married and I had a relationship with a married man when I was single :)) I would say about the author's comment that the normal behavior of a person regardless of gender would be to break up with the partner in question. everything else is not excuses :)))) to forget about the excuses with the children but so it is in Bulgaria 90% like to hide behind the children because it is more convenient and avoid making a decision but forget that this is exactly how they go against the children :))))) why one of you difficult decisions do not become more responsible and do not really think about the children ... why do not you remember that these children will create the same unhappy families as yours ... a person is born as a blank slate on which experience writesand knowledge is experienced ---- John Locke --------- A child is a blank board and parents knowledge and what knowledge you will write on this blank board .... how will you build this plasticine and create from it strong and sane person :))))) There is no way to get up while hiding and so they will think that this is the family I give unhappy parents ... And the second option free with married is difficult for the simple reason that the married man has found a trash can and a woman to comply with it at the right time and in the right place without realizing that this woman or this girl is free and if he likes his family it is desirable not to give vain hopes to the other and if it is decided to drown his grief over the unhappy family, it is better to make a decision, but this is difficult for the Bulgarian :)))))) we have selfishness ...and this applies to all abandoned ----- indiscriminate sex is the best antidepressant :))))
36 Country_1990 answered
My first husband in life was married, but he hid it from me so I wouldn't leave him, because he knew very well that I wouldn't let him touch me if I knew anything like that. It was only after he won my love that he decided to admit his lie. Not to mention. that his wife knew about me all the time, but she persevered not to leave her. At one point, she started harassing me on the phone at night and insulting me, instead of trying to talk to me, she made fun of me and laughed, which is why I hated her a lot, because if she had told me from the beginning, I would not have lost so long to believe that he is a free man, and then when he saw that he did not give up on me and decided to do fairs, for which she is to blame, but anyway. I share this because it does not hurt so much from unshared feelings, as much as the lie and the fact that you lived in a fictional world, unreal for years. Married men never give up anything, they are so comfortable with a maid at home and a mistress for fun. The truth is that such men love only themselves and deserve to be abandoned by both their wives and their lovers.
37 therealmebish answered
From 32 to 37. It is possible that the misconceptions you mentioned have occurred. It is completely normal to comment on a situation and that is the author's. If you want us to comment on another like this, you could post a topic. Otherwise, things seem to blur and a jump from topic to topic begins, until finally the essence is lost. At least i think so. In addition, I want to assure you that my action is far from motivated by noble motives. I am an extremely pragmatic person and my actions are determined by whether something is practical or not. Since something important is missing in my relationship, it is absolutely pointless to continue it. A complete waste of time, effort and whatever else you can think of. As for the empirical approach you mention, you should know that I have long been convinced that it is the least applicable to the matter under discussion (of angles). Leading in the two sexes may be different, but in each case it is different in each of them. And it does not have to be the desire to be loved, as you claim. Examples as much as you want, just look around. About guilt. I do not bend over to judge whose guilt is the greatest. After all, there is never just one reason for something to happen, is there? Without defending the thesis of the greatest guilt of lying, however, I will try to give a possible explanation for it. In this case, it can be reasoned as follows. After a person has cheated on his partner, he is guilty because he did not judge the person against himself correctly. It makes sense, doesn't it? As you can see, if a person decides and has a little intelligence in his head, he can justify almost anything. However, each case in my opinion is individual and should be considered as such, without summarizing only on it for other similar cases. I am far from any accusations against you. You are a living person and as such you have the right to everything human :) And to criteria, and to mistakes, and to bias, and to dislike and whatever else you can think of. I would only allow myself to recommend you not to rush with the summaries. And with your opinion about life, I will allow myself to agree. It is long enough to allow us to do whatever we want. It's so long that even if we make a mistake somewhere (and oh a few times), there's time to fix it. I wish you luck You are a living person and as such you have the right to everything human :) And to criteria, and to mistakes, and to bias, and to dislike and whatever else you can think of. I would only allow myself to recommend you not to rush with the summaries. And I will allow myself to agree with your opinion about life. It is long enough to allow us to do whatever we want. It's so long that even if we make a mistake somewhere (and oh a few times), there's time to fix it. I wish you luck You are a living person and as such you have the right to everything human :) And to criteria, and to mistakes, and to bias, and to dislike and whatever else you can think of. I would only allow myself to recommend you not to rush with the summaries. And I will allow myself to agree with your opinion about life. It is long enough to allow us to do whatever we want. It's so long that even if we make a mistake somewhere (and oh a few times), there's time to fix it. I wish you luck that even if we make a mistake somewhere (and oh a few times), there is still time to fix it. I wish you luck that even if we make a mistake somewhere (and oh a few times), there is still time to fix it. I wish you luck
38 oh_molly answered
number 8, if you are such good wives, your husbands would not look for each other .. obviously you do not give everything to men, lovers are not to blame
39 fashiondads_ answered
correct number 43 ... here I am to the man next to me when I give him everything he is not looking for anything extra :))))))) and we are constantly looking for him or me or I him ... sometimes to raise our mood we write SMS -and while we are at work ... obviously we have received both well in our first attempt and now we have succeeded in the second :)))))
40 cinek86 answered
Nice comments! Both "for" and "against". I opened the topic because I am one of YOU. And from YOU. I have been married for 17 years. In the 3rd or 4th year of marriage, I realized that I was not the "chosen one of the heart", but a compromise. I loved him very much to leave. I asked myself: Where did I go wrong? I tried to look for all the answers. I talked to him, 'he denied. I initiated a meeting with the "chosen one", a family meeting - her husband, mine, the two of us, the children. You just feel the magnetism flowing between them. And you feel superfluous. It doesn't hurt, you learn where your place is. Later followed by another, this time a "mistress". Apparently, the imposed decision (due to the parents' opinion) on which one to marry (he had a choice - me or the first one) weighed on my husband. He started drinking, being late, companies ... I became a workaholic. I got a little smarter - I decided that things had come to an end, we should separate and not torment each other. And then he found himself in shaky health. I started to help him and help him as much as I could to strengthen him. Still, I told myself, he needed a friendly shoulder. Um, of course, yes, I know this, why it's something known in advance. The sex thinned out and stopped altogether. And I didn't feel like having sex, but not at all. I tried to quell my sentimental thrills with a large dose of tearful soap operas in which Sandra Bullock met the love of her life. So I stumbled upon an ad on a dating site. Of course, this cannot happen to me. "I'm just going to have some fun, a little bit of everyday life." In the beginning - worn-out phrases, unforgettable faces ... But you feel wanted. The thrill of sex came. Disposable, no acquaintances, no commitments ... Until I came across ... A coward who tries to convince me how much he suffers with his wife, how I am the only one, but the child ... Because of the child. And then I recognized the grief. But that's not all. My husband suddenly woke up. He decided that he wanted a family and a full family life. He wants, at the cost of everything. He even threatened to divorce me so that I would tremble with fear and love him again. But this is not by order. I looked at him good-naturedly and replied, "Okay." Then he got scared and became shorter than the grass. Now I ask myself new questions: Why is it necessary to fasten and sew something that has long worn out? That the mistress is guilty I neither supported him when I loved him, nor do I believe him now that I am alone in this situation. Why, when you're married, things seem annoying to you, and when you cross the border, are they attractive? Because I am convinced that if, hypothetically, we are a family with my lover, we will bring him to the same end - suddenly I will see his shortcomings, he - mine and ... things will not be the same. Therefore, the problem is in our tolerance, to choose disadvantages, not advantages. Everyone knows how to live with the advantages of their partner, but how many can say that they tolerate, and not only tolerate, but also like his shortcomings? Do we accept marriage as a debt? So why do we grumble about love and attitude? Do we accept marriage as an expression of love? Then why do we burden him with responsibilities and obligations? Whatever I accept, I remain the same loner. And I know that this is only my decision, so I do not comment on the position of men. we are a family with my lover, we will bring him to the same end - suddenly I will see his shortcomings, he - mine and ... things will not be the same. Therefore, the problem is in our tolerance, to choose disadvantages, not advantages. Everyone knows how to live with the advantages of their partner, but how many can say that they tolerate, and not only tolerate, but also like his shortcomings? Do we accept marriage as a debt? So why do we grumble about love and attitude? Do we accept marriage as an expression of love? Then why do we burden him with responsibilities and obligations? Whatever I accept, I remain the same loner. And I know that this is only my decision, so I do not comment on the position of men. we are a family with my lover, we will bring him to the same end - suddenly I will see his shortcomings, he - mine and ... things will not be the same. Therefore, the problem is in our tolerance, to choose disadvantages, not advantages. Everyone knows how to live with the advantages of their partner, but how many can say that they tolerate, and not only tolerate, but also like his shortcomings? Do we accept marriage as a debt? So why do we grumble about love and attitude? Do we accept marriage as an expression of love? Then why do we burden him with responsibilities and obligations? Whatever I accept, I remain the same loner. And I know that this is only my decision, so I do not comment on the position of men. and not advantages. Everyone knows how to live with the advantages of their partner, but how many can say that they tolerate, and not only tolerate, but also like his shortcomings? Do we accept marriage as a debt? So why do we grumble about love and attitude? Do we accept marriage as an expression of love? Then why do we burden him with responsibilities and obligations? Whatever I accept, I remain the same loner. And I know that this is only my decision, so I do not comment on the position of men. and not advantages. Everyone knows how to live with the advantages of their partner, but how many can say that they tolerate, and not only tolerate, but also like his shortcomings? Do we accept marriage as a debt? So why do we grumble about love and attitude? Do we accept marriage as an expression of love? Then why do we burden him with responsibilities and obligations? Whatever I accept, I remain the same loner. And I know that this is only my decision, so I do not comment on the position of men.
41 HopeBlue answered
I am 43 years old and I have a girlfriend who is 42, she has a relationship with a man 16 years younger than her. I tried to influence her to leave him, I also said that he was too young, and that one day he would decide to have a home, a family, children ... Well, I achieved nothing, my voice remained a voice in the desert. I condemned her very harshly, but she kept saying that as long as he was not married he did not spoil anyone's family. Maybe she's right, but at one point I asked myself, "Who am I to judge her?"! Everyone who went to cheat has some reason to do so, but I couldn't stop judging her and one day ... I came across a man I really liked. I am married, he lives with another, they are not married, but they are together. I didn't want it to happen, I chased him, I blamed him and myself, I didn't want to hurt anyone, I tried thousands of times to end it. Nothing has happened between us yet, but when the time comes, I won't be able to stop, I don't have the strength to do it, and I don't want to. Why not experience something I want to experience? Yes, whatever has to happen will happen! I respect my husband, but it all stops there ... The other one? Will he give me what I miss? Who knows? I just want to tell you all - do not judge anyone, do not talk about these relationships and the people who are entangled in them badly, because you never know if you will not find yourself on the other side, namely, you to be spit / and. There is a very true Bulgarian proverb - BIG STONE - THROW, BIG WORD - DON'T SAY! Think about that, too. We will try not to hurt anyone, but one never knows what life will bring. I'm sorry all this is happening to me, but it's stronger than me, and I no longer have the strength to resist,
42 ametitz answered
I really liked the comment of 41. It was the same for me. What slop did not pour on me. I will not allow any man to lie to me. And nothing works for them, because after the slop he does not tolerate it, but lives with it as he says because of the children. His children are big, but he finds justification in them.
43 slicings answered
46, fate can bring us illness, death ..., but choosing before the dilemma "does this or that one love me" would not bother everyone. Do not think that all people are so vain that to have self-confidence depends on caressing their ego. I'm not judging anyone. Everyone finds a reason to justify their actions. And if the children don't pay attention to you, do you stop loving them? Or is it something else? It's not - there are feelings again, but here we forgive easily. Are you looking for something outside of your relationship, why are you staying in it at all? How much simpler and more honest it is to be free and constantly looking for thrills. Only this brings you happiness. But ... children such people should not watch.
44 kimberly_black answered
And which people should look after children? Aren't you from social?
45 anyageraldine answered
.... '' But ... children such people should not watch. '' ... Ha ... It was a big crack. 48, here your morality has really come in more! paradoxically
46 sinyoritaesperanza answered
TO THE AUTHOR-Come on, as long as ... things are not going well with them, but because of the children ... As long as there were people, as long as you involved these children ... as long as you always have your children with this cliché-justification ... If you really don't understand and cannot live together will separate. The children will be their children again. They will see both mother and father, and they will probably live better, instead of watching angry faces at home and attending scandals. So when someone justifies himself with the children (otherwise family life is a horror), then the truth is completely different. I can't even believe that you believe that because of the children they will suffer such a life. They just cover your eyes with such words - you lovers think that nothing is going well in the family - but alas, they can't separate.
47 pscnacional20 answered
And what do you want? Is it a medal? You do not divorce because marriage, even if ineffective, provides some security. And you, you're a stupid middle-aged teenager who expects to be praised for sleeping with a married man ...
48 zajebista92 answered
Lovers think well before you go with a married man! In my easy way the first one fell to him led to a second, third, and --even, internet prematurity! Every night empty talk, on weekends at 8-9 o'clock Skype, we do not hear a word, we will be stubborn, it will happen as he said, etc.! Then infection, illness for months and then the end came! Well, that's it! Everything comes back, we guess, and God has us!
49 jansport answered
Well, this can happen and he is not married, so it doesn't make much sense what you wrote, it's better to get divorced knowing that he is cheating on you, I wonder why you were patient.
50 tanboy_kun answered
Don't do what you don't want them to do to you! Here are at least a dozen comments on the site, how yesterday's mistress suffers in the role of husband! You take a man who has cheated on his wife, you think that you are an exception, and now your turn is coming! The intelligent 17 is an incomparable selfish-extremely positive person? !! And does this person have a conscience? Did his wife know? And how will he not know? SMS, chat, skype, calls made in GSM, I think you underestimate it too much! Why do you lovers think wives are idiots! Answer - because busy men have paid attention to you! And why did they do it - to knock something different, to inflate their self-confidence, to kill the complexes, if they are older! And what to say to the mistress-wife in love from that moment on, their wife doesn't understand them, or they don't get anything at home, is something at home they are missing etc. nonsense? !! And I ask the intelligent 17 why, being so great for him is with the other! And №15 wants happiness at home and a lover to relax outside? !! Well, you're insolent! Happiness, happiness everywhere? !! Well done lady selfish! And what will happen one day - your husband will find out and by the time you feel it, you will see that they are cheating on you too! And, if you haven't felt anything strange by now, it has already happened! And lastly, all the lovers here write decrees how good they are, how they don't want to hurt, how well they do and such nonsense! Why? !! You seem to be justifying yourself and want the approval of the audience and have found fools here to applaud you! Or you can applaud yourself! Or the applause is from people like you! Well, I don't see why you write, when you are sure what good and moral deeds you have! What goes around comes around!!!
1 amornikki answered
Hello! I am in a similar situation, but with one difference - I am not married, but I have a relationship with a married man, with whom things are not going well and I do not feel guilty for being with him, I knew from the beginning how things are. However, I think that when it comes to infidelity in a family, it means that something is missing, and if so, you are looking for it elsewhere.