Hello, my story is as follows. I have had a boyfriend for 2 months. I am 28 years old, and before that I had other relationships, but in reality only 1 I consider serious about 4 years. My current girlfriend is 21 years old. My problem is this, I love her very much and I try to please her as much as I can and she says she loves me. He is very jealous of me and, as they say, he makes an elephant out of a fly. An example of this is that he realizes that I've looked at someone and all day he gets angry and even raises a scandal, but in reality there is nothing like that and a bunch of other such trifles. When she is angry, which I think is very often, she starts insulting, sometimes more directly, sometimes more subtly, but she always insults and shouts. At one point he tells me how I was the most beautiful, etc. In the next soil you do not pay attention to me, you do not love me ... The last recent example is a whole day together we walk to different places. I take her home to go to work and no indication of anything wrong. We talk, we write, we call until about 8 9 in the evening and at one point it stops, it doesn't return anything to me. In general, I don't see anything wrong, but the last time she always called when she left work, in many cases we saw each other after work, and the other day she just came home and called and didn't pick up, she didn't write. Nothing ... I ask her if there is a problem, she says something, you didn't become paranoid and decided to end the conversation.
If I didn't know her mood, I wouldn't ask her. So my question is, have I really become paranoid? How can you say in her moment that they don't pay enough attention to you and want more and longer conversations, and in the next one when I told her 3 times at least for a while to hear her not to reflect me: /. He keeps me on thorns for everything. I have a feeling he wants us to fight and get along every other day. This thing exhausts me a lot and bothers me mentally. I've talked to her many times and told her directly, but it's still true. I'm still guilty of something, and if I try to defend myself, it starts attacking me even more. In the moments when she is "good", there is simply no such person. It is unique! Until you think of something else. He literally changes his mood every day. One day so another. There are days when it can be good and bad. I don't know what to think anymore :( There are days when it can be good and bad. I don't know what to think anymore :( There are days when it can be good and bad. I don't know what to think anymore :(
1 michellhot_ answered
That it spins you on its finger. He's playing with you. Stop indulging, keep some distance, stay masculine and it will play out. Now you are easily accessible and stupid, uninteresting. Either she's seen someone else, or she's testing you on how you're going to react.