Hi! I'm in a terrible state... My family is falling apart, and I feel like everything is against me... In short, my story: I was born with a lot of love and desire. My parents have long wanted a second child. When I was about four or five years old, my parents started fighting, as my dad was quite nervous and took it out on everyone. He was physically and mentally harassing my older brother, who is still going through it. During these problems, my younger brother was conceived. So when I was 7-8, my parents divorced and we [the children] stayed with my mother. My mom and I fought all the time. I didn't let anyone come into my room, especially my younger brother, who always wanted to play. Then he hated me a lot and remembers it to this day. My father went to England, and for me and my mom to Italy. I've been through it even harder, I still remember being in fourth grade, and before March 8th all the kids were making gifts for their mothers... and I had no one to do... Today my mom is home and we live with me, my little brother and my mom (since my big brother is 23 years old). We fight all the time, and I can't take it anymore... Mom's extremely nervous and considering leaving again, and I can't get over it one more time. Yes, I admit that sometimes I'm really wrong, and there's a lot of things I have to change my character. So I ask you to give me some advice because I just want this pain to end and live as fully and happily as never before...
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latinape2019 answered · June 05, 2020
It's not clear why he wants to leave - are you short of money? Well, why don't you go with her and you? How big are you now? Perhaps you can settle with her, study at university abroad.
If you're not fighting for financial reasons, tell me more so we can advise you.
The best option for you is to finish school and go to university while working to be independent.
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vera_mark answered · June 05, 2020
Are you adults? If you're 18, realize mom's like you write, you're up to the point. Mom can go to work, you have no right, and it's wrong to dictate how they should live and what to do. You want something, and you don't care how to do that. Take your life, study and grow up. You're not the little girl mom can take care of. You're big now, you see things like that, but what exactly happened between your parents, how and why they split up, you can't control it. Besides, your story was written pretty vaguely, and how they gave you advice, as you didn't clearly lay out the facts. First look at what you can improve and be on your own.