Hello! I have a problem, if you can help me by advising me, I will be very grateful! I am a girl of 20 years. I have been having sex for 5 years, my current boyfriend is my 5th partner, but I have never had an orgasm! In the beginning, when I started having sex, I really didn't know what I was talking about and I couldn't talk about sexual pleasure at all. But already ... at this age, and even after my experience, this is quite desirable, but unfortunately obviously unattainable pleasure for me. I just can't and can't ...! I like it at times (and again to some extent), but only that much! Sometimes I feel like I'm going to finish and ... my friend is already ahead of me. And this is another problem, I even think it's the main one - it ends too fast - it's not too much, but I haven't detected it with a stopwatch for 5-6 minutes, but this is definitely NOT ENOUGH for me! And he doesn't even try again - he tells me "emmy what to do" - and I just freak out. Not only is it fast, but at most 1, maximum 2 times a day (before we did it more often, I can't explain but since we lived together his libido dropped). When I want, a nymphomaniac makes me again. It's easiest to buy a vibrator, but I don't want that either. I love him and I want to be with him, but sex really doesn't work for us. I try to talk to him, he says there is no problem ... but for me there is - I am irritable and dissatisfied! What to do - please give me advice! I will be very grateful! When I want, a nymphomaniac makes me again. It's easiest to buy a vibrator, but I don't want that either. I love him and I want to be with him, but sex really doesn't work for us. I try to talk to him, he says there is no problem ... but for me there is - I am irritable and dissatisfied! What to do - please give me advice! I will be very grateful! When I want, a nymphomaniac makes me again. It's easiest to buy a vibrator, but I don't want that either. I love him and I want to be with him, but sex really doesn't work for us. I try to talk to him, he says there is no problem ... but for me there is - I am irritable and dissatisfied! What to do - please give me advice! I will be very grateful!
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I can see your future ... I see you will make the mistake of sleeping with another man ... but you must be aware of the consequences. He will bite you from the inside and you will want to tell him but you will not have the courage. I know exactly what and when will happen to your life. PS I do not want to say that I am a fortune teller but that the life of this girl is as simple as life on the series.
It's not his fault, the man is set up like that, he finishes first, nature, what to do, in time you will adjust to do it together, but you need understanding from both and most of all communication
Soul, "well done" you started early, apparently with an immature organism. It will be difficult for you. Masturbate, this way you will get to know each other and you will reach orgasm easier. The man is not guilty 2-3 times a day is enough, just the initial euphoria is over, the hormones have subsided, you enjoy it too.
Yes very bad! I started at the age of 16, now I'm 19 and to this day I have not enjoyed sex :(
Do not rush with sex, pay attention to foreplay. Play for at least half an hour. The woman needs more time to adjust. Get to know yourself, find out exactly what excites you and fantasize. Personally, knowing my fantasies and knowing what I like, I can finish in three minutes, but getting to know each other is a long process. When you get to know each other, you will be able to finish. go back to your childhood and remember what excited you for the first time. Fantasize what has been and you will get used to it. Maybe as a child you had unpleasant experiences with sex.
From the author: To 1: Aren't you Nostradamus? As I wrote, it's easiest for me to buy a vibrator or cheat on it, BUT I DON'T want that .... To 5: Extremely rarely happens 2 times ... for 3 I just can't remember the last time it was. But how can I be satisfied - I agree once, but it's worth it ... to satisfy me! To 11: I don't remember having any unpleasant experiences that reflect on my current sex life! In general, I do not think that the problem is in me - I believe I can finish, but it takes more time for the sexual act itself and, as you wrote me - and the love game, but it never happens. Therefore, please advise me how to deal with my friend, what to tell him. It's not like there's no dialogue between us ... I've shared everything I've written with him, but as I said, he gets away with it, that I was insatiable, even a nymphomaniac. And every time I start this topic we quarrel - I see that he is uncomfortable talking about it?
It seems that your friend is bored because life has become monotonous. He started doing everything just out of habit. Invent some variety. Go somewhere else. Start touching and stroking him more often, even when you're not having sex. Stop talking to him just about how it ends. Start encouraging him for different things in life. Let him feel safe with you. Tell him that you don't have to have sex, but rather play and reassure him by finishing quickly that it doesn't matter. At first we had the same problem but I started to act like that and things gradually changed. But at the same time, I got to know myself. What I like and what he likes. Without criticizing him, I told him what I liked and asked him to do it. in a word, it boosted his confidence. From number 11
I'm sorry if I sound a little illiterate, I don't live in Bulgaria. I think you're right, your friend is too obsessed with his pleasures. You should talk to him about penis exercises. There are many websites for such exercises that will help him hold on longer! Try http://pegym.com/, I use it and it helps a lot. I hope I have helped and I am sorry again that I am illiterate.
My advice is to offer him, in a delicate way, of course, to use Viagra so that you can have sex longer, maybe then you will have a better chance of orgasm. Another thing I offer you is to gather your will and not let him go for a while, and when the time comes, he will ask for himself and will last longer.